heni , heni is a troon. their also pretty open about it and their best friend is an commie terminally online troon who makes AI models and I'm pretty sure they fuck another troon.
heni , heni is a troon. their also pretty open about it and their best friend is an commie terminally online troon who makes AI models and I'm pretty sure they fuck another troon.
it's a server for local llms , the guy who runs it frankly deserves his own thread he's such a nutjob and has such a self-destructive and egotistical personality but no I just visit it since people post their llms to a certain section of the discord. if you've seen anything on the piracy thread about fmhy their also a pretty garbage community but their are still some perks for joining if you have questions for piracy. but yeah I 100% understand where such a question is coming from and I feel like an idiot for wasting a good amount of time their
“@heni you have a stomach infenction and have already mentioned in my dms your unstable why exactly are you saying society needs to accept others to understand them unless it's something serious like being MAP or some other genuinely retarded shit”
As if troonism DOESN’T fall under the umbrella of “genuinely retarded shit”???
Man, oh man…you’d like to think that society would step in and say ‘no’ when “genuinely retarded shit” starts gaining steam, but the test we were given vis-à-vis troonism has proven us to be exceptionally poor in early detection and eradication. We’re much too willing to lay down and entertain “genuinely retarded shit” as the deviants continue pushing the Overton Window. Think about the progressives who considered troonism “genuinely retarded shit” years ago, before going on to wholeheartedly embrace the lunacy. This, by the way, bodes very poorly for how we as a society are going to react when what’s considered “genuinely retarded shit” today gets cloaked in syrupy, duplicitous language, and it gets some momentum behind it tomorrow…
The idea behind "ask everyone for their pronouns" wasn't solely because you don't know who might be trans, but also because singling one person out is basically telling them "you look like a tranny and I want to be sure what to call you without making you upset". Doing that is a super easy way to upset a troon without outing yourself as a transphobe. You, an innocent, well-meaning trans ally, were just making sure you don't misgender them!
This person also seems like the type of NLOG to get upset at butch lesbians for "making it harder to pass", which is something I have witnessed multiple times in the past. And, I have to add, she claims she "acts like a man" but posts to reddit to vent about something that made her feel "weird" ? Come on!
What in that post would have warrented it to be taken down? Seems like standard pooner whining. Does one of the r/ftm jannies lurk this thread, or something?
The whole trans Internet is rooting for unjustly imprisoned troon Pandora Holmes who is being forcefully detransitioned as a prelude to the full trans genocide.
Revisiting this guy [YT] nearly two years on. He's... still not well at all.
He claims he is being sectioned for violent threats and might go to prison because he was kicked out "by "a TERF" from a course he was forced to do as part of release conditions.
Difficult to determine what really happened because obviously he lies, but the Catch 22 situation he describes might be at least partially true. Some UK institutions are detoxing from trans activism faster than others and some not at all. In the first two videos however I am fascinated by how his Lolita avatar inherits his tics.
Black void of human emotion Dark_Triad_Queen is back to complain more about sexed bathrooms, which seems to be a recurring theme for him, as in today's episode he nearly had a meltdown when trying to use the women's room (though to his credit, he initially made a beeline for the men's toilet first). He admits that to be in this female-only space inspires a unique terror in him, aware that being accosted in there could lead to an ass-whoopin' to be felt throughout generations; to solve this conundrum, he apparently pisses in bottles to avoid going to public bathrooms at all, which implies he may be hoarding urine in his car. Living your truth certainly comes at a cost, doesn't it? Last Post Link | Archive
Went to Marshalls the other day for some Von Duth bags ( found a stanley tumbler in the pink shade I wanted too ) and I had to use the bathroom. When I asked the old lady about the bathroom at the fitting rooms she was really angry and nearly shouted at me with a stern voice.
I tried using the men’s but both stalls where in use because some dude brought his kid in so I went into the women’s and there was someone else in the other stall.
I had so much more panic than when I use the men’s because if another woman saw me in there I’d be F***** and probably have the police called or some bystander threaten to beat my ass.
How do yall do it ? I can’t use the ladies room. I just can’t. I’ll pee in a bottle in my car and usually wait until I get home or go to the gym if I have to use number 2.
