🍗 Deathfat Virgie Tovar - #losehatenotweight HAES, BoPo Snake Oil Salesman. Fat AF.

[MicrowavedApple]

Even funnier because Roxane Gay herself had WLS. Do better or die indeed.

I know she's not the topic here, but can I take a small detour to vent about how utterly insufferable Roxane Gay is? Like you said, she's a giant hypocrite who had WLS herself, and she's so vaunted both in the FA community (and mainstream media too) that they didn't give her .01% of the grief they gave to poor Ashleigh Neil Tipton, who they practically wanted to execute for high treason for having the exact same surgery. Roxanne is just as thin skinned as Virgie and the rest of her ilk, and is constantly getting into the pettiest of Twitter spats for someone who is supposed to be a prestigious intellectual and professor.

Anyway, bringing it back on topic, it's interesting to speculate on where Virgie's career is going to go. I definitely think she wants to be less in the academic world and more in the social media/influencer side of things like Jes Baker, except even the fat influencers are expected to have an attractive face and aspirational quality about them. I'm waiting for her to eventually pull a Fat Heffalump-like toddler fit about how the younger, prettier FA-ers are stealing all of her attention.

 

[Candidae]

I had free time tonight so I figured I'd try my hand at altering her photos again

I tried
Honestly the biggest issue with her is her skin and her lack of a defined jaw mixed with jowels lowering onto her fat neck. Those make it so hard to make her decent looking. Granted, this is all on my phone using the Meitu app, but it can't be easy using Photoshop either. You have to totally craft her a jaw and neck which is hard to make look natural
She wouldn't look so bad at her weight if she at least had a normal round face. But her jowels are her biggest issue. Don't know if cool sculpting actually works but if it does she should remove the extra hanging skin/fat hanging down her cheeks. That and get a damn skincare routine or something. My god is her skin atrocious. I've seen better on teenage boys
Of course none of this would fix her personality, even if her issues simply stemmed by having an ugly face, it's too deep rooted now. But at least it would make her stories of actually having sex less laughable so there's that

 

[rocknrollmartian]

Of course none of this would fix her personality, even if her issues simply stemmed by having an ugly face, it's too deep rooted now. But at least it would make her stories of actually having sex less laughable so there's that

Here's another pic of the guy she's allegedly hooking up with:

I'm guessing he's a self-loathing "male feminist" who's been roundly rejected by Tinder. Who else could tolerate Virgie at all?

A year or two ago Virgie claimed that she had been dating a handsome, successful lawyer for a while, but she broke it off. If remotely true (I'm skeptical of Virgie's definition of "handsome" for one), none of this makes any sense. Is the dating scene in San Francisco an abysmal cesspool of leftovers?

 

[FrostedFlakes&PBR]

Here's another pic of the guy she's allegedly hooking up with:
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I'm guessing he's a self-loathing "male feminist" who's been roundly rejected by Tinder. Who else could tolerate Virgie at all?

A year or two ago Virgie claimed that she had been dating a handsome, successful lawyer for a while, but she broke it off. If remotely true (I'm skeptical of Virgie's definition of "handsome" for one), none of this makes any sense. Is the dating scene in San Francisco an abysmal cesspool of leftovers?

Maybe he has some kind of public humiliation fetish? (I seriously cannot tell if I’m clowning or dead serious, send help)

 

[George Floyd Sneed]

There are some men who will stick their dicks in anything

 

[Candidae]

There are some men who will stick their dicks in anything

Stick dicks in? Yes
Date? Thankfully mostly no which is likely where Vergie is aside from the pity dates she ruins

 

[Whatthefuck]

Here's another pic of the guy she's allegedly hooking up with:
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I'm guessing he's a self-loathing "male feminist" who's been roundly rejected by Tinder. Who else could tolerate Virgie at all?

A year or two ago Virgie claimed that she had been dating a handsome, successful lawyer for a while, but she broke it off. If remotely true (I'm skeptical of Virgie's definition of "handsome" for one), none of this makes any sense. Is the dating scene in San Francisco an abysmal cesspool of leftovers?

What kind of hovel is he sitting in? I'm so confused. Is that sand?

 

[sperginity]

I know she's not the topic here, but can I take a small detour to vent about how utterly insufferable Roxane Gay is? Like you said, she's a giant hypocrite who had WLS herself, and she's so vaunted both in the FA community (and mainstream media too) that they didn't give her .01% of the grief they gave to poor Ashleigh Neil Tipton, who they practically wanted to execute for high treason for having the exact same surgery. Roxanne is just as thin skinned as Virgie and the rest of her ilk, and is constantly getting into the pettiest of Twitter spats for someone who is supposed to be a prestigious intellectual and professor.

