They effectively want the counter-cultures 'safe' (or more accuratly the illusion of safety-actual attempts to police will most likely be minimal since that cost actual money and might actually help), conveniant and sanitised. Like a pleasent all-packiged Holiday or netflix. No commitment, no need to integrate or accomidate. It'll be just like the shit they pump out on ads and the pleasent veneer that covers our actual culture.
https://www.facebook.com/Feminist40K/
https://www.overthinkingit.com/2014/10/28/gentrification-geek-culture/
the real question isnt weither or not your efforts are actually for the benifit of women (because their's a good change they don't) or if anything is actually made better on any level for women or the subculture (because we all know the answer to that). The actual question is if counter-cultures are permitted to breach contempory social values or define themselves by their own standards.
If the answer is no then you have no right to complain about how isolated you feel when you've integrated every facet of yourself into buying shit and you've pimped your political and social stances to ammoral neo-liberal capitalism.
Welcome to your future, enjoy your fucking starbucks while listening to some shit indie folk band on your ipod on your way to d&d in a world which matches contempory values on woman, minorties, religion and men but still has serfdom and evil wizards.
I'm sure it provides comfort when your in your underpaid dead end job, serf.