Holy matroonmony: A straight-with-extra-steps celebrate their love by uniting in traditional marital bliss, but even on a special day such as this the looming specter of transphobia lurks near as a wedding guest tries to figure out exactly what role the tranny's adopting now that they've exchanged wedding rings. I couldn't help but crack a smile when OP said that the pair of them went out of their way to handpick their guest list to ensure that everyone present was acquiescing to troonacy and he still got called a dude - and from the sounds of it, his little slip of a spouse did very little to defend the honor of her Brogdignagian "bride" when push came to shove. What are the odds he winds up throwing this back in her face during their Very First Marital Argument, you think? Link | Archive
Tell me why this demonic pansexual wombyn that my spouse is friends with said to him while we're sitting together (AFTER the ceremony)
"Soo like what's your vibe now? Are you going to be a husband?"
My spouse just says umm yea... Then the cissoid turns to me and says " and how do you identify? Husband? Or..." My spouse just says confusedly "she's my wife" and I'm so fucking livid that I have to walk right out of the bar. We literally had a binary marriage ceremony that this stupid bitch sat through and she's hitting me with "how do you identify" like she thinks I'm wearing a dress as a fucking prank. It's so hilarious too because we had almost no family there and no one that wasn't 100% accepting but of course the afab "queer" idiot that I've never met is performing mental gymnastics in order to get confused about st4t people doing normal hetero shit. They really can't stand to see us happy I stg.
still Hopefuel though cause we got married
We all know that a lot of transgender acceptance is predominantly an insincere dog and pony show, but this MTF had to learn this the hard way when he tried to take a leak at a gay bar only to be escorted out of the bathroom under the presumption that he was an invasive species in a habitat he didn't belong in. "I wasn't even manmoding," he writes - which is a slang term for dressing as your birth sex instead of in a crude approximation of the cartoon girl who first inspired a mix of envy and arousal in you - and this means that some ungainly crossdresser had to be dragged out in front of a crowd of pronouned pansies and nobody did anything to stop it. Comedy at its finest. Link | Archive
Fucking escorted all I wanted was to piss I explicitly avoided doing so for the full fucking night but how dare I try use the fucking women's in a queer bar with trans shit everywhere fucking no im just a fucking man im not even a fucking gigahon im just a straight up fucking dude like actually what the fuck I wasn't even manmoding it's genuinely fucking over I can't believe I ever thought I could be a fucking woman I can't believe hat I was ever this fucking delusional oh my fucking I was having such a great night being out with my friends and meeting other queer women but whatever the fuck I will never be a woman I will never be a fucking woman
Speaking of performative allyship, here's another tranny agonizing over the dreadful truth that even people with pride flags on their car bumpers and pronoun pins in their email signatures still view him, at best, as merely "tolerable." It's always fun when members of the alphabet soup society realize how much support behind them is completely bogus because not only do they have to be acutely aware that nobody actually likes them, they can't even call it out directly without looking even crazier than they already are. Whoopsie! Link | Archive
Dysphoria alone is a huge burden to carry. And it is made nearly totally crushing by the fact that the average person cannot remotely understand it and doesn't care to. Of course the suicide rate is as high as it is. It drives one insane having little to no support. Not feeling safe almost anywhere. Facing hostility even in your own "community". Being the freak of freaks.
"stop caring about what others think!" EASIER SAID THAN FUCKING DONE. This can work pretty effectively when you are facing backlash from a minority of people, not a large majority. And you are at best merely tolerated by most "accepting" people. They do not ACCEPT they tolerate. And virtue signal of acceptance to collect woke points.
You are a delusional alien for life and the best you can hope for is some tolerance from your society and good support from like minded peers. But that is a privilege afforded to very few of us.
Sorry for preaching to the choir. I just needed to get this out.
Though this TiM's wife is the most airborne of all the flying monkeys a tranny could ask for, even she cannot keep up the charade of seeing him as a woman when the mere sight of his unshaven face triggers a panic attack during sex due to his reminiscence to previous assailants. Rather than express sympathy for the violation that his wife has suffered, OP - in typical transgender fashion - displaces her pain and puts his in its place, unable to look at himself in the mirror not out of guilt for having upset her but because it's a sick reminder that he is, and always will be, a man. Link | Archive
So my wife (32) and I (29) have been together for 2 years, and it has been great, she helped me break my egg, cut of family that made transphobic remarks, gave me so much confidence in myself. She has a lot of trama from a lot of sources including SA, which has a bering here. We started getting... intimate and she had a panic attack, after she had calmed down, she told me that because I hadn't shaved ( I need new razors, I had thrown out my last one the day before after using it) for a moment she didn't see me as her wife, she saw a random guy. This had never been a issue before and like I said, she has always been there for me and defended me even when she didn't need to. Now it feels like everything i have built up is gone, my self image, my confidence. I know i dont pass well, especially with the fact that I cant get on hrt for many reasons, but I've never been more then passively dysphoric, but now just glances in a mirror in the car or a reflection in a windows has me lothing everything male about me. The part that sucks the most is if I told her what her words did, it would destroy her, and I cant do that to her.