I could not find a thread about her, and she is an embarrassing wreck of a person. I don't know enough to write her thread but perhaps you would consider it? I would read it, for sure. I had no idea she had WLS (and failed it apparently).

Here's another pic of the guy she's allegedly hooking up with:
View attachment 783129

I'm guessing he's a self-loathing "male feminist" who's been roundly rejected by Tinder. Who else could tolerate Virgie at all?

A year or two ago Virgie claimed that she had been dating a handsome, successful lawyer for a while, but she broke it off. If remotely true (I'm skeptical of Virgie's definition of "handsome" for one), none of this makes any sense. Is the dating scene in San Francisco an abysmal cesspool of leftovers?

A photo can't capture this guy's personality (or the other half of his face???). If true: I have hunch that he is so autistic that it drives away normal looking women. Could also be a sociopath lying in wait to abuse her after alienating her from everyone. Some of those types of guys pick ugly women because they can bring them in line so easily by reminding them that they are ugly and "no one else wants you". Virgie's cunty personality and feminist education aren't much of a preventative from being in an abusive relationship.

 

[rocknrollmartian]

A photo can't capture this guy's personality (or the other half of his face???). If true: I have hunch that he is so autistic that it drives away normal looking women. Could also be a sociopath lying in wait to abuse her after alienating her from everyone. Some of those types of guys pick ugly women because they can bring them in line so easily by reminding them that they are ugly and "no one else wants you". Virgie's cunty personality and feminist education aren't much of a preventative from being in an abusive relationship.

I think Virgie is the abusive one in relationships:

Spoiler: Virgie being a manipulative, melodramatic asshole in a craft store

"We walked into Michael’s so we could get decorations for his apartment (where I spend most of my time) for Halloween. Decorating and crafting are my thing, and he loves my obsession with turning the living room into a pumpkin patch/harvest celebration/winter wonderland fit for a bunch of paste-eating kindergartners.

"The cart was almost overflowing with all my weird supplies and 77%-off felt garlands, lanterns, and face tattoos. Then he got a text from his close friend, someone he doesn’t get to speak to often. He asked if we could leave in the next 15 minutes so he could touch base with him. When I told him it might be a little longer than that, he took on what I would consider 'a tone.'

"In retrospect, I realize that the tone was likely inspired by a couple of feelings, maybe 'Ohmygod, I get that you can’t live without these tombstone cake toppers, but I can’t handle being in Michael’s for another hour!' with a little 'I’m frustrated that you don’t care that I want to talk to this person who matters to me.'

"At the time, however, when he used the tone I heard, 'I don’t care about you or your interests. Your time is worthless. I don’t care enough about our relationship to see that decorating my house is an emotional investment that is making you feel vulnerable. Literally anyone is more important than you right now.'

"To a person with fewer trust issues (and less experience with being told they’re worthless because of their body size), 'a tone' might go utterly unnoticed, may warrant an eye roll, or might even lead to a stifled tear, but nothing earth-shattering. To me, that 'tone' merited my storming out of the store, stuffed cart left abandoned mid-aisle (sorry for being that asshole, Michael’s employees!), and my walking (about an hour) home. This, of course, was followed by roughly three hours of processing, him going on a walk, and then us apologizing profusely to one another. "

Also, she cut her family out of her life for no real reason at all. She, drama queen supreme, essentially accuses them of being too dramatic: "I always knew my mother and grandmother would die for me, would take on an illness for me, or would sacrifice their life to save mine. I realized recently, however, that what I really needed from them was less dramatic than all that. I needed my mom to go to therapy. I needed my grandma to hear me when I tried to tell her about my life. I’ve come to realize that these kinds of statement are manipulative. They made me doubt myself. If someone is willing to die for you, then what else could you reasonably ask of them?"

 

[thejackal]

Here's another pic of the guy she's allegedly hooking up with:
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I'm guessing he's a self-loathing "male feminist" who's been roundly rejected by Tinder. Who else could tolerate Virgie at all?

A year or two ago Virgie claimed that she had been dating a handsome, successful lawyer for a while, but she broke it off. If remotely true (I'm skeptical of Virgie's definition of "handsome" for one), none of this makes any sense. Is the dating scene in San Francisco an abysmal cesspool of leftovers?

That dude looks like a 5-5" manlet skinny fat with hobbit feet. He's not exactly a catch himself.

 

[George Floyd Sneed]

That dude looks like a 5-5" manlet skinny fat with hobbit feet. He's not exactly a catch himself.

Still can do better than Virgie though...

 

[Whatthefuck]

Still can do better than Virgie though...

That's not a terribly high bar, but you aren't wrong.

 

[rocknrollmartian]

I could not find a thread about her, and she is an embarrassing wreck of a person. I don't know enough to write her thread but perhaps you would consider it? I would read it, for sure. I had no idea she had WLS (and failed it apparently).

