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The "coming out to my wife" posts are always great. Looking forward to hearing more on this!What about duct tape?
TFW you want to blow up your life but adulting gets in the way
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I was planning I coming out to my wife tomorrow and telling her that I want to explore my gender identity as a trans woman. I am not expecting it to go smoothly or for her to react overly well.
The reason I chose tomorrow is that we are home alone this weekend and we didn’t have any plans. Well that plan is blown. This evening my wife started laying out a huge heap of things she wants to get done this weekend including, but not limited to organising flooring for a room we are renovating, bringing her dad over to see how a hose works (apparently it is done hose he bought her off of the TV that automatically expands and retracts when the water is turned on or off) and cleaning the kitchen. She also wants to go look at getting some new plants for the garden.
All I can think about is how I thought we would have the day to work through me coming out. Instead, I think that I am going to have to stuff all of these feelings back down again. I don’t know if I can continue to live like that.
He really should tell his wife this weekend, preferably when his FIL is there with a length of hose. She needs to work out if she keeps the house or sells it after the divorce and leave the renovations to a new owner.