Sorry I know I say this every week, but I can’t stand dating. Not only am I asexual, but I’m pre everything, which makes me easier to fetishize. The only people who have ever wanted me were chasers. I also have BPD, anxiety and depression (diagnosed) and no one wants to deal with that. I’m completely unconvinced that anyone will ever see me as a real man. People either fetishize me and treat me like a baby or misgender me. I cannot date another tucute but where tf am I supposed to find another asexual truscum person? It’s so fucking lonely and I’m so tired of people IN relationships saying “ohh love yourself first!” “Ohh it’s not so bad being single!” Dude I NEED someone to help me function .
been a lurker on this sub forever and dont have anywhere else to rant about this so im giga stealth since forever, live life as a cis man and never come out to people anymore because i just dont have to and dont want to (life is just easier like this) I have a friend who has been out as a trans guy for years. last year we had a really deep talk, they were supposed to finally start hrt soon and were excited about it and i ended up coming out to them, idk maybe to show support or that they're not alone in this journey, we knew eachother for years now so i said fuck it might as well bond over this, brotherhood and shit
they genuinely were surprised and turns out throughout our whole friendship they had no idea and never questioned my gender in any way (hopefuel). it seemed like a sweet genuine moment between us at the time
we also often joked about how many people we knew suddenly detransitioned and friend said how they can't imagine ever detransitioning , after i came out we laughed how we're the only real ones left here now
fast forward to now, "i think the detransition beam got me bro". stopped hrt completely. immediately boobs out, doing makeup, using she her pronouns. told me her deadname too.
i came out and opened up for nothing. i dont feel good with her knowing now. never trust cissoids
i know its not that serious but. fuck me bro. im never coming out to someone again. i feel betrayed
Between the last post and this next one, "betrayal" is a word that ought to be put on a shelf far too high for troons 'n' poons to reach as this tranny also experiences what he deems to be a treasonous act: his dad casually referred to him with male pronouns during a birthday dinner OP didn't want to attend even though it was in his honor. Look, I'm not one to pull the "there's starving children in Africa" card every time someone wants to complain about a shitty day, but dude, you're on tranny Reddit; half the people here have families who wouldn't even piss on them if they were on fire - maybe be a little more grateful that your family is willing to be seen in public with you in the first place. Link | Archive
Went to my birthday lunch for my parents (I say it that way because they do it to take the family out even though they know it drives me crazy dealing with my brother and nephew at a restaurant, neither know how to act and both bicker the whole time, something I wish I didnt have to deal with at an event said to be about what I want.) It was a horrible dining experience just overall, shit service, brought us the wrong stuff, practically ignored us the whole time, and the food was bland and cold, the chips usually come with bean dip but didnt so we asked for some and the lady practically scolded us for it.
We get through lunch, and I think ok cool its only up from here. Then it happened, we talk about how my brother dyed his hair, and my dad starts mention how I had a purple Mohawk back in the day, and my mom asks if I did any other colors, and when my dad responded he used "he" for me. He did it so confidently and seemed so sure of himself, I corrected him and asked why he said "he" and this mfer just says "well yeah you a boy back then" and moves on, no apology or anything. 2 and a half years ive been transitioning and he confidently and unapologetically misgenders me to my fucking face. I feel so betrayed. What a way to spend what was supposed to be a good afternoon about me. Anyway rant over, thanks for reading.
Even though nobody forces them to get cosmetic surgeries, a TiM resents that a penny earned is never a penny saved as each one must go towards paving the road in gold for the tireless mutilation machine that is transgender healthcare instead of something like a house, a family or achieving one's dreams. Bitterly, OP wishes that just once that ordinary women be made martyr the way he's been, but to me it's noteworthy that he does not have the same desire to force men to submit a similar level of misery even though one would think this resentment could apply equally to both sexes. That's not very hashtag feminist of you, OP! Link | Archive
Stuck saving tens of thousands for surgeries to obtain what our cis counterparts get to be born with from the very start, only to become somewhat the same thing as them. It's silly cis people get to work to save up for their house, their future family, their dream life or what have you and we're just stuck for an unknown amount of years saving up to literally just reach the baseline of what every cis person is born with.
