why are you still single - and general discussion of the dating game

[Nick Wilde]

So to answer the thread question: it's me, it's always been me. I've been the problem all along. I don't only fear rejection, I fear acceptance too, perhaps even more.

This is a very important moment of clarity. Seize it.

I am very mad at women on the internet, but in real life, I see it the way I would see it if I got beat by a boss in a videogame. There's no point getting mad at the game, that won't change the outcome; the only thing that will change it is what I do differently next time.

The only one thing you have true control over in the world is your own actions.

 

[YHWH's Strongest Soldier]

You got me thinking, I always had this problem where I bitch and whine about woe is me foids don't take an interest in me and blah blah blah. But in hindsight every time a foid did do that I'd get suspicious and run away or ignore the situation. Be it consciously or subconsciously. Like what's going on here? Why would anyone want to talk to me? Surely this must be a trap! This is probably what was subconsciously going through my brain.

Your suspicious were right, the foids were after your cum and flirting was their trap. You've saved yourself (for marriage).

 

[long waters]

This is a very important moment of clarity. Seize it.

Not that I really know what to do from here lmao. I think it came too late.

 

[YHWH's Strongest Soldier]

Not that I really know what to do from here lmao.

Stop protecting your dick from women. They aren't actually conspiring to steal it.

 

[Nick Wilde]

Stop protecting your dick from women. They aren't actually conspiring to steal it.

Women are all communist agents.

 

[long waters]

Stop protecting your dick from women. They aren't actually conspiring to steal it.

I don't do that much anymore anyway. In recent years I think I've developed a passive aura that repels them.

 

[Staticness]

do the needful and keep that aura up, fellow whiteboi. strong aryan men from india are the only men that can please beauty white women now.

 

[1girl2jesters]

Went completely blackpilled. I was waiting until marriage because I'm an Arab bitch, and the faggot gringo I wanted to marry and who I've been talking to on and off for a yr cheated or, ig, slept with some fat torta bitch who is genuinely below tier and who he had complained to me about for being unintelligent, high maintenance and body count. He continued to talk to me even when I said it was over and I didn't care; he was going to visit anyways and then finally sent me a last email effort asking me if I blocked him and then sent some faggot tweet about a groyper going on a date with a Syrian. Either way, I'm sick of this generation, and I'm thinking if I were ever to get married, I'd just give up with something arranged because most of these faggots are chronic whores with unimaginable body counts and no ability to become a good enough man to have bitches become respectable wives. Women have become fucking whores globally because faggots like to fantasize and not invest putting bitches into place the right evolutionary way.

 

[Waffle Iron]

Went completely blackpilled. I was waiting until marriage because I'm an Arab bitch, and the faggot gringo I wanted to marry and who I've been talking to on and off for a yr cheated or, ig, slept with some fat torta bitch who is genuinely below tier and who he had complained to me about for being unintelligent, high maintenance and body count. He continued to talk to me even when I said it was over and I didn't care; he was going to visit anyways and then finally sent me a last email effort asking me if I blocked him and then sent some faggot tweet about a groyper going on a date with a Syrian. Either way, I'm sick of this generation, and I'm thinking if I were ever to get married, I'd just give up with something arranged because most of these faggots are chronic whores with unimaginable body counts and no ability to become a good enough man to have bitches become respectable wives. Women have become fucking whores globally because faggots like to fantasize and not invest putting bitches into place the right evolutionary way.

This post was a rollercoaster of emotions. The entire post could make for a good random_txt

 

[1girl2jesters]

This post was a rollercoaster of emotions. The entire post could make for a good random_txt

 

[Vlad the Implier]

People just don't talk to me. Women act like I'm some Lovecraftian creature that dragged mud into their freshly mopped kitchen. They seem genuinely disgusted that I exist one what they consider to be "their" plane of existence.
I can go weeks without talking to my friends that I grew up with.
I keep getting advice from people about "what not to say" when conversing. When I explain that I don't get past "hello" they just shut up and stop talking.

Is this "what not to say" advice directed to specific instances like "hey man, that thing you said earlier was kinda weird/inappropriate"? or is it just generalized advice?

I'm wondering if maybe you're just perceiving them to be disgusted by you as a projection of your own low self esteem. If you feel like you're off-putting or creepy, this can definitely cause you to imagine people are also thinking this and can affect your overall demeanor.

 

[FILTH Tourist]

Stop protecting your dick from women. They aren't actually conspiring to steal it.

Speak for yourself. I have been on a first date with a Filipina, she kept taking about how cute white babies are, bitched about her white ex boyfriend, and then forced me to kiss her goodnight when we parted ways. That bitch was 100% trying to steal my seed.

