why are you still single - and general discussion of the dating game

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MC2 said:
This is true for a lot of men, but I don't think it's sex-specific. When your options are either nothing or some ran-through tatted-up BPD chick, you can just as easily say that women aren't providing enough value for men. Neither have value, but men have higher societal expectations to provide something of value. I do not see a reason to date the women who would be into me if I put some effort in, because I would be getting nothing but lackluster sexual gratification out of the relationship.
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Basically this.

After my last relationship, I have been asking myself, "does this girl deserve me?" a lot more, and that really reduces the viable options. Sure, there's chicks I will fuck, but I've had plenty of sex by now, I can take it or leave it, sometimes I'll go for it but sometimes it's not even worth the effort of pursuing the hook up. I don't need a housewife, because I can cook and clean up just fine. I have enough money to live comfortably, so I don't need someone to move in and split the bills with. I am not interested in kids, so I don't have any incentive to put up with a mediocre bitch just so I can pass on my DNA.

When it comes down to it that's all a lot of women have to offer. Their genitals. A lot of men are willing to settle for that. I think those dudes are letting themselves down.
 
I've been talking to this girl for about two months and she recently did something that probably explains why alot of people are single right now. Out of the blue she sent me about 5 screenshots of dudes asking her out and her rejecting them. Not even nicely, being really just straight up vicious about it. For some reason she thought this was funny?

The issue isn't mainly about her being mean, that's whatever. It's her sending screenshots of that out. I've seen other women do this exact same thing before. There's a reason you don't see people ask others out on dates in front of other people, but now that's kind of unavoidable. I remember a video some person did where they hypothesized that the reason barely anyone dances at clubs or concerts anymore is because in the back of their head they know they are likely being recorded.

You can't dance like nobody is watching if someone most likely is and is creating a permanent record of it for others to judge. Most people probably are also just going to not even bother trying if it requires a high chance of getting mocked by dozens or even thousands of people publicly. Bombing at a comedy club is worse than having a joke land flat with a single person.
 
The reality on this topic is that it was inevitable. Throughout history, women pretty much didn't have a choice in relation to dating and marriage. The marriages were either arranged or they married for security. I highly doubt any woman wanted to marry some toothless farmer with 2 sheep to his name. A significant amount of marriages were completely loveless as it was a security related institution.

19th century+ Feminism as well as societal advancement and progression beyond need completely changed everything. As much as reactionaries state they want to end women suffrage and restore traditional gender roles, it's not happening. It would take something apocalyptic like nuclear annihilation that resets humanity back.

I think guys and society just need to accept and adapt to it. I'd say the biggest issue is obviously the decline in birth rates but those issues can be remedied through future technology like automation, the introduction of artificial wombs that could enable reproduction for single people, maybe even "far out" things like cloning etc.

In terms of issues like loneliness, guys just need to learn to socialize better with each other and not have to need/rely on women for that.

I'd suggest you have a read of this article and comments on this reddit thread about the "rape academy" that has been going viral to see why going back is not going to happen - https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromo..._cnn_rape_academy_article_broke_something_in/

 
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foreman 89 said:
As much as reactionaries state they want to end women suffrage and restore traditional gender roles, it's not happening.
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Those guys are, largely, retarded. Because they don't think far enough ahead to realise even if it were to happen, it would bite them in the ass too.

However, what we do need to do, is impress upon women that they can't have it both ways. They want the rights, they have to live up to the responsibilities too.
foreman 89 said:
I'd suggest you have a read of this article and comments on this reddit thread
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lol u srs nigga?
 
I am an autistic political extremist who wants to make even more autistic and politically extreme video games, hopefully at some point for a living. Exceedingly few women are into that.

My programming classes are 95% male, so there isn't much opportunity there, and I don't want to bother them at the gym or in my other classes.

I hate small talk and don't use social media. I also refuse to use 'dating' apps, as those are for cattle. They also happen to be where almost all relationships are formed nowadays.
 
FieldPiece said:
Maybe it's just the concerts I've been to but the most I see people do is bob their head up and down.
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I can't speak for concerts but every single club I've been to had a packed dancefloor with people actually dancing at the peak hour. No matter the night. Aka it becomes difficult to dance without bumping into another person lol.

Normies hate dancing sober so usually they will have a couple of drinks first and if you go to a club around opening time then yeah you won't see many people dancing.

Sometimes you will have some retard bouncing around with a phone to record but I haven't seen it bother anyone. You're more likely to look weird if you just stand in a corner.

People who don't go to clubs assume people only go there to whore around (redditors projecting). Good music > sex. EVERY TIME.
 
To explain in a low-IQ mongoloid kind of way,

 
FieldPiece said:
Out of the blue she sent me about 5 screenshots of dudes asking her out and her rejecting them. Not even nicely, being really just straight up vicious about it. For some reason she thought this was funny?
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Seems like you found a real keeper.

Massive red flag in my eyes, as it shows an underlying bitter & assholish personality, and a sense of fake superiority over those people, in other words, a rotten character unbecoming of an actual lady, and instead a trait of a toxic woman.
 
It's because of incels influencing other men through the Internet and grooming them into the blackpill. Men who would otherwise grow up to be normal end up posting Agartha memes instead. You become an incel because you think you're an incel, your mind makes it real.

Here is my rendition of the toasterfucker greentext, applied to this situation:
>get rejected by a woman
>get over it
>grow up

>get rejected by a woman
>find a community with thousands of rejected men
>women... LE BAD
>die alone, bitter, childless, possibly homosexual
 
>It sure would be nice to have children someday
>Realize I live in an extra left leaning part of Canada
>Every time politics comes up in my social circles the men act like insane women, and the women act even worse

Well, I guess it's fine being on my own as well.
 
Abernathy said:
toasterfucker
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What's wrong with toasters?
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