"Performativity Theory ..."being a woman means doing a subset of things that society has decided comprise womanhood."
So if a man does things that society deems comprise doghood -- barking, howling, pissing at walls, sticking his tongue out -- has he literally become a dog?
I DETEST Judith Butler and you should too. "Doing womanly things" is an expectation, not definition, of being woman.
"We are so much a 'self-made' species...'"
This is Sartrean bullshit. Even Sartre's contemporaries like de Beauvoir and Merleau-Ponty thought it is ridiculous.
My favorite part of the "woman means doing woman things" argument is that never once do these people ever give examples or definitive attributes of what they're talking about. Being a woman is doing woman things... okay, so give me an example. What things do women do? Explain yourselves.
They never do this, because they know deep down it's all bullshit. The minute you start listing "woman" behavior, you're going to run into three major problems.
What about women who don't do those things? Are they no longer women?
What about "trans women" who also don't do those things?
What about men who do those things but don't identify as women?
The minute you start listing behaviors, you're going to have to deal with those follow-up questions, and they know they can't answer those, so they leave it vague and undefined on purpose.
The seats on the London underground are apparently now crawling with bedbugs currently, like visibly in some cases.
There was a big infestation in Paris
And they got onto the trains
And then, I assume the Eurostar, and so into London.
Which means there's a high chance of them getting onto the trains going around the rest of the country.
Be vigilant.
(a small vignette: a friend of mine recently moved into a really miserable flat, and she was cleaning all day trying to convince herself it wasn't too bad, and then at the end of the day looked under the bed, saw a giant can of anti bed bug stuff, and burst into tears, lol)
Dude gets told what's what by his aunt so of course he comes running to the hugbox.
I want to throw this dude's aunt a party for being so based. I love her. And I haven't seen number 7 before, I'm going to remember that.
If it makes you feel better, I'm 99.9% certain that's a dood, between the username "envypenelope" and the fact that you can practically draw straight lines from the armpits down to the hips in the second photo.
"Local man finds out elastic stretches. Don't miss our upcoming at 11, where we discuss how it is absolutely a fetish."
He's also 44, I would bet cold hard cash he's skinwalking as an ex.
This is exactly how it started with a friend of mine from college who trooned out. Ordering women's clothes, making a big weird, secretive deal out of it, asking me and other people about his clothes. Now he's unemployed, on hormones, depressed all the time, and we've lost touch, haven't properly spoken in years. I occasionally wish I knew more about autogynephilia back then, so I could've told him not to do it. But I also don't think there's anything that I could've said that would have actually stopped him. The relentless nature of this fetish is scary. If you don't know about sexual fetishes, which a lot of normal people don't and which I certainly didn't at the time, you can't see how it operates. The problems it causes are so strange that you really can't see them coming. The other mental health problems that accompany it are so complex and difficult to deal with, for both the sufferer and the people around them.
I can understand being autistic enough to convince yourself that the opposite sex holds secret illuminati meetings in the toilets. I don't understand this though. Presumably these people have mums and dads?
I can understand being autistic enough to convince yourself that the opposite sex holds secret illuminati meetings in the toilets. I don't understand this though. Presumably these people have mums and dads?
I can understand being autistic enough to convince yourself that the opposite sex holds secret illuminati meetings in the toilets. I don't understand this though. Presumably these people have mums and dads?
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You know, I bet his marriage wouldn't be "circling the drain" if he would stop indulging in his gross fetish and accept that he is a man. I decided to look through his profile and found he also moderates a trans foot fetish sub (r/TransFeet). Imagine marrying a man, everything seems alright for 25 years, and at the ripe age of 54 when you think you can enjoy the later end of life together and retire soon you get hit with that bomb. They probably have their finances and property tied up together and separating at that age has got to be an ordeal that would He made his account 5 years ago to post & view foot fetish porn and flirt young women posting their feet, so he has been doing gross stuff behind his wife's back for a while.
Well that would explain all those weird Tinder matches I'm getting. I'll take "power bottom" off my list of likes. I know women call themselves mama bears, so I can still say "I'm a cub looking for his bear," right?
