📚 Megathread Trannies posting their L's Online - Heckin valid people posting their funny misfortunes on the internet

[Jewish Man]

Trannies, moreover gorillahon troonjaks, tend to forget that not everything is inside their echo chamber

 

[Not 6 Foot]

Sadly they don't seem to realise that there is no word out there that is immune to being used as a slur

If they had their way you wouldn't be able to speak at all. Any words. These people don't even like it when black folk say, "hard r," nigger which, by their rules, should be the ones most allowed to say it.

 

[█████████]

If they had their way you wouldn't be able to speak at all. Any words. These people don't even like it when black folk say, "hard r," nigger which, by their rules, should be the ones most allowed to say it.

Brittany Venti (who is half-black) did blackface for last Halloween and black Twitter had a complete meltdown over it. Not even black people are allowed to do blackface apparently.

 

[Bootylicious Bootyhole]

Brittany Venti (who is half-black) did blackface for last Halloween and black Twitter had a complete meltdown over it. Not even black people are allowed to do blackface apparently.

I had forgotten she existed.

Thank you for the hearty laugh I got from googling this incident

 

[Same Shit Different Ass]

a gender-confused gay man burns with envy over a different fictional gay relationship... between... women?

The way these people talk about the surreal, idealistic teenage sex experiences they feel they had missed out on (which they've experienced through some tv show, LOL) is hilarious.

Imagine if I fell on my knees in front of a Frank Frazetta painting and shouted "I WISH I HAD THAT OMFG AAAAAAA, IT'S SO BEAUTIFUL" and then went onto 4chan to blogpoast about how unhappy I am am about never getting to experience what it must feel like to be the guy in this picture.

 

[Magic Pickle]

Half a decade's worth of love is dashed when a man chooses his coomerism over the life he's built with his high school sweetheart, who was tolerant about his troonery until spending a week with religious relatives who likely gave her a reality check. Now it's been nearly a year later since her departure, and even though he has a rebound handmaiden at his side, he still thinks of the one that got away.
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Five year relationship ended because of my transition​

Hi everyone, my girlfriend of nearly five years broke up with me out of the blue in May. I’ve done nothing but hurt these past eight months, so I’m turning to some of the only people that might understand. I’m sorry it’s gonna be long, but if you have the time and energy, I would really appreciate your support.
We met in 2019 in high school and became instant best friends. Then in 2020 when we were single at the same time, we feel in love with each other and started dating. Our relationship was perfect, we were lovers and best friends. Everyone said high school sweethearts never make it, except us. We went to college together, and only got closer as we grew up side by side.
I came out to her as a woman a year before we broke up, after a few years of questioning my gender and progressively becoming more androgynous. She was supportive the whole time, and often asked me if I was a woman, saying it would be okay if I was. I always said I didn’t know, until my egg broke, but still she was loving, supportive, and adjusted immediately. I started HRT in October of 2024, and that didn’t change. She was worried I would change, but I assured her that I would only look different and would be the same person she’s loved, just happier. Eventually, she pinky promised she believed me (we don’t break pinky promises)
That was also our last year of college, which we spent sharing a room in anticipation of moving in together after graduation. Our life together was wonderful, and we had no serious issues in our relationship except that we were having sex less often. When I brought this up, she attributed it to her Zoloft dose, which was wrecking her libido, and that it was our senior years and we were both incredibly busy. Still, we were happy and we were working on it.
The week after graduation she was more distant, but she was spending it with family. I was used to this each time we got home, as despite her family being Pentecostal evangelical and not know about my gender, she was very close with them, so I thought little of it. We planned to hang out after she was done with therapy that Friday, but when she got to my house and came into my room she had the most somber look in her eyes. She told me she didn’t think she was the right person for me, and I needed to be with someone who could love me fully. She saw me as a woman, but didn’t see herself being with one. She wasn’t attracted to my anymore. I cried and plead with her; she never mentioned this, couldn’t we talk it out and fix it like we had with everything before? We kissed and hugged and she left. I collapsed to my knees, and after kicking her out, my mother raced to come hold me.
The person I loved the most in the world, and I thought loved me as much, couldn’t love the real me. My transition had been many things up to this point, but I hadn’t suffered such a massive loss, nor did I think I would. My parents, my family, I could bear, as long I had her. Since then my transition has been tainted. I’ve progressed nicely, updated my wardrobe with the help of my supportive family, and pass every day with little effort, but I can’t help feeling that to become my true self I had to lose everything. I have a therapist, I’m on meds, but some days I don’t know how I’ll be able to live with this pain forever. My plans for my life collapsed, and everything feels fake. I’m rebuilding; I’m in grad school and have a job now, but I swear I could wake up from this nightmare any moment.
For some months I’ve been dating a wonderful lesbian who knows about what I’ve been through. She affirms me, treats me very well, and has helped me a lot with clothes and makeup. But everyday it hurts, and I can’t help thinking about my ex. I know many others’ transitions ended relationships and marriages. How did you girls deal with it? Does it get better? Will the woman I’ve become ever be more than this loss?