I just woke up thinking about this for some reason. It's extremely unfair and I wish, as a trans woman, that one day cis women could wake up and be a trans woman and see what it's like to have the short end of the stick. For me, and I can't shake this thought, cis women are a walking privilege because they have everything I don't have and give it for granted. Wish my femininity was as granted and free as yours
Having built his entire identity around the works of Neil Gaiman, a MTF struggles with trying to move on with his life due to the chokehold Gaiman's influence still has on him. While I think it's fine to be disappointed by creators who reveal themselves to be human slime molds the way Gaiman did, I notice here that OP's language is far gentler than the kind typically directed at JK Rowling as he gently refers to Gaiman as having "never been worth a damn" and lamenting that he wishes people could just "be decent to each other." Just sort of feels like it's understating the kind of wretched behavior Gaiman got up to, but we all know that for their crimes, men may be hung as men, but women shall be hung as devils. Link | Archive
I’d never seen a straight up, taking hormones and getting surgeries, trans woman before I read Sandman when I was 19, 23 years ago. It’s a far from perfect portrayal, but Wanda was a human being. She had her faults and she had her better qualities. She had a past and a present and a future that was cut out. Even at that time, I knew how monstrous it was to bury her under her deadname.
After I read Sandman, I read nearly anything that Gaiman wrote. I feel like I learned a lot about myself and shaped myself around his work, due to how they felt like they were written FOR me and people like me. American Gods used to be my favorite novel about America. The Graveyard Book got me to appreciate The Jungle Book more and Coraline had such a distinct voice and just…I could go on.
I got rid of everything that I own that was written by him (except for the first volume of Absolute Sandman, since that was a gift) and even two years later, it still hurts. It still hurts to discover what a monster he is. It still hurts to see someone I used to respect, deny all accountability and reveal himself to have never been worth a damn.
I genuinely don’t know what to do with this grief. Every time I even hear his name is like a wound has been torn open. Why can’t people ever just be decent to each other?
This dood is so special a little guy that she cannot bear the ignominy of having to work a job where people can tell she's just a fuzzy chick, which has left her unemployed and unemployable for nearly a year due to the anguish it causes her. Truly it is a fate most unjust, as OP can't understand how people aren't getting the memo when she talks about her manly male interests such as "movies" and "video games" and has manly male qualities such as "wide shoulders" and a "5 o'clock shadow." Newsflash, my dear: hairy nerdy girls with unfortunate body proportions are a dime a dozen depending on how entrenched you get in online fandoms - I can assure you that you're hardly exuding a phallic energy so potent that you can't be mistaken for one of them. Link | Archive
// This is open for others who are in a similar place. Please, for the love of all things good, i do /not/ need any reassurance, encouragement or tactics to overcome this. This is a problem that i have tried to navigate for years now and i have just given up. //
I am just going to word vomit as theres no proper way to phrase or orgamize any of this. I am so tired of working jobs that claim to be LGBTQ+ supportive/allies, ARE QUEER THEMSELVES, or have people reassuring me that i am respected and recognized when i abso-fucking-lutely am not. Honestly. I have been on testosterone for 5 years now in October and while yes, i may not have a burly beard or deep ass voice, but for an asian, african latino man i can say that i look like an asian, african latino man. I am short. Slimmer build. Round face, small eyes. However i very much carry myself as a man and will speak about being a man/being in masculine spaces often as i regularly attend trans raves, trans social events and transmasc game nights here in my city. But for some fucking reason, i can have a 20-something (my age range) get all in my face about how they are totally an ally and totally okay with my queerness and then,,, they use the wrong pronouns months into knowing me. Other fem/women include me in their conversations with other women co workers about issues in their life (not a bad thing!! however, if its me and 7 other girls talking about xyz,,, i feel like im included in girl talk which doesnt always feel good for me.) They'll assume the role i take in my relationship, and constantly assume that i take up a more feminine role. I know and am VERY conscious of the fact that i can look rather feminine compared to my bf (however you decide feminine looks like, everyone looks at it differently) or sound feminine when im using my "gay voice" or whatever, or my outfits. But oh my god. I have a 5 oclock shadow? Wide shoulders? I talk about masculine spaces/events often? My favourite things to talk about are movies and video games? Still get she her'd. Still get "oh you didnt move in with your boyfriend???" Or still get comments very obviously pointing out what they expect from my boyfriend as the more masculine one (even tho they dont know him lol,,, plus hes very fem lmfao) and its fucking exhausting. Ive had jobs where more than a year in im STILL GETTING SHE HER'D BY NEARLY EVERYONE THERE. THE OWNER, MANAGEMENT, SUPERVISORS and ever my underclassmen!!!!!
