What is a good Peer to Peer messenger program for Windows?

[Catgirl Tyranid]

I'd like to be able to decry clown world with my wife while I'm at work without Discord hearing me anymore.

 

[Raw Onion Enjoyer]

https://www.privacytools.io/ gets often recommended by Null. It lists messengers, but also other useful programs

 

[byuu]

ICQ, it's the hot new thing.

 

[Catgirl Tyranid]

https://www.privacytools.io/ gets often recommended by Null. It lists messengers, but also other useful programs

Thanks, that helped a lot. Top recommendation was Session so I guess I'll give it a shot. https://getsession.org/

 

[Bloodfeast Island Man]

I've used qTox for a few things. Seems ok.

 

[tuka]

In addition to Tox, Bitmessage, Ricochet. Caveats the same as with Tor - pedophiles use it, so if you download it, you're a pedophile.

 

[autosarcophagy]

tor https://speek.network https://cwtch.im/download/

no tor https://jami.net/

 

[autosarcophagy]

sites like privacytools : https://switching.software/ https://prism-break.org/en/ https://www.privacyguides.org/ are the same same people or some of the same people as privacytools.io they had fight or something

 

[Car Won't Crank]

What about self hosting your little matrix server on a nuc or pi? If only between 2 people that will suffice even if you're running the matrix db on a usb 3 drive.