After trying on his wife's clothes in private following a conversation about sterilization, a prototranny realizes he may have a more female soul than he once thought - but his attempts to confess this to said wife fall flat as she assumes he merely struggles with her low sex drive. Impotent in more ways than one, OP acquiesces to her assumption, but still feels that feminine fire burn within.
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Well, it went over like a lead balloon...​

I broke down and tried coming out to my wife this morning.
She ended up telling me shes sorry I am sexually frustrated due to her low libido, but she thinks we need to exercise and get out more before I think about anything that jeopardizes my T or testes...
she wasnt really listening, she just got angry and apologetic while I tried to tell her that this had nothing to do with sexual frustration with her, that I really did feel like my testes were an enemy, that the only way I would feel better is to limit or eliminate their influence on my life... fogging my mind and keeping me under a cloud that I didn't fully realize until now, is too thick for me to just shrug off anymore.
She wants me to talk to a pastor rather than a therapist to try and figure out 'why you feel this way all of the sudden', despite me trying to outline the many tines over my life I now see has moments that were signaling this.
So... Idk if we are done or not.
I finally gave up amd told her thanks for talking, we had a moment where I cried for a different reason than I know she cried, I told her a bold faced lie about feeling better, bc I had to go anywhere but there. I made sure to do the usual routine of saying our morning goodbye, hug, kiss on the cheek...
I figured this is how this would go.
I just don't know where to go from here.
tl;dr my wife just thinks I am sexually frustrated and doesnt understand how bad I want this now.

Isla-nd: a TiM declares his new name to be Isla in a nervous confessional text to his parents, but rather than get the celebration he had hoped for, the cold, passive response from his parents makes him feel as if he's alone on a deserted shore.
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Just told my parents I want to go by a different name and she/her pronouns​

I sent my parents this whole text (it's easier for me to talk over text bc I stutter and cry a lot)
I have something important to say, and I'm only doing it over text because it makes it easier for me to get it all out, not because it's something to brush off. I'd like to change my name to Isla (pronounced like eye-luh) and my pronouns to she/her. I only want this in private for now. I think that this is something that can really help my gender dysphoria and make my mental health overall better. And I'm not expecting perfection, just that you try. Thank you and I love you
Along with me telling them they can let my brother know when they pick him up, and the only response I got was "You should tell him not us." I don't even get an I love you back, not anything else. I just feel so sad I wanted to be called Isla and I didn't even get addressed

A pediatric transitioner, now nearly an adult, is isolated and shamed by her fellow troons 'n' poons for the privilege of having parents that follow the party line and mutilate their children based on politically biased medical doctrine. Because she started early, she passes well, according to her own account; as such, her less-than-passable peers have started turning a blind eye to her troubles. This story has to be fake because I was always told that transitioning underage was the key to true happiness and salvation, so what do you mean there are severe physical and social consequences for such a thing? Must be a TERF psyop!
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I transitioned at 14, now I feel isolated from my trans peers​

I am extremely happy I transitioned. I was privileged enough to have very supportive parents, a ready diagnosis by 13, and I was able to start hormone therapy before high school. Since then I have mostly passed, other than the few times other trans people have purposefully outed me because I “don’t deserve the privilege”. I am now in grade 12, and I am rapidly losing all of my friends. They constantly express their jealousy towards my ability to transition before puberty, which I of course understand, however they also continuously disregard my lived experience as a woman, and the fact that I still live with female reproductive organs to depict me as an ignorant cis male. This depiction, especially within my own trans peers, has made me feel completely isolated. Because of the way the government is treating trans people right now, I have been extremely dysphoric and uncomfortable recently, and can’t seem to fit in with trans men OR cis men. I am looking for affirmation from other trans people who have perhaps also felt isolation based on their socialization after starting hormone therapy young, or just advice for how to grapple with the idea that my body has been “mutilated” that the government and media constantly push. I love having trans friends, and have found some of the best community and friends from our community, but I don’t want to talk about any of this to them for fear of sounding like i’m not appreciative of my medical progress. I’m sorry if this sounds rushed, i’m writing quickly…

