What's the craziest relationship you've seen work? - Stories of friends, acquaintances, or others who took extreme measures for love and it paid off

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Mayor Adam West

Mayor Adam West

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Ok so I'm not gonna PL but I am really really stressed out. I fell for this girl and I'm trying to get into a relationship with her. It's a long shot for sure but...I feel that this is God's will and that He will make it work. However, I would still really appreciate knowing that what I am doing is, at the end of the day, not the craziest thing someone has ever done for love. So farmers, have you ever seen a relationship workout despite all the odds being against the couple?
 
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Once saw a long distance relationship where one was financially supporting the other who was in poverty and in a shithole third world country. They could both type English but the third worlder couldn’t speak it. This is also mostly over discord. They’re still a few years strong somehow; love finds a way I guess.

Is it maintaining the relationship that scares you or asking for it? You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take, but sometimes with tricky relationships you have to ask yourself what you’re willing to put up with.
 
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mister meaner said:
Once saw a long distance relationship where one was financially supporting the other who was in poverty and in a shithole third world country. They could both type English but the third worlder couldn’t speak it. This is also mostly over discord. They’re still a few years strong somehow; love finds a way I guess.
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Is it just online or is it in person?
mister meaner said:
Is it maintaining the relationship that scares you or asking for it? You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take, but sometimes with tricky relationships you have to ask yourself what you’re willing to put up with.
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I know that I'm willing to do just about whatever it takes, but the more I think about it the more I realize that it's gonna be a lot of work.
 
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Mayor Adam West said:
Is it just online or is it in person?

I know that I'm willing to do just about whatever it takes, but the more I think about it the more I realize that it's gonna be a lot of work.
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It’s completely online so far but the povvo one is planning to move in with the financially stable one. They don’t really voice call or video call because of the aforementioned language barrier. It’s a weird relationship but hey, you asked. They’ve been going strong for years.

You need to power level more of you want more advice, all I can add is that you have to consider if it’s worth the effort.
 
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This was decades ago. This jerk guy I lived across from thought he found a genius cheat code to acquire a submissive tradwife. He married a lady from the third world (at the time) country he was previously stationed in.

They got married and moved stateside, that’s when they became my neighbor. Every time the guy was deployed, she had a stream of random airmen visiting for an hour then leaving. I was a kid and asked my mom why so many guys visited that neighbor. Sometimes it even happened when he wasn’t deployed. My mom told me the lady cooked a lot and the men went there for lunch.

When the guy was home, the lady would scream at him and chased him outside once. Everyone looked the other way because no one wants to call law enforcement on their neighbor unless absolutely necessary, it can hurt the neighbor’s career.

As an adult it came up in conversation about crazy neighbors. My mom told me she’d lied and said it was lunches because I was a kid. That the lady was caught fucking other airmen and accepting money while her husband was away. The wife of one of the guys reported it. The couple moved off base and stayed married, thankfully they never brought kids into their dysfunction. Love found a way. :|
 
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Exigent Circumcisions said:
What would be crazy about your hypothetical relationship? She's skinny and not retarded? I need more context before I can properly dash your hopes against the hard rocks of reality.
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Well she's definitely not cognizantly functional. I mean after all, she expressed interest in me. But yeah she is pretty.
Amphotericin B said:
This was decades ago. This jerk guy I lived across from thought he found a genius cheat code to acquire a submissive tradwife. He married a lady from the third world (at the time) country he was previously stationed in.

They got married and moved stateside, that’s when they became my neighbor. Every time the guy was deployed, she had a stream of random airmen visiting for an hour then leaving. I was a kid and asked my mom why so many guys visited that neighbor. Sometimes it even happened when he wasn’t deployed. My mom told me the lady cooked a lot and the men went there for lunch.

When the guy was home, the lady would scream at him and chased him outside once. Everyone looked the other way because no one wants to call law enforcement on their neighbor unless absolutely necessary, it can hurt the neighbor’s career.

As an adult it came up in conversation about crazy neighbors. My mom told me she’d lied and said it was lunches because I was a kid. That the lady was caught fucking other airmen and accepting money while her husband was away. The wife of one of the guys reported it. The couple moved off base and stayed married, thankfully they never brought kids into their dysfunction. Love found a way. :|
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I wouldn't exactly call that...working...it sounds like she just used him to escape her 3rd world country. And...frankly I wouldn't call her submissive if she is fucking other guys.
mister meaner said:
It’s completely online so far but the povvo one is planning to move in with the financially stable one. They don’t really voice call or video call because of the aforementioned language barrier. It’s a weird relationship but hey, you asked. They’ve been going strong for years.

You need to power level more of you want more advice, all I can add is that you have to consider if it’s worth the effort.
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This thread wasn't so much about advice but more so I want to hear some stories. And, at this point not even to reassure me anymore. I'm content with what I have done and will simply just wait to see the results.
 
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This girl I went to secondary school with started dating her former teacher when she graduated. There was something like a 45 year age gap, yet they were together nearly 15 years. Last time I saw her she’d said they’d broken up because he became a hoarder and something of an asshole. Apparently sometimes when you get old the more unsavory parts of your personality start to surface. She broke it off, but paid for a cleaning service to clean out his shithole of a house (they weren’t living together, religious country) because she’s a better person than me lol. She got married to a younger dude and has kids now. I don’t know if it would count as a ‘working’ relationship, but it lasted longer than most marriages, so that’s something.
 
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I'm not a fedora tipping atheist but I have known a handful of people who subscribed to the gods will philosophy on different things and it never went well for them. I'm not going to say god doesn't exist, fuck if I know what or who made the universe and how, but I feel its safe to assume they/it/nigger aren't exactly hands on with relationships.

If the other person likes you and you like them great. If it doesn't work out don't worry, there's about 8 billion people out there in the world. You got a lot more options you just have to go and find them.
 
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This one lady in an office I worked at was married but she got jealous of another woman’s boyfriend, so she got the woman fired and sent blackmail letters to their bosses wife framing him for cheating with the woman she was jealous of and some other fabricated stuff about abusing his position to date managers which got him fired. Her husband left her soon after and the boyfriend ended up dying a year after all that without her getting with him.
 
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