Asian Americans are at that point where they have just discovered therapy and not beating their kids, so this intergenerational trauma thing has them in a choke hold. Meanwhile, white people already went through this and got over it generations ago. I've had to sit through Everything Everywhere All at Once in a room of my Asian friends all sobbing, and I'm just looking around like "are you guys fucking serious?" Of course I couldn't bring myself to tell them the truth that I hated it afterward when they excitedly asked me "So, did you like it?? It's one of the best films ever right!" Goofy ass movie.