I've known her online for years, before either of us was here even.
There was a stretch during one of the wife and me's divorces when the (then ex)wife was seriously pushing me to try to get with AR., not even as some keikaku, just she knew AR existed by being in my online orbit and was like "dude, cmon, she's not _that_ far, you should hit that" as wife and me were at least buddies even when we haven't been married
I didn't try, mostly because I didn't have a car, but also because I liked AR as an online friend and sincerely flirting with her would have made stuff weird.
but yeah, even though she's a few notches too pale and too frail for my normal tastes
would