Upon his dazzling exit from the closet and into the wonderful world of girlhood, a troon soon realizes that polite acceptance at face value does not a long term ally make, as many who were initially receptive to his new identity have slowly severed ties with him. It's fascinating the way that they simultaneously hate bombastic rejections, yet when you simply smile and nod, they act as if they've been robbed of a pivotal moment in the theater production of their lives.
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I always thought my friendships would end in a bang...​

...instead they've ended with a whimper.
I've been coming out to my friends, and while I figured I'd lose some friends it's just not quite happened like a pictured. No one said anything rude or transphobic to me, but instead just assurances that they don't care, it doesn't matter, etc. But then, they just end up stopping talking to me. Friends that I would talk to on a semi-regular basis gone silent now. Thankfully this isn't all my friends, but it's happened more than once.
I expected to lose some people, and I always worried about what they might have said, but I really haven't expected the "acceptance" followed by being silently dropped. Have you other girls experienced this?

A skyscraping crossdresser can't stop pointing out the pipsqueakery of his pooner partner, which is leading the TiF in this T4T relationship to be incredibly insecure about her perfectly ordinary height of 5'4". The part where the tranny says OP should walk on stilts had me rolling, so this is definitely a must-read, especially because she says that her partner has his own insecurities about his own height! Talk about PVP enabled.
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gf keeps bringing up my height​

tagged nsfw for brief mention of bedroom dynamics.
My gf (also trans) keeps bringing up how into tall people she is, and how being around someone tall makes her feel a certain way that nothing else does.
I have told her that it makes me feel bad when she says things about wishing i was taller. and she even verbally acknowledges it now.. but then still says whatever she was going to say after acknowledging it. Comments about how i should get platforms shoes, or even joked about stilts.
Its getting to the point where Im getting dysphoric about my height even tho ive never been before. I usually have dated transmasc people and have even been the taller one in several of my relationships.
I wont go tit for tat and say some crap to her like "well maybe you should be shorter" because shes insecure about her height, but im at a loss at how to get her to understand its hurting me in that same way and making me insecure about my height.
Our relationship is amazing in every other way, other than my dysphoria is now creeping into our bedroom a bit. Im a top and usually very confident, but have been wavering due to worry shes not attracted to me. Shes reassured me otherwise but again just keeps bringing up the height which makes me wary.
Also we arent monogamous, so she could just.. go and see someone taller if she wanted, i would be happy for her to experience that!!!
I just really need her to stop bringing up *my* (lack of) height in particular. Im 5'4 for context so I am pretty small. Since obviously theres nothing i can do to physically change that, yea help. Has anyone been in a similar spot and been able to get their gf to really hear/understand this hurt? : (
Im going to have another conversation with her soon, I just have already before and really want to make sure the message gets thru to her, I love her a lot and dont think she knows shes hurting me this much

A "stealth" (i.e., deceptive) FTM learns from a friend that her ruse is not quite as bulletproof as she had hoped and that the friend has been aware of OP's secret femaleness for nearly half a year. Now OP is in quite a predicament where she's debating cutting off the friend (and another mutual friend, who informed said friend of OP's real name) because she gave up everything in life to reinvent herself, and even a single chink in this armor will bring the whole suit down to the ground. Weird how transition is meant to bring you closer to your "real self," yet actual honest and authentic people never have these issues...
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Been outed​