 

[Garm]

Is this "what not to say" advice directed to specific instances like "hey man, that thing you said earlier was kinda weird/inappropriate"? or is it just generalized advice?

I'm wondering if maybe you're just perceiving them to be disgusted by you as a projection of your own low self esteem. If you feel like you're off-putting or creepy, this can definitely cause you to imagine people are also thinking this and can affect your overall demeanor.

It was stuff that you shouldn't tell a woman when trying to impress her. For instance talking about how I help my parents because my dad needs a hip replacement. Probably things of that nature.

 

[Vlad the Implier]

It was stuff that you shouldn't tell a woman when trying to impress her. For instance talking about how I help my parents because my dad needs a hip replacement. Probably things of that nature.

Well, first off you're a good son and I commend you for that. As for the women, do you think that maybe that might've come across as fishing for pity or trauma dumping? Oversharing at least?

The best approach when you first meet a woman either at a gathering or a first date is to keep conversation spritely, fun, humorous, and if the vibes are right, flirtatious but don't overdo the last one. Have a pleasant and a confident demeanor and avoid topics that could cause negative emotions, or otherwise puts her where she's feeling judged or probed as a potential girlfriend. Things like personal stuggles, politics, dating history, what she wants out of a relationship, etc. Don't make it feel a wife interview, interviews suck and are boring, keep it fun.

 

[White_N]

Disclaimer: You are imagining these women significantly more attractive then they actually are.

In this day and age, a simple ability to laugh at lolcows in company is rather attractive.

Speak for yourself. I have been on a first date with a Filipina, she kept taking about how cute white babies are, bitched about her white ex boyfriend, and then forced me to kiss her goodnight when we parted ways. That bitch was 100% trying to steal my seed.

Strategic semen reserves secured, bröthur.

 

[We Are The Witches]

...I've been talking to on and off for a yr cheated or, ig, slept with...

...chronic whores with unimaginable body counts...

You are now experiencing the POV of a lot of men in the West (not all, of course).

That's if you're tall enough for you to even be considered at all, by someone who already considers you inferior & would resolve any dispute in your relationships by talking to toxic harpies on Reddit.

Welcome, welcome.

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One of the things that sucks the most, is that at any point a woman (or man) can cheat on you/leave at any point, even if the relationship seems (and is) perfect.

I know this from personal experience (from an old friend of mine, pretty much family), they guy was everything one could almost ask for: looked young, was healthy, was patient, funny, smart, successful (owns some big stuff around my town, and other city too, I don't want to powerlevel), had several kids with this woman, their families got along with each other... literally everything was perfect, and I know he is a (more than decent) person, as he was personally involved with charities to make the lives of children elsewhere better. I could go on.

One day, his wife decided to leave him for the fucking neighbour, divorced him and left everyone speechless.

Luckily she didn't get money/estate or kids' custody or anything, and no, it 100% wasn't because of some hidden shit that I (or anyone in either of both's families) don't know about my friend's personality, she just decided that she wanted to be with the neighbour bozo.

It's one of the weirdest things I've seen in a relationship.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

Went completely blackpilled. I was waiting until marriage because I'm an Arab bitch, and the faggot gringo I wanted to marry and who I've been talking to on and off for a yr cheated or, ig, slept with some fat torta bitch who is genuinely below tier and who he had complained to me about for being unintelligent, high maintenance and body count. He continued to talk to me even when I said it was over and I didn't care; he was going to visit anyways and then finally sent me a last email effort asking me if I blocked him and then sent some faggot tweet about a groyper going on a date with a Syrian. Either way, I'm sick of this generation, and I'm thinking if I were ever to get married, I'd just give up with something arranged because most of these faggots are chronic whores with unimaginable body counts and no ability to become a good enough man to have bitches become respectable wives. Women have become fucking whores globally because faggots like to fantasize and not invest putting bitches into place the right evolutionary way.

This reads like an LLM fed only on A&N posts.

 

[Quintex96]

One of the things that sucks the most, is that at any point a woman (or man) can cheat on you/leave at any point, even if the relationship seems (and is) perfect.

I know this from personal experience (from an old friend of mine, pretty much family), they guy was everything one could almost ask for: looked young, was healthy, was patient, funny, smart, successful (owns some big stuff around my town, and other city too, I don't want to powerlevel), had several kids with this woman, their families got along with each other... literally everything was perfect, and I know he is a (more than decent) person, as he was personally involved with charities to make the lives of children elsewhere better. I could go on.

One day, his wife decided to leave him for the fucking neighbour, divorced him and left everyone speechless.

