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Pooner goes to grindr, finds straight man "who always wanted to fuck a trans man", is shocked that he wants to stick his dick in her. AND IT WORKED.
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Title says it all.
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"I'm a guy! Wait, why are you blaming me for what other men do?" That's the way it's worked for a long fucking time now, man up.
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I was gaslit into bottoming for a grindr guy self.ftm
Submitted 18 hours ago by Tu_Trans_Tiburon
Story time for all my T boy homies! This happened months ago, I decided to have a little hoe phase and downloaded grindr (again). I always knew myself to be a top and for once I tried bottoming a few months ago (with a trans woman that I had YEARS of trust and knowing) . I was convinced that the only person I could bottom for was that T girl. A grindr guy hit me up, saying he always wanted to fuck a trans man. I was like: hold up I’m a top. He was like: oh that’s fine we can do oral sex, etc. I agreed, since he seemed to not be transphobic and kinda chill. But during text he would say “oh I want to fuck you. I want to feel inside of you.” I said “dude I’m going to block you. I told you I’m not going to bottom for you.” He was like “oh no I’m sorry, I am just saying what I wish could happen.” I was like
the audacity. I just said we aren’t going to be doing that. Keep your wishes to yourself. So we have a one night stand , and it was fine- he respected my boundaries. Had some sus convos with him. He was “just learning about trans people”. I went over for a second time, but I had a bad feeling. I agreed I could bottom for him with only condom. He kept whining and complaining about the condom making his dick soft. He kept saying , “oh we won’t be able to have sex with a condom, it makes me soft- oh look the condom fell off.” “Can I just go inside of you for 30 seconds?” “No.” “Please? It will be quick. Why are you so worried? Why are you killing the vibes?” Me: -_- dude YOU are killing the vibes. How hard is it to respect boundaries? He then convinced me to bottom without condom and it was more than 30 seconds. What do you guys think? Was I gaslit? He is a jerk right? I blocked his ass a few hours after the hookup.
Submitted 18 hours ago by Tu_Trans_Tiburon
Story time for all my T boy homies! This happened months ago, I decided to have a little hoe phase and downloaded grindr (again). I always knew myself to be a top and for once I tried bottoming a few months ago (with a trans woman that I had YEARS of trust and knowing) . I was convinced that the only person I could bottom for was that T girl. A grindr guy hit me up, saying he always wanted to fuck a trans man. I was like: hold up I’m a top. He was like: oh that’s fine we can do oral sex, etc. I agreed, since he seemed to not be transphobic and kinda chill. But during text he would say “oh I want to fuck you. I want to feel inside of you.” I said “dude I’m going to block you. I told you I’m not going to bottom for you.” He was like “oh no I’m sorry, I am just saying what I wish could happen.” I was like
Title says it all.
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"I'm a guy! Wait, why are you blaming me for what other men do?" That's the way it's worked for a long fucking time now, man up.
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So I have to shoulder the guilt of all men now?General (self.FTMventing)
submitted 1 day ago by staticinfernos
I’m mildly out at work as trans which means I’m not out to any of the supervisors. Just a few colleagues around my ranking.
Our supervisor is a classic sexist racist white man. He once knew I was trans but I think because of his drug and or mental health problems he forgot about it over a couple of years.
One of my female colleagues gets treated particularly bad and sometimes vents to me about our supervisor which is fine because she knows I’ve had female experiences so I can relate and understand.
But now she takes out her frustrations on me instead. Feeling the need to bring up male privilege every chance she gets around me as if it’s somehow my fault that sexism and male privilege exist and somehow my fault that our supervisor treats her badly. Like what do you want me to do about this? Detransition? Out myself to him so he can treat me badly too in the name of equality? I can listen to you and make requests on your behalf but I’m not gonna accept being blamed for the entire patriarchy.
Like I get it. I have male privilege now but I’ve only had it for the past 4 years where I’ve remained misgender-free. I had to work hard to get to a place where I can be comfortable with myself. And yet in my mind I still don’t pass. However the moment I tell any untrustworthy person in power I’m trans I will fall further down the privilege totem pole than a cis girl. So genuinely what do you want me to do about any of this?
Weirdly enough cis men who know I’m trans treat me way more normal than cis women who know I’m trans because they think they can use me as a punching bag for all their frustrations with men that I embody for some reason even though I’ve only been here like 4 years.
submitted 1 day ago by staticinfernos
I’m mildly out at work as trans which means I’m not out to any of the supervisors. Just a few colleagues around my ranking.
Our supervisor is a classic sexist racist white man. He once knew I was trans but I think because of his drug and or mental health problems he forgot about it over a couple of years.
One of my female colleagues gets treated particularly bad and sometimes vents to me about our supervisor which is fine because she knows I’ve had female experiences so I can relate and understand.
But now she takes out her frustrations on me instead. Feeling the need to bring up male privilege every chance she gets around me as if it’s somehow my fault that sexism and male privilege exist and somehow my fault that our supervisor treats her badly. Like what do you want me to do about this? Detransition? Out myself to him so he can treat me badly too in the name of equality? I can listen to you and make requests on your behalf but I’m not gonna accept being blamed for the entire patriarchy.
Like I get it. I have male privilege now but I’ve only had it for the past 4 years where I’ve remained misgender-free. I had to work hard to get to a place where I can be comfortable with myself. And yet in my mind I still don’t pass. However the moment I tell any untrustworthy person in power I’m trans I will fall further down the privilege totem pole than a cis girl. So genuinely what do you want me to do about any of this?
Weirdly enough cis men who know I’m trans treat me way more normal than cis women who know I’m trans because they think they can use me as a punching bag for all their frustrations with men that I embody for some reason even though I’ve only been here like 4 years.