Help, I don't know what to do
Today I found out that my friend knows (and had known for 5 months) my dead name and that I'm trans. And it was the stupidest situation: my friends and I went to the cashier because I needed to buy some beer, I had to show my documents (the cashier started speaking another language because of my docs and that also was stupid). I was buying beer for myself but the cashier saw my friends standing and waiting for me, so she wanted to id them too, but the cashier asked my friend: are you HER(I'm a guy) parent (or something). And I always avoid buying something that requires an id with others and they never ask anything at the cashier (and don't switch the language) but this time, the only time I thought it will be fine if my friends wait for me by the end of check out, the only time this shit happened.
And at 1st I thought that my friend wouldn't notice or think that the cashier misspoke but then I found out that the friend was told my dead name by some one else. The person who said that had to know I'm trans due to his job and he's obliged with confidentiality. So he had no right to say it, and I could file a complaint but the problem is that my friend has good relationship with him and my friend would get in trouble with him (cause he said it as a secret that I wasn't supposed to know, I quess)
And I'm so mad and frustrated. And I'm seriously thinking about stopping talking to the friend even tho she's great and she said that it doesn't change anything and she was like "let's pretend it never happened "which are all right things to say and she was told that by someone else (not her fault) but I didn't want to be out to anyone, I left everything behind and stated all over hoping that I won't have to be "out" unless I felt like it
Now I don't know what to do. I'm frustrated and tired and all I can thing of this

Finally, a melodramatic li'l dood agonizes over the knowledge that in spite of her family tolerating her poonacy, they "don't support [me] as much as they claim to" because Mama keeps trying to talk her out of poisoning herself while her brother throws slurs in her direction and blames her for her own foibles. I find it telling that the brother sounds vastly more hostile towards OP than the mother does, yet it's her mom that she feels more angst and antipathy towards... it'd be a boon to know how often pooning out correlates towards uncomfortable or antagonistic relationships with mothers for young girls.
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Mom / Family isn't as accepting as they claim and it hurts.​

I'll change tags or delete if needed, I just need it off my chest.
I'm almost one year on T.
In their defense, I can't do much in the way of physical transition due to funds.
Still, my family does things that let me know they don't support me as much as they claim to.
Misgendering me whenever because they know they can uss the "you always get so mad" excuse if I tell them off.
My mother always trying to convince me to stop testosterone. Worried about male pattern baldness? No silly, no medicine or solution for that! Stop taking testosterone.
My twin brother calling me a *slur* and saying I put myself into situations, that I chose this.
I don't let them know it hurts me. I just fall apart in my room because what else am I meant to do? The guilt of taking my mothers only daughter away already haunts me enough.
They'll never see me as their son / brother. That's the worst thing I've ever had to accept. I can take being alone, I can take losing hair - but knowing my only family will live and breath not seeing me for who I truly am. That has to be a fate worse than death.

 

[Lord Of Shit]

Remember when these freaks were jokes.

https://youtube.com/watch?v=gFuGRyc_W7E

They are still jokes, just dangerous, unfunny ones.

This post is probably going to catch me a shitload of alarm clocks...

 

[Fox Paws]

Troon bragging about eating a lot and getting fat #divinefeminine

 

[CertifiedFedBot]

Honestly I’m just posting this tranny drama because I wasn’t expecting “around theyfabs never relax.”
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Ramping up a rhetoric? Okay…
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Thanks Obama
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“I’m of the opinion that the truth ALWAYS wins out in the end.” Lying is your entire personality and belief system, what are you talking about?
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“Decided the holidays were the perfect time to attack her and then try to fake charges on her.” On MLK Boulevard Day?

Did T make the woman go crazy? Is this person grifting? Probably, yes.

My theory is that a lot of these leftist activist women are sociopaths without the upper body strength to put their plans into action, once the pooner got on T she thought that she could now do what she's always wanted. It's the same phenotype as the women who pretend to be sweet but get their kicks by shaking babies and smacking around toddlers.
Great recent example is the ventilated lesbians pocket dyke who put cigarettes out on her partner's kids, and I'd assume the ventilated one did too as she didn't dump the dyke when it happened and she got shot trying to run someone over.

The way these people talk about the surreal, idealistic teenage sex experiences they feel they had missed out on (which they've experienced through some tv show, LOL) is hilarious.

Imagine if I fell on my knees in front of a Frank Frazetta painting and shouted "I WISH I HAD THAT OMFG AAAAAAA, IT'S SO BEAUTIFUL" and then went onto 4chan to blogpoast about how unhappy I am am about never getting to experience what it must feel like to be the guy in this picture.

At least this makes sense, it's about adventure and excitement, speaks to something very basic seen in all hero stories. Wanting to live out some netflix fagslop teen drama is a sign of not only mental illness but a deep and profound retardation.

 

[Lord Of Shit]

Whole thing is crochet, actually.

That one, last line caused me to literally spit out my tea. That shit stains, damnit.