I should've quoted and replied to this in my post above: Roxane had WLS in January 2018. She's definitely lost weight, but of course she's still obese. Here's a recent interview with her with a full-body shot at 1:45.

I guess any other discussion about her should go in the FA thread since there isn't a dedicated thread for her, but she's not really an FA figure, more of a thin-skinned academic/literary/Twitter gadfly.

 

[Captain Ahab]

Some men hook up with below average women so they don’t have to worry about any competition.

 

[Or Else What]

Here's another pic of the guy she's allegedly hooking up with:
View attachment 783129

I'm guessing he's a self-loathing "male feminist" who's been roundly rejected by Tinder. Who else could tolerate Virgie at all?

A year or two ago Virgie claimed that she had been dating a handsome, successful lawyer for a while, but she broke it off. If remotely true (I'm skeptical of Virgie's definition of "handsome" for one), none of this makes any sense. Is the dating scene in San Francisco an abysmal cesspool of leftovers?

This pic looks like he's been forced to sit on the Bad White Male chair for so long that the enforced piss of imprisoned humiliation has crusted underneath. That's because he wasn't allowed up until he'd convince Virgie she's a Tru Goddess in every way she needed to be convinced. Hard work.

 

[vanilla_pepsi_head]

Here's another pic of the guy she's allegedly hooking up with:
View attachment 783129

I'm guessing he's a self-loathing "male feminist" who's been roundly rejected by Tinder. Who else could tolerate Virgie at all?

A year or two ago Virgie claimed that she had been dating a handsome, successful lawyer for a while, but she broke it off. If remotely true (I'm skeptical of Virgie's definition of "handsome" for one), none of this makes any sense. Is the dating scene in San Francisco an abysmal cesspool of leftovers?

Not much to go on, but I'm guessing smelly autist who isn't emotionally aware enough to pick up on Virgie's passive-aggressiveness or constant emotional crises and just does/believes what he's told for the most part. Anyone have anymore info on this guy?

 

[XenomorphThot]

Here's another pic of the guy she's allegedly hooking up with:
View attachment 783129

I'm guessing he's a self-loathing "male feminist" who's been roundly rejected by Tinder. Who else could tolerate Virgie at all?

A year or two ago Virgie claimed that she had been dating a handsome, successful lawyer for a while, but she broke it off. If remotely true (I'm skeptical of Virgie's definition of "handsome" for one), none of this makes any sense. Is the dating scene in San Francisco an abysmal cesspool of leftovers?

I don't know if it's the picture or what, but he has some bizarre proportions. Huge chest, tiny/skinny arms... what the fuck is up with that?

 

[liliput]

I still don’t know how Virgie affords living in San Fran. Like what does she do exactly other than complain about people calling her fat. Boggles the mind on how one woman can detach her mouth like a snake and gobble up donuts from the corner hipster joint on the daily, and survive the steep rent.

I think she might be a teacher/professor, which is the more horrifying option.

 

[Angry New Ager]

I still don’t know how Virgie affords living in San Fran. Like what does she do exactly other than complain about people calling her fat. Boggles the mind on how one woman can detach her mouth like a snake and gobble up donuts from the corner hipster joint on the daily, and survive the steep rent.

I think she might be a teacher/professor, which is the more horrifying option.

She has a job with a LGBTQ non-profit, and lives in a part of SF (the far Outer Sunset) that, until recently, was considered really uncool and undesirable. She might have got in there at the right time, before the hipsters discovered it, and have rent control on her apartment; I'm also pretty sure she has at least one roommate.

So yeah, she can brag that she lives in SF, but she's not making a whole lot of money, couldn't afford to do it alone, and if she ever loses that apartment, she'll have to go to the East Bay, because finding another apartment in SF that she can afford, at the current market rates, just isn't going to happen. I doubt her book has sold enough copies to pay out what little advance she may have got, much less royalties, and there are only so many landwhales privileged enough to be able to afford her "Babecamp" events (which I don't even think she's offering any more, due to abysmally low turnout at the last one).

 

[MirnaMinkoff]

Here's another pic of the guy she's allegedly hooking up with:
View attachment 783129

I'm guessing he's a self-loathing "male feminist" who's been roundly rejected by Tinder. Who else could tolerate Virgie at all?

A year or two ago Virgie claimed that she had been dating a handsome, successful lawyer for a while, but she broke it off. If remotely true (I'm skeptical of Virgie's definition of "handsome" for one), none of this makes any sense. Is the dating scene in San Francisco an abysmal cesspool of leftovers?

Doubt.jpg

Looks like she just snapped a photo of a unaware guy holding his vape and reading his phone, not a boyfriend.