"My lady organs hurt."
"Here's some medicine to regulate your lady organs so they won't hurt any more."
"Noooooooo!"
I don’t want to take birth control but my doctor prescribed it
I have extremely painful periods. They are so bad that I can’t concentrate because of the immense pain in my legs, stomach, and head. My doctor prescribed me a bunch of pain meds, but none worked, and now she prescribed me the lowest dose of birth control… But I don’t want to take it. The idea of adding more female hormones to myself kinda kills me on the inside (like what if my chest gets bigger?). I feel like my dysphoria to taking the pill is worse than what I got from the pain since the pain comes for about six days a month but I’d be taking the pill EVERYDAY. Currently I’m just socially transition but I have an appointment to talk to an actual gender doctor in late July, and I wanted to talk to him about what options do I have to reduce my period dysphoria. I also want to take T in the future and don’t know if this birth control (I think it’s alesse or something) would affect it. I don’t know if I should just begin taking my prescribed pill or if it’s okay to just wait for my appointment. Help!
When suicide baiting doesn't work, you have to take the next step, the ultimate step, the irrevocable act ... you have to write a letter.
"I just needed to get this off my chest." We know, and we're tired of hearing about it.
TW: Contains talk about suicide
I told my nom that I have suicidal thoughts and I was planning on telling her that most of it relates to my dysphoria but she just called me selfish and ungrateful. That there are others out there who have it worse than me. That even though she forbid me from doing any "crap" (meaning me transitioning) that she still allows me to do certain things such as buy myself men's clothes and jewelry etc. I'm an adult who's currently doing adult school and still am dependant on her but before moving out, I had planned on writing her a letter on how much transitioning means to me but if this is how she reacts to me just mentioning suicide then... I don't know anymore. I had hoped that she would atleast hear me out but, I guess that's never going to happen. I get that my life could've been way worse than this but it hurts and it's incredibly lonely when you have no one to ask for help.
Anyway, I just needed to get this off my chest.
I can't keep up with all the genders and sexualities here so I'm not sure if this was a burn or not, but it landed like one and that's all that matters:
Your joke wasn't the only thing that's cringe. "My bitmoji is male and everything."
Theres this one transphobic girl that always got to misgender me in any way. I havent known her before i was trans, but she is literally ruining my life. She has made multiple jokes about trans people, in a bad way. She also once said "i dont care what people identify as, just as long as they understand that they are their biological gender". Bro wtf. Another time me and my girl friend made a little eyecontact, then she said "oooh is it flirting here" then i said as a joke: "no im gay" because thats how my humor is. She was like "exactly" then i started panicking and when i do, im never able to speak normally. After i tried forming some sentences, she was like "gay like liking men?" That ruins my joke and just makes it cringe but i said yes. Then she was like "uhm isnt that straight? Maybe ur bi" I swear she knows what shes doing. And always when she mentions me she always got to say she, even if its not natural in that sentence. And im trying to get rid of my deadname, but she makes it impossible. What should i do? Im not even friends with her, shes just around in my favorite teen club, that i tried to pass in, but shes just making it difficult. And impossible. i tried adding her snap where my preferred name is on, day after she went: deadname how did you find my snap? And my bitmoji is male and everything, yet she understand its me. What to do?
It looks like this shitposter was also confused:
Or maybe pooners say this to each other to hype themselves up?
Yet another almost getting it.
Unfortunately reaching out to Reddit. LinkArchive View attachment 5776080No answers yet, but I predict none will say it means he is not trans.
"Conversion therapy" for these people woud mostly be taking away their internet access. Without the troon hugbox to reinforce it, I doubt this guys identity could hold up for long.
but i said yes. Then she was like "uhm isnt that straight? Maybe ur bi" I swear she knows what shes doing. 
And always when she mentions me she always got to say she, even if its not natural in that sentence. And im trying to get rid of my deadname, but she makes it impossible. What should i do? Im not even friends with her, shes just around in my favorite teen club, that i tried to pass in, but shes just making it difficult. And impossible. 