 

[Dolly Brooks]

I lost all my friends and family and now my partner, why don’t they want to be around me anymore? I’m da troo me now!

Spoiler: Meanwhile:

I can take being alone, I can take losing hair - but knowing my only family will live and breath not seeing me for who I truly am. That has to be a fate worse than death.

Girl, if you don’t stop.

Being born horrifically damaged by thalidomide or Agent Orange
Being held captive and forced to bear kidnapper’s rape babies
Having locked-in syndrome with maggots in your trach
Family not taking you seriously because you’re turning yourself into Caillou

 

[Lord Of Shit]

What happens when normal people do as they say but with the wrong look on their faces?

This, but with trannies:

 

[CobraPlissken]

I lost all my friends and family and now my partner, why don’t they want to be around me anymore? I’m da troo me now!

Spoiler: Meanwhile:

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Ahh yes The Unknown. A monstrous creature that wears the skin, hair and clothing of its victims, tries to deceive victims by crying for help, and shoots a thick, viscous, disgusting substance everywhere from a pale rosy appendage, just like your average tranny. And is voiced by one too!

Here's its girlmoding version for reference, which could've been taken straight from the Most Physically Repulsive Tranny thread.

 

[I'm Retarded?]

Transgender -- Totally not an "ism".

bro complains about being pigeonholed as a hostile ideology while using the term "right wing nutjobs" in the same breath. zero self-awareness. it seems common among troons - could it be that the subculture of people LARPing as a porn-addled image of a woman passively selects for idiots with no self-awareness? I wonder why that could be.

 

[LateNightMuffin]

Half a decade's worth of love is dashed when a man chooses his coomerism over the life he's built with his high school sweetheart, who was tolerant about his troonery until spending a week with religious relatives who likely gave her a reality check.

As always, fantastic post!

This line by the troon really struck me:
"I collapsed to my knees, and after kicking her out, my mother raced to come hold me."

Am I the only person who thinks it odd that after his breakup his "mother raced to come hold" him? My mother is very supportive of me, but I can't imagine after a breakup her "racing to come hold me" or me wanting her to. My mom would be like, "I'm sorry it didn't work out." I think the last time she "raced to come hold me" was probably when I was six and got a boo boo on my knee.

 

[CobraPlissken]

As always, fantastic post!

This line by the troon really struck me:
"I collapsed to my knees, and after kicking her out, my mother raced to come hold me."

Am I the only person who thinks it odd that after his breakup his "mother raced to come hold" him? My mother is very supportive of me, but I can't imagine after a breakup her "racing to come hold me" or me wanting her to. My mom would be like, "I'm sorry it didn't work out." I think the last time she "raced to come hold me" was probably when I was six and got a boo boo on my knee.

It IS odd for normal people, but that's what a boymom would do. The ex-gf dodged two bullets - a pervert who'd grow to be resentful of her for being female and a mother-in-law who coddles him and would defend his worst actions unconditionally.

 

[Syikeblade]

It seems like the TIF's are finding more of their gay marxist buddies do not actually respect them. And are often treated as an after though.

