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- Feb 14, 2023
Ashamed, embarrassed and chastened would be a good start.
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So it happened yesterday. We broke up officially April 2024 when I transitioned as she said she wasn’t attracted to females.
Anyways we tried to carry things on and it was messy, really messy. Cheating. Tears. Confusion. Relapses. Lots of ugly fights and all came to a close in August 2024.
Anyways she got a new BF in November and has moved on but I keep popping back up as I never wanted to break up…finally I’ve accepted it and was moving on when she just deadnamed me out of the blue…I don’t know how to take this.
Honestly my dead name is still my legal name so I hear it all the time but for her to say it, it was like crossing a line…like no…you’re not allowed to call me that anymore, not after everything you’ve done. Am I justified to feel this way?
Thanks team
Gotta love based ex-wife

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My ex dead named me as I was saying goodbye to her for the last time…unsure how to feel.
DiscussionSo it happened yesterday. We broke up officially April 2024 when I transitioned as she said she wasn’t attracted to females.
Anyways we tried to carry things on and it was messy, really messy. Cheating. Tears. Confusion. Relapses. Lots of ugly fights and all came to a close in August 2024.
Anyways she got a new BF in November and has moved on but I keep popping back up as I never wanted to break up…finally I’ve accepted it and was moving on when she just deadnamed me out of the blue…I don’t know how to take this.
Honestly my dead name is still my legal name so I hear it all the time but for her to say it, it was like crossing a line…like no…you’re not allowed to call me that anymore, not after everything you’ve done. Am I justified to feel this way?
Thanks team
Gotta love based ex-wife
