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Who tf would have sexual fantasies about getting rubbered by a female who doesnt even want her genitals touched?
That second last line
Pooner like
" it's not just 'I can't find porn I like' - it's 'the way I am and want to have sex fundamentally does not feature in the erotic imaginations of other people and this makes me feel alienated'.
... idk sounds to me exactly like 'I can't find porn I like', but just run through a Love 2 Hear Myself Talk translator.
But damn they do be like lesbians, just poisoning themsleves with drugs.
There's apparently a whole bunch of lesbians, stone butch opposite to the pillow princess, who only perform, never receive. Won't be touched.
For what it's worth, I'd feel deeply guilty in a relationship like that. But.. I mean if someone doesn't want touch you can't force it on them, but gawd it'd feel very, very unequal and serivicey.
On that note, I don't know that's its always even, or even usually, connected to a bdsm dynamic. I think a lot of them possibly just as a built in factor of their sexuality have some deep trauma that means they don't want touch, en masse, enough to be a notable sexual subsection .
Maybe I've got it all wrong and it's decent as fuck for them, anticipation and psychologically fulfilling.
But yeah. Pooner culture is dyke culture, just pathologies raising to the absolute forefront.
Whereas Tims are a total different beast to gay men.