Spoiler: Full post

A word of warning to my fellow gay trans men self.ftm
submitted 10 hours ago * by Creativered4- 32y/o Transsex Man (2020) (2022)(2025)
Edit: To whomever reported my posts for "it's harassing me", nice self-own. If you admit you're a transandrophobe, just come out and say it. You're not going to get evidence of transandrophobia taken down now, just like you weren't able to get evidence of it taken down before. Remember that I am a mod of several subreddits too. I can see when you report things.
I debated writing this for a bit. I'm not the type of person who likes to gossip or start drama. I wish we could all just get along. But I talked to some friends and fellow mods on different subs, and they encouraged to write this.
So here it is: I'm sure many of us are aware of the blatant transandrophobia on this site and in the greater trans and LGBT+ communities. I'm sure there are also many people who are aware of everything that went down in the main trans subreddit and the massive amounts of transandrophobia shown by the mod team, as well as the lack of meaningful changes after the fact. Unfortunately, though, the transandrophobia is not limited to ONE main subreddit for marginalized identities. There was a post written on the main Gay subreddit (I will not link it to prevent brigading or accusations of brigading, like what happened during the last debacle, despite it being a very clear message to do the OPPOSITE of that, to **stay away from and not post in a sub**, for the user's own safety and peace of mind. BTW, don't brigade)
It contained a screenshot and a discussion about vile transandrophobia a user had received upon posting in one of the "gay bros" subreddit and subsequent ban from the sub, because he is a trans man. Many people expressed sympathy and shared other personal examples of transandrophobia. There was discussion about how conservative gays were throwing their community to the wolves and being transphobic. However, the post was locked and removed, along with MANY of the comments. Basically anything talking about transandrophobia or conservative gays was removed. I personally was given a permanent ban, and then muted. The ban reason? Apparently I'm a bot and was spamming.
It was at this point that I realized that there are multiple subs that share moderators, and it seems like some of the mod team holds transandrophobic beliefs and stands by them. They have made it clear that they will stand by transandrophobia and conservative gays who are anti trans, and silence those of us who speak out.
I am incredibly disappointed. During a time where trans people are being targeted at large around the world, with the US racing to the top of that list with all the smear campaigns, laws, and ICEstapo, we should NOT be doing this. We should be standing arm in arm, supporting one another, and fighting for our rights and our lives.
We cannot forget that Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera were two trans women at the forefront of the gay rights movement. We cannot forget that trans men exist, that Dr. Alan Hart, Michael Dillon, and Karl M. Baer, were some of the first trans men to undergo surgical transition, and they paved the way for many others. Lou Sullivan was a prominent activist in the LGBT+ scene, who had his diaries published to showcase our history. Dr. James Barry was a fierce advocate for the care of marginalized groups, and was an accomplished medical professional. Reed Erickson laid the foundation for the Harry Benjamin International Gender Dysphoria Association and numerous other major trans activist organizations.
We have always been here. Trans people in general, but also trans MEN. We are not new, lesser, or somw sort of anti-feminist decision. We are men. Human beings above all else. "

Many of them are also complaining of their own community ignoring them while loving the trannies, it's funny how they want to be seen as men but not treated like one.

Spoiler: Can't have their cake and eat it too

WallDoor04 [score hidden] 9 hours ago
Yeah the gaybros subreddit is extremely transphobic for some reason, and I'm not surprised they are creeping into other subreddits. They are so transphobic that if you try to bring up someone like Marsha they'll freak out and claim she was never trans or didn't have the impact she did. They don't even want to acknowledge that trans people are important to the lgbt rights movement at all. It's baffling, and honestly not very indicative of regular gay cis dudes at least in my experience.

[–]Autopsyyturvy- 33201920222023 [score hidden] 9 hours ago
Oh or they call Lou Sullivan a serial rapist who purposefully got and spread AIDs for being a gay trans man who mentioned how he was dying of AIDs like other gay men
You'd thibk it was an old school homophobe the way they talk about transgender people with HIV or with AIDs.....
but yeah theres a decent amount of transphobic weirdos who would have been fine with and cheered on AIDs along with the bigots if it only killed trans people

[–]WallDoor04 [score hidden] 9 hours ago
Oh I haven't heard that one, Jesus Christ.

[–]Propyl_People_Ether- 10+ yrs T [score hidden] 4 hours ago
Imagine being a cis gay man who doesn't know that ejaculating in someone is the sex act most likely to spread HIV. What a self-own.
(Trans men and trans women can both top, but by and large none of us is producing a lot of ejaculate, statistically speaking, for a variety of reasons.)

[–]__mafia [score hidden] 8 hours ago
they're part of the "LGB-without-the-T" cult. high on their own supply and completely self-deluded into believing they can win through acceptability politics. they're coming for the trans folks, and they are doing nothing. unfortunately for them, when their line in the poem comes up, all they'll have to defend them are centrists and collaborators. hope they come to their senses before it gets to that point, but if not, they made their choice.
till then, we just gotta do our best to disregard the opinions of the peanut gallery and build the community that will help us survive this

[–]Sanprofe [score hidden] 22 minutes ago
Astroturfing and spineless cowards. That shit is a psyop designed to isolate y'all. Build out your real world communities for sure and assume functionally every space online has at least one fed in it trying to ruin your life.

[–]Creativered4- 32y/o Transsex Man (2020) (2022)(2025) [score hidden] 9 hours ago
Yeah, unfortunately it doesn't look like the
main gay sub is very friendly towards us as well.

