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- Oct 7, 2024
Just a vent. I’m FTM and I just almost had security called on me for using the mens’ public bathroom at my own place of work the other day, in a very very blue state. I had just gotten out of evening shift at 11:30pm in a big city and a guy followed me to the bathroom yelling “bitch” to get my attention, so I didn’t acknowledge him because I didn’t want trouble. Once I was in a stall I heard him talk to the cleaning guy and say a “woman” was in there. The cleaning guy then said to get security and I just sat in there terrified but eventually forced myself to come out because I had to catch my bus. The cleaning guy was still there and tried to tell me that’s the mens’ room and I mustered up some balls, gestured to myself, and said “yes, that’s me, I don’t want any problems for using the correct restroom” and I think he finally realized something. I think the person who followed me in probably didn’t think I was trans because my beard isn’t that visible from far away, and just thought I was a woman because I don’t always pass, but it scared the shit out of me to almost have a run in with security for just using the bathroom.
TW: SUICIDE
Two years ago I came across a chat opened up by my mother, texting an unknown number, sending a picture of mine taken in a private setting without my consent. The text below said "she's sick". without further explanation. about the same time she had another conversation with someone else over a text, saying: "my 18 year old daughter thinks she's a boy" By that time I was out for 2 years.
In 2022, I wasn't told where we were going and she took me to see a nun, who also somehow already knew I was about to be a student in uni so I was forced to deadname and refer to myself as a girl.
There's too many examples. I have been told to "jump out the window" or "k*ll yourself" on multiple occasions. She claims to have grown as a person but this wasn't all that long ago.
P.S she still refers to me as a "human being" I have told her multiple times to stop doing that. when I do she just says "oh so you're not a human being?". She calls everyone else "boy" casually. Heck, she even calls my dog a boy. She respects the dog more than her own son.
Then in the comments:
Forgot when she got mad that my therapist was actually supportive. "you only go see her because she sees you as a man" yeah?? why would I willingly go to someone who doesn't?
Two years ago I came across a chat opened up by my mother, texting an unknown number, sending a picture of mine taken in a private setting without my consent. The text below said "she's sick". without further explanation. about the same time she had another conversation with someone else over a text, saying: "my 18 year old daughter thinks she's a boy" By that time I was out for 2 years.
In 2022, I wasn't told where we were going and she took me to see a nun, who also somehow already knew I was about to be a student in uni so I was forced to deadname and refer to myself as a girl.
There's too many examples. I have been told to "jump out the window" or "k*ll yourself" on multiple occasions. She claims to have grown as a person but this wasn't all that long ago.
P.S she still refers to me as a "human being" I have told her multiple times to stop doing that. when I do she just says "oh so you're not a human being?". She calls everyone else "boy" casually. Heck, she even calls my dog a boy. She respects the dog more than her own son.
Then in the comments:
Forgot when she got mad that my therapist was actually supportive. "you only go see her because she sees you as a man" yeah?? why would I willingly go to someone who doesn't?
women missing class because they spent an hour trying on clothes and nothing fits lol. How removed from men are they in their life that they put this out into the world with no self awareness and still claim to be men lol
