She has my number and we text each other work related stuff, but you're totally right about the general point. I tried flirting with her and getting to know her when she first arrived, but didn't seem to have any chemistry or interest from her. But acting strangely friendly, almost more girlish, as of late. Every once in a while I'll be her simp when she has a near nervous breakdown.
Do not simp.
I hadn't heard of that concept before, but it sounds accurate. I had gotten frustrated enough recently (with everything) to consider telling her to fuck off the next time she wants to rant to me about some bullshit. It doesn't happen real often, maybe two or three times in the year I've known her. I got a bit overly excited because I'd given up on her but then saw her looking at me a lot and laughing and being a bit more playful.
Oh that's terrible, don't do that. This isn't high school.
Classic nice guy syndrome. Many such cases. Sad.
I mean this in the absolute best faith possible: some of your posts in this thread come off like a bit of a cuck faggot, and you may wish to consider examining your behavior to see if you might be one IRL.
Let it go and just call it a day. Find someone new. If a woman is into you, she'll make it known. Don't chase after girls at your workplace, or ones that come into your workplace. Shitting where you eat is never a good idea and anyone who tries to tell you otherwise can suck a giant schlong. As for this girl, there's nothing wrong with being casually friendly but don't waste your time on her and don't get bogged down in her problems. If you work with her though, don't be an ass either. Women don't want solutions, they just want to rant and they like having someone to rant to.
Aren't you answering your own question?
>Everyone is fat
Ye but the manner in which they make it known usually might as well be a mixture of smoke signs, ancient runes and zulu interpretive dance. I can't pick up on that shit. The only reason I ever know women are attracted to me is because their friends tell me while she's away.
A lot of that number is owed to so much of the population being made up of baby boomers. Old people are usually out-of-shape if not outright fat. There is definitely an obesity epidemic however, if you walk around anywhere in the U.S. half the population looks like Kelly Lenza.
"I'm completely ignoring him! How can he not tell I like him!?"
Right there is your biggest problem, "their friends tell me while she's away". Stop waiting around and twiddling your thumbs. Chad and Tyrone don't wait around passively like that. Your best odds of getting a "Yes" and having a successful relationship is before she has a chance to get to know you. The longer you wait, the more she sees you as a non-romantic partner and you fade into the background for her. You don't have to worry about signals if you're taking charge and leading the conversation. Nothing can replace good social skills. Talk to everybody you know, man or woman and make friends. The rest will come naturally.
My bad, I responded to that post forgetting this thread is frequented by and dedicated to the debating of incels.
For sure, that's why it's so integral that they control the means of communication and prevent people from gathering, because if people were able to physically come together the people at the top would be crushed within the year.
Yeah but to be fair most people aren't autistic so it isn't really a problem just picking up on non-verbal cues.
I don't think women are necessarily encouraged to act aloof, I think their aloof nature comes from a natural deterioration in personality and the fact we spend half of our lives on social media nowadays. It's not that they try to act to disinterested or unavailable, it's that they don't know how to act, period. To me, there's a rise in people nowadays that never grow out of that high school stage where they can talk but genuinely appearing outgoing is extremely difficult for them. They spend time in the simulation, so they live like they're in a simulation in the real world. The women that do try go out of their way to act aloof and unapproachable, I think find out very quickly they aren't making any progress once it inevitably bites them in the butt.
I do disagree with this, you need to talk to people with value because who you are is a product of your close friends. There's a lot of awful people in the world, and no friends is better than bad friends. I for example hate where I live because it's a difficult commute to anything, and I think that's a major factor plaguing the world now.
Some can be introverted, but it sounds like you're meeting women at work rather than social situations. I've found most women who have any interest beyond casual friends will make a scene when they see you frequently, waving or smiling across the room, going out of their way to talk to you or be around you and so on. This will happen generally after a first conversation.