While there is a thread for transbian dating profiles and transbians are often mentioned in general trans discussions there is no thread for general transbianism so far and thus no place to specifically discuss these people.
Transbians are heterosexual men who usually don’t have any "dysphoria" regarding their male body. Their transness stems from porn addiction, autogynephilia and the desire to have "lesbian sex" with hot lesbians. Even though they’re quick to call lesbians transphobic for not wanting to date TiMs they themselves, oddly enough, would never date another transbian. Common transbian discussions involve talks about evil TERF lesbians, their built in strap ons and why somehow they just don’t feel welcome in lesbian spaces. They are women after all.
Common subreddits for transbians are:
r/actuallesbians (idk if there’s any cis women left on there)
Eh, like 85% of the "lesbian" relationships I've come across online are two dudes. There's a lot to give transbians shit for, but not wanting to date each other is not one of them.
This oddly feels like a thread that should've been done long ago.
It's almost like they have a higher case of narcissism than any other variant of a trans person I know. It's like you feel something's not right and you know everything about how this person breathes, acts and behaves around others from just seeing Transbian in their bio. They're not to be trusted and you feel you already know all their views on women (that switches as soon as that biological women dares to be against an ideology that essentially skinwalks them) and how they'd treat them if they're caught with severe wrongthink.
J.K. Rowling's the obvious biggest example of this. But I sympathize a lot more with the strangers who can't just, move on or not take the insults given at them seriously. Real women are treated lesser than dirt by these Transbians and they almost never get any consequence for it. It's only politically acceptable to vile women when they're not handmaidens or hardcore allies.
Indeed.
I remember when these guys first started popping up. It was something that a decade or two of unhealthy thinking was obviously leading to and yet it was still such a shock when it all came into bloom.
This wild combination of feeling stupefied and vindicated at the same time - unable to comprehend the sheer arrogance before me.
The most bizarre part of this is that, because “lesbian” porn is a category of porn for straight men first, and most of the “lesbians” in it are straight women not good enough at acting to even seem to enjoy it, a lot of lesbians stayed closeted for longer because they looked up “lesbian” porn and found it gross/offputting because it’s just two straight women badly pretending to perform for straight men. So for a straight man to say he watched a subgenre of porn made for straight men and that it made him “discover” that he’s a “lesbian” is completely insane.
Chris Chan pioneering this nonsense tells you all you need to know and he's 100% emblematic of it.
Troons will rarely actually date each other for obvious reasons but that's all the more reason why I silently advocate for it, these freaks deserve each other.
And the obsession with yuri. Its just the romance anime variant of lesbian porn for pornsick men to self insert into despite the fact that it was written by a japanese man that was imagining two biological women and not men in wigs. This is the exact thing that happens when its no longer socially acceptable to bully people on the Internet.
