@Laylithe
>She got "revenge" by meddling in 2 white women's families and completely dissipated them.
You ascribe almost godlike, witch, hexing powers to some catty black woman (Naijella). Yet you ascribe 0 agency to Styx, who is the one that damaged her to the point she wanted revenge, as a reaction to his actions on her. She didn't even start the conflict. Styx did. Ironically, you are scapegoating Naijella for all of your families' personal problems and exempting yourself and Styx for all accountability. Typical narcissist and DARVO behavior.
>Naijella meddled in families and destroyed them.
The same could be said of all the Styx exes, who enabled Styx to cheat on the previous girl with the current one. Elisabeth enabled Styx to cheat on you and Naijella when she was sexting Styx. You enabled Styx to fully break up with Elisabeth, his wife, after he got put in a headlock for abusing Elisabeth and ran back to Vermont with his tail between his legs, cowering in fear. You helped destroy Elisabeth's family and left the daughter with no father. And you also do that weird thing by staying in contact with all your exes like Julian, Styx, the ex-husband and texting them all at once, so it's like you're cheating on all them at the same time. So you definitely do your part in breaking up relationships and meddling in family affairs.
>she's miserable.
Naijella sounds like a perfect mirror-version of yourself then, except black.
>So she got revenge on styx but at what cost? 3 adults and 4 children that didn't deserve it?
"Won't someone please think of the children?" No, this is just more deflection from personal accountability as you use kids as a shield. Besides, you don't really care about kids anyway, as you aborted your first one with Styx 'cause he didn't want your kid or the responsibility. So this ends up being a hollow argument from you.
>The best revenge is moving on and doing better, but she never believed she could.
Nah, it's way more based to wreck his life in whatever small way they can manage. I would encourage all his salty exes to do the same if they feel the need. It is actually cathartic for them and good for their mental health. And ironically getting that schadenfreude revenge helps them "move on."
>The best revenge is moving on
Yet you have not moved on. Still got Stockholm Syndrome. Still crawling back to your abuser, Styx. Anything you say or do just looks like damage-control for Styx so I can't take it seriously. Even when you are urging the other Styx exes to move on, it's a thinly-veiled attempt to stop them from attacking Styx. And you don't acknowledge them as victims of Styx's abuse since you view them as rivals, which is messed up.
>abusers
Didn't you punch Styx in the eye after you realized he was lying about cheating on you for a year? Sounds like you're an abuser too tbf.
>I won't be used and abused just because people are retarded and think they can take my kindness for weakness.
Except that you go crawling back to Styx, at every opportunity. You are a weak person.
>When that fails, they slander and try to take away your resources so you submit to them.
Sounds like your relationship to Styx and how he gives you money to keep you on a leash.
>I'm looking to see changed behavior.
You are never going to change people. Let alone a fool and alcoholic like Styx. He will continue telling you what you want to hear, while he manipulates you and runs circles around you.
@MunsterCheeseJr
Sam should stonewall Tarl the narcissist. But she's too weak for that. So she is doomed to be Tarl's slave that he uses and abuses.