[–]Snoo79532 [score hidden] 4 hours ago
I asked a question about trans people in a not exactly LGBT subreddit but one relevant to my question. Immediately got chewed to hell and down voted. I was so heartbroken and seeing negative after negative comment really destroyed me and made me stop using that subreddit. And reddit in general for a while. Eventually one fellow trans person gave me good information but it was about 50 transphobic comments to one that answered my question. Thats the day I realized transphobia is freely allowed probably in most corners of reddit but the internet at large. Very unfortunate realization. Ive never been targeted with transphobia before so I know I'm privileged in that regard. But it certainly has ramped up recently hasnt it? D':


RandomBlueJay01- T 12/26/23 He/They [score hidden] 9 hours ago
I had that kinda stuff happen to me when I was 19. Made a few comments on a gay subreddit and got harassed for a while but some cis gay guy/s( always diffrent accounts and I assume it was 1 guy but idk) even followed me into trans spaces to harass me. Had to delete my old reddit account because every post had this creep saying horrible things to me. Not even sure his comments got taken down while he called trans people predators and groomers.

[–]SignatureKitchen1681 [score hidden] 7 hours ago
disgusting that this happened to you because you deserve to be respected. "Not all men but always a man" fs

[–]Desperate_Ship_9654 [score hidden] 5 hours ago
This is one of the reasons I said that if ever something would happen to my husband, I would not be able to get into another relationship again because I feel like no one would want me . Cis gay men want to be with other cis gay men it seems like it's become extremely rare for cis gay men to want to ever be in a relationship with a transgender gay man , it's so sad

[–]documentremy [score hidden] 4 hours ago
I get the sense this is an extremely vocal online group (whether a minority or majority, it's hard to say) who brigade a lot of the online spaces we might look at. Irl I've found a lot more cis gay men who don't really care that a guy is trans as long as they find him attractive and their specific sexual needs can be met. They just don't go around spamming every space about this because it's not the kind of thing they're obsessively angry about, if that makes sense.

Even feminist don't respect them, but if pooner's are men why be surprised??

Spoiler: No one likes them

chaocol_- 《》 6/24/25 [score hidden] 9 hours ago*
A lot of it is people not understanding that feminism isn't "women good, men bad" but "woman and men both okay". So called 'liberals' and leftists will jump on you the minute you put he/him in your bio, telling you that you have no right to speak on women's issues and you need to shut up, otherwise you're a disgusting man who's invading women's spaces, as though most of, if not nearly all of us have lived a long enough portion of our lives as women to understand the concept of misogyny.
When you try to enter male spaces within the queer community, you're a disgusting pervert who wants to trick poor cis men into sleeping with a woman, and everywhere else you look masculinity is constantly vilified and looked down upon. Most online trans spaces (in my own experience) are centered around trans women, regardless of how inclusive they might say they are on paper. Sigh. Why would anyone ever want to be a man?? /sneed
EDIT: mixed up a word, just a malapropism

[–]bunnypawbs- 30+ | He/They | Top [score hidden] 7 hours ago
genuinely it was disheartening trying to finally interact with more trans spaces for them just to be "all inclusive" on the outside and 99.9% about transwomen on the inside. i love our sisters, but being transmasc is an incredibly alienating experience that I don't think a lot of queer people truly understand.
honestly there's still just as much work to be done inside as there is outside of the lgbt sphere. the intersectionality of being transM is kinda hellish and isolating, and doubly so when a lot of our peers feel like they have to remain invisible. It's not all bad, but it does weigh on you eventually no matter how fine you are with your own existence as a transM, at least for me

[–]documentremy [score hidden] 4 hours ago
I joined a "trans support group" on WhatsApp during the pandemic - it was a closed group and I was added in by a friend from another group.
When I joined I found that there was only one other FTM person and about 60 trans women. If I tried to say anything about my experiences it rapidly turned into a discussion about trans women's experiences - not in any ill-intentioned way but it felt very much as if trans men are sort of an afterthought or downright non-existent when talking about trans topics.


doubleheadedarrow- 01/31/25 [score hidden] 9 hours ago
It’s incredibly disturbing how so many other LGBTQ people, from conservative cis gays to trans radfems, are becoming this comfortable in being so viciously transphobic to us. Whether it’s because we’re “invading real men’s spaces” or “fetishizing gay men” or “throwing away womanhood” or “joining the side of the oppressors” or whatever the hell else we get accused of, it feels like we have enemies at every turn, even in what should be our communities too. And it feels like every time any of us speak up about it, it just gets us treated even worse.
I’m tired of it. I’m tired of not being able to trust that a fellow trans person or a fellow queer man or whoever wouldn’t treat me with aggression and hostility for the sole crime of being a trans man.
I don’t have much else to add to this discussion right now, honestly. I’m just… tired. Thank you for making this post. I think we need to be talking about this issue now more than ever.

