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When your partner of ten years forgets to tell you that they’re taking cross sex hormones
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My trans wife started HRT and "forgot" to tell me.
We had agreed to have children, but I would have been fine if they just communicated with me. Not get me stuck in a fantasy. They have a history with lack of communication before transitioning. They spent months pretending to look for a job when they were just playing video games. They wouldn't talk about arrangements when her father died including what to do with his house. (She didn't even tell me when the family spread his ashes). We almost got evicted and she told me after a week. She hides financial stuff from me.
She changed a lot when she came out. She has more confidence and is happier, but there's stuff she still won't talk to me about that involves both of us. I finally realized she kept saying she wanted kids just to keep me around. If she doesn't lie about that kind of stuff her go to answer is I Don't Know.
I'm the only one they've dated so maybe they still don't know how to treat people in relationships. Her parents had an effed up marriage so maybe the example isn't there. It's frustrating. We've been together 10 years, am I a fool to keep wanting to be with her? Because I'm still in love with her, but sometimes I think she does stuff to have better control over me.
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