Luckily she didn't get money/estate or kids' custody or anything, and no, it 100% wasn't because of some hidden shit that I (or anyone in either of both's families) don't know about my friend's personality, she just decided that she wanted to be with the neighbour bozo.

It's one of the weirdest things I've seen in a relationship.

I have witnessed similar things a few times over the years.

Situation 1: A girl and a friend (friend A) get together and their relationship seems good. At one point they go round to another friends (friend B) house. At the time they go round Friend B is cooking for himself. At which point friend A's gf falls for him for cooking basic bitch spaghetti. That is literally the only reason he got when he caught them randomly fucking in his bed a few weeks later. She saw him heating some mince and dicing a pepper.

Situation 2: Guy and girl are together and have a kid. They are stable and decent enough jobs relative to their pay. The guy then randomly starts an affair with an infamous local bpd whore and completely ruins his life. (bpd whore came into his workplace and completely tanked his job). His partner found out and cut things off completely. We asked him why he did this and he only told us that it felt right in the moment and he never thought things would get this bad.

Situation 3: Guy friend and girl are recently married, guy friend has a very well paying job but requires him to be away, wife sleeps around in their social circle and it eventually all comes out. Wife blames husband for being away and not fulfilling her needs. Husband for whatever reason agrees and quits his job, moves back home permanently and gets a way less well paying job. Tells his wife she now needs to work too to sustain their home if they are going to keep living there. The moment she can get with someone who won't make her work she goes for it, he then files for divorce, gets his job back and moves abroad permanently. The only catch his she downgraded from cheating trophy wife to bennies whore.

The guy in situation A is the only one I still have contact with out of all 3 examples and his story I think is the most succinct. She just saw a guy cooking and wanted to fuck him, nothing more, nothing less. Ruined a 3 year relationship for a cheap fling that lasted a couple of weeks.

 

[We Are The Witches]

The guy in situation A is the only one I still have contact with out of all 3 examples and his story I think is the most succinct. She just saw a guy cooking and wanted to fuck him, nothing more, nothing less. Ruined a 3 year relationship for a cheap fling that lasted a couple of weeks.

It's sad, but the first one doesn't surprise me. That's literally the whore lifestyle, no loyalty, no actual love, no values; it's only when she grows up (after hitting the wall hard) that she'll demand a "committed man" and complain on social media about not finding one.

Your third story is terrifying, what type of leech is she? How can someone be with that and not immediately deem her as a red flag. Holy shit, what a rotten, opportunistic, entitled scumbag.

 

[1girl2jesters]

You are now experiencing the POV of a lot of men in the West (not all, of course).

That's if you're tall enough for you to even be considered at all, by someone who already considers you inferior & would resolve any dispute in your relationships by talking to toxic harpies on Reddit.

Welcome, welcome.

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One of the things that sucks the most, is that at any point a woman (or man) can cheat on you/leave at any point, even if the relationship seems (and is) perfect.

I know this from personal experience (from an old friend of mine, pretty much family), they guy was everything one could almost ask for: looked young, was healthy, was patient, funny, smart, successful (owns some big stuff around my town, and other city too, I don't want to powerlevel), had several kids with this woman, their families got along with each other... literally everything was perfect, and I know he is a (more than decent) person, as he was personally involved with charities to make the lives of children elsewhere better. I could go on.

One day, his wife decided to leave him for the fucking neighbour, divorced him and left everyone speechless.

Luckily she didn't get money/estate or kids' custody or anything, and no, it 100% wasn't because of some hidden shit that I (or anyone in either of both's families) don't know about my friend's personality, she just decided that she wanted to be with the neighbour bozo.

It's one of the weirdest things I've seen in a relationship.

It really amazes me how easily men and women fold given the right opportunity. Idk if it's due to the Western lifestyle or what, but my friend (an Arab American) recently told me about ghosting another arab and him calling her to tell her he was married the whole time to a bitch from the homeland and has an 8 month old w her. So ig it's over for me completely whether it be marrying outside the culture or one of my own. My issue is that I never dated throughout school and college due to not being ready for marriage and knowing I only date for that reason and that sex would be expected. It just sucks realizing all this in my mid 20s aand that the purity and shit my parents instilled in me did not help. What sucks the most is that I really enjoyed that gringo's personality more than anything.. Ik that even when the honeymoon phase ends, he would be my closest friend. That and just the amount of hyping me up about him wanting me to be the mother of his children and how good I would be and how he's never met and thinks he won't ever meet someone like me again etc. Ig he hit the vein with all the things he wanted me to hear. Living and learning to not fall for these fakecel byronic faggots.