This shit makes me go insane, and has pushed me into a space of dysphoria that almost feels concrete now. I no longer take the hit as hard, but i have to say man. After years of this treatment, through highschool, college, and now post college as an adult who has no choice but to work i cannot come to a normal baseline when i work. My most recent job had me breaking down in tears crouched behind the counter, running to the bathroom any second i could to take as long of a break as i could, extending my breaks, giving away shifts, making up sicknesses and injuries just to call out... until one day i quit on the spot. I opened emails between my manager and our district manager discussing onboarding processes for insurance for me ( i had authority to look at said emails because i was in a leadership position that had me using the same email as my managers) and what do i see. She her with my name next to it, approx 5 months into working alongside said manager DAILY. And the one co worker she was all buddy buddy with? Also had a rather nasty habit of fucking up too.
This is not the first job where things have been like this. Since coming out in highschool its been like this at every job. And i truly mean every. Im not exaggerating. It has gotten to the point where i cannot go into work or even think about work without having a proper full on panic attack (yes, i have indeed be diagnosed with severe anxiety since a childhood, it is managed but regardless) or even just avoiding the whole thing in general. I nearly scored a new job that was made and owned by a trans and gay person who had also been discriminated againt in the workplace, but to no avail. They selected someone else after leading me on. I took a huge hit from that because it was my only shot a security. Its been nearly a year since ive worked now and even though i thought i could try again,,, here i am crying whilst typing this because now even thinking of work makes me spiral.
Before you get on my case YES my anxiety is managed and YES i have a fantastic therapist by my side. I have been trying to overcome this. But my fucking god. Does anyone else just feel utterly insane when you make all the blood curdling, soul searching effort to be who you are, only for people, including queer people, to see you as a girl? I fear that one day i may hurt myself in some sort of way or even detransition given how things are.
I have been trying all that i can to be self employed as i thankfully have many skills that are profitable and in demand. I am a nail technician plus i live in a highly urban metropolitan city here in canada. I just. Fear not having the stability of a conventional job in fear of somehing happening to my boyfriend who is a registered nurse down the line. I know he makes a salary and i can hopefully make it by as a technician, but the fear is still there. Idk. I want many good things in life and my boyfriend does too. I know the risk of something actually happening to him like that is slim to none, but ugh. I cant help but feel so useless not having a conventional job,, but the debilitating fear of working one and being treated like a woman or being seen as one despite how hard i drive home that im a dude holds me back.
Finally, a FTM can hardly live with herself because she will never have a penis, and the closest approximation she can get - a rotdog - will never satisfy her as she longs to experience random erections, random erections around women that she can't explain, random erections both in and out of clothing and random erections that she can "awkwardly explore." Damn, do you guys think there might be more to manhood than just random erections? Because after reading so many pooner posts, I'm not quite so sure anymore! Link | Archive
Hi all, I just want to get something off my chest because I have no support systems that really “get it”. I just need someone to acknowledge how much I am hurting. I’m sorry if this is the wrong place for it. I (FtM) have been on T for over 7 years, have had top surgery, legally changed everything. But it’s just not enough. I thought it would fix me, but it doesn’t. I’d get top surgery a thousand times over if I had to, I’d fight for T all the same like I have. But it’s just not enough. I’ve seen many psychologists, therapists… all ‘specialised in gender dysphoria’, I’ve spoken to various trans people over the years, but none of them get it either. For me, ‘being a man’, it’s hard to explain, but this aspect is totally irrelevant for my experience. I’d be a woman for all I care. The amount of times I’ve had to explain “you don’t need this to be a man” doesn’t help me whatsoever because it’s not an insecurity about being a man, it’s not an identity issue. It’s all physical.