[–]Autopsyyturvy- 33201920222023 [score hidden] 9 hours ago
Its fucking weird
It's like someone wished we had more visibility and the monkeys paw curled ........
and now it feels like the whole rest of the LGBTQIA community plus very loud self proclaimed"allies" fucking hate our guts and want us specifically to detransition or die for not being women.

[–]doubleheadedarrow- 01/31/25 [score hidden] 9 hours ago
It really does feel like that at this point. I know it’s not actually every other LGBTQ person, I know there are so many people that do support us—but the fact that this whole thing is an issue at all, and at the scale it’s grown to, is just so fucked up that I can’t put it into words.
Like, I know it’s not everyone. But that doesn’t change the fact that some of the most disgusting transphobia I’ve ever seen comes straight from gay cis men and radfem trans women. The extent to which transandrophobia is normalized in not only broader allocishet-centric society, but also queer spaces, hurts so bad. We need to stand with each other and never let this be passed off as acceptable.

[–]Le-Monarque- mtf visitor [score hidden] 4 hours ago
Yeah the way radfem trans girls talk abt trans men/mascs is genuinely so disgusting. Even as an mtf girl like its so repulsive and I find more and more I just don’t frequent online trans spaces bc its so prevalent. Ironically I’ve seen much more positivity and acceptance in lesbian spaces (though these have been irl, not online)

[–]aliquotoculos [score hidden] 7 hours ago
Its so lonely, alienating, and awful. Even get policed from time to time by other trans men who I guess self-hate? Or something? Because they buy and spread the same hate, too. Just bought in full-on that we don't deserve better.
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[–]doubleheadedarrow- 01/31/25 [score hidden] 7 hours ago
Yeah, there’s a notable amount of internalized/self-hating transandrophobia going around too. I think most of it is from TRF (trans radical feminism) ideology, honestly. It’s seeped into many trans spaces (especially on Tumblr, I find)—and when you’re a lone trans man in a space full of other trans people telling you men are inherently evil and/or inferior, and that your experiences and oppression matter less than other marginalized groups, it can make you believe it.
I’ve seen it happen. It’s a hard hole to climb out of, too. Radfems really are a blight on queer activism.

[–]nip_pickles [score hidden] 8 hours ago
Some of the most blatant transphobic shit ive personally heard was from cis gay and lesbian people, always the more privileged ones. They hide behind their queer identity, to be transphobic and avoid criticism and accountability


gunter011- Trans Man 22/07/21 13/01/26 [score hidden] 8 hours ago
exactly, we are pushed aside and hated on just because we want to be men. i always hear “protect the dolls” and i still stand by it 100% but wheres our protection too? we are constantly overshadowed and when we arent we get shit like “ew why would you want to be a man, they are disgusting” or i personally have received “you must hate women because you dont want to be one” yet im still attracted to women so how do i hate them? we are viewed as women who shouldn’t speak but when we do we are labelled horrible and misogynistic men like sorry you cant be like that but nobody listens. it really be like arguing with a brick wall istg
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[–]EmoPrincxss666- He/Him • 21 • June 2023 [score hidden] 8 hours ago
Ive personally been told that I deserve to be treated this way because I "chose to be a man" (by a transfem no less, she should know more than anyone that being trans isnt a choice) it makes absolutely no sense

I don't have much sympathy for them, after all not only do they choose this lifestyle but they'll always defend their tranny masters no matter how vile they are.

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[CheesyBoy]

For some months I’ve been dating a wonderful lesbian

Can't just say "someone else" or "another woman," he has to refer to her as a "lesbian."

 

[everybody in Portugal]

Can't just say "someone else" or "another woman," he has to refer to her as a "lesbian."

Which is ironic, given that he's living proof she's actually a bisexual.

 

[Sean Andalou]

It IS odd for normal people, but that's what a boymom would do. The ex-gf dodged two bullets - a pervert who'd grow to be resentful of her for being female and a mother-in-law who coddles him and would defend his worst actions unconditionally.

Or possibly he exaggerates his mother's reaction?