I have posted publicly my bad choices; having 3 children with a man child who took pleasure and joy in tormenting and ignoring me and disguising it as love for years. Along with many other things that happened out of duress, pain, and neglect. I was not gifted loving families and parents like you probably were, along with trust funds and insurance policies and an understanding of how money in this world moves and works. I was gifted a bunch of assholes who beat, criticized, and shamed me for my achievements because I was better than their own biological slut mutts. They would force me to work as a child and hand over money from my paychecks, buy my own food and school uniforms. I was never given an opportunity to save, and I should be allowed to live freely after all the shit I went through. People get 10k$ payouts from slipping in parking lots but you can be physically abused, medically neglected and abused throughout the duration of your childhood and people expect you to just walk it the fuck off shut up about it and don't stand up for yourself or others who have gone through childhood abuse.
This said, I understand why Tarl is the way he is and I dont fucking care if his daddy doesnt like me because I don't like the POS abusive son he raised.