I just want a dick. I want to grow up and have all those awkward exploration experiences, those embarrassing class moments, or those “I hope she doesn’t think I’m into her just because the wind blew the wrong direction” moments. I want to experiment with aiming around, or sticking it in all kinds of stupid places just because it fits and curiosity about the way it would feel. I want to feel it change size, fill with blood, feel it stretch and strain in different types of clothes.
Surgeries aren’t good enough for me, packers just remind me of what I can’t have. I’ve spent so much money. Thousands and thousands of dollars spent on disappointing reminders that couldn’t scratch the itch I feel. That deep itch I feel all over my bones and just can never scratch, and people tell me to just accept the itch and that the itch doesn’t make me any less than those who don’t have an itch, or those born with a bone scratcher.
I’ve gone to gynaecologists for physical therapy to help fix my atrophy and vaginismus, trying to get the best out of what I’ve got. But the heart break only grows bigger when I realise I won’t wake up one day with a flesh and blood dick. It hurts every single day, it makes me so desperate that I can often hardly stop myself from seeking out experiences that will only leave me feeling used.
I always used to think that Freud's concept of "penis envy" was utter bullshit, but all these pooners force me to admit that I was wrong and the old Vienesse pervert was right.
Not exactly. Freud's shtick was penis envy was the primary motivator of female behavior, as it might be the castration complex in males. His philosophy survives today only in political rhetoric. You know, explaining the other guy's political position as being the result of a having small dick and the like. Is there an old fashioned technical term for this condition?
For me I have really started to enjoy washing my hands. Obviously I washed my hands regardless but now it's always a shocking reminder of how smooth my skin is now, it's really nice and I love it.
Another thing is that I bought a handbag and I think that was the single best six dollars I've ever spent (thrift stores, hooray). I get so much joy from it. It just makes every outfit feel complete and more me, and it's super useful to have a bunch of useful stuff on me without needing an ugly backpack.
I was wondering if anybody else wanted to share weirdly specific sources of euphoria?
We all know that a lot of transgender acceptance is predominantly an insincere dog and pony show, but this MTF had to learn this the hard way when he tried to take a leak at a gay bar only to be escorted out of the bathroom under the presumption that he was an invasive species in a habitat he didn't belong in
I don't think she is asexual at all. I had the exact same problem at her age where I was unable to feel sexual desire or pleasure. Turns out, if you automatically dissociate or get stressed during sex you "block" yourself from having any good feelings, and "forcing" yourself to have sex with strangers just makes this worse. You just have to find ONE person who makes you feel really safe and relaxed, and then you will be able to feel desire or even cum. Hookup culture causes "asexuality".
This dood is so special a little guy that she cannot bear the ignominy of having to work a job where people can tell she's just a fuzzy chick, which has left her unemployed and unemployable for nearly a year due to the anguish it causes her.
Oh God damn it this makes me MATI. There are millions if not billions of people around the world with horrible working conditions that they just have to grit and bear. I had a job leave me with PTSD. Having a normie retail job in the first world is a privilege like having a comfy warm bed to sleep in, you really don't appreciate it until you go without.
Having a normie retail job in the first world is a privilege like having a comfy warm bed to sleep in, you really don't appreciate it until you go without.
Revisiting this guy [YT] nearly two years on. He's... still not well at all.
He claims he is being sectioned for violent threats and might go to prison because he was kicked out "by "a TERF" from a course he was forced to do as part of release conditions.
Difficult to determine what really happened because obviously he lies, but the Catch 22 situation he describes might be at least partially true. Some UK institutions are detoxing from trans activism faster than others and some not at all. In the first two videos however I am fascinated by how his Lolita avatar inherits his tics.
Did you guys know that "panda cub" is pedophile lingo for anally raped toddlers and babies? The blunt force trauma causes blood vessels to burst in their eyes and eye sockets so the children get black eyes... Don't know anything about this troon but it's an interesting factoid to ponder, especially since he's getting sectioned.
Someone at work said I had girly hands. I have not got over that. It still feels amazing a week later. Another time, someone heard my footsteps and when I came round the corner said “I thought it was a woman!”. My grin was enormous.
) and I had to use the bathroom.
It's extremely unfair and I wish, as a trans woman, that one day cis women could wake up and be a trans woman and see what it's like to have the short end of the stick. For me, and I can't shake this thought, cis women are a walking privilege because they have everything I don't have and give it for granted. Wish my femininity was as granted and free as yours
Can't be said enough.
