I understand some people are annoyed by the SS concession that trannies are actually their stated gender, but that's not what they really want.
Imagine this: some grade school kids have a club and there's an annoying kid who wants to be in the club but they won't let him. Then he cries to the teachers about it and they force the others to let him into the club. So they let him in, and first thing they make him the club president, and then they all announce that they're leaving the club so he can have it all to himself.
Simply getting recognized as "a man" or "a woman" is just a booby prize for troons. They want all kinds of special privileges in exchange for being trans, recall the girl who posted about her sexual assault that she's afraid to talk about because the perp was trans. Telling them "ok, sure, you're a woman, but no one owes you sex" is a great way to frame the issue because from an outside point of view you're being fair to them, granting them the recognition they've been begging for, and if they then make a bunch of additional demands they appear unreasonable.
If you say "ok, you're a woman, now you have to play by the same rules as other women, so stop grooming children and trying to shame rape people," a lot of them will just drop the womanface act and storm off.