What her husband has done to her????. She left her husband and 3 children to be with another man. Her goal in life is looking for a hand out.
Yes, what my husband has done to me. Not just me but our children? My goal in life is to be a great Mother and Wife; I'm doing both of those things. Failing at the wife thing is subjective to my husband's opinion; nobody could ever be good enough for a man who doesn't want a wife, he wants a prop; the image maintained of having a wife, like he wrote many, many songs about. "I went and got me a wife" yeah buddy you sure did and now you're divorcing her and complaining about everything she never did. Good job.
Oh, but Dylan would never take accountability; he never does any wrong. He's the golden boy; the first boy born in many generations who almost died OD-ing on pills as a teen because of a hard time he was going through; he lost his grandfather, his girlfriend ran off with their child and refused to let him be one, and his parents were going through a nasty divorce. I don't blame him (Open_Book, Dylan, my husband) or his family for thinking I'm a drug-addicted whore. Really, anyone who has lived through the experiences I have at the hands of these people would be! Or would've attempted suicide to escape such people. Unfortunately for them, and for everyone else hating and watching, I'm not. I was serious with my wedding vows; I loved my husband as best as I could, I wanted my family. So much so that I didn't fight against my husband when he tried claiming I was mentally ill; I went and got "help", like he asked. I HAVE ADHD. NURSES SAID I WAS EXPERIENCING NARCISSTIC ABUSE. It wasn't good enough for him, nothing ever is. No amount of home-cooked meals, laundry washed, money made, encouragement with his art and work and friend/family relationships was ever enough to receive the same support back. I was shamed by my in-laws for struggling as a first-time mother during covid while I had no family nearby to visit with; I was isolated (they refused to visit me or their grandkids for months on end, we live minutes away from eachother) and made to feel stupid for wanting to be a stay-at-home mother (because I didn't want our children to suffer daycare and 2 parents never being present, and I wanted families who NEEDED daycare to be able to use it, and I wanted to be present for my Grandmother-in-law who had some pretty deadly recurrent health issues....omg I'm a complete dumbass for caring about my family /sarcasm) I wasn't allowed the home birth experience I wanted, when I wanted to breastfeed my kids his family had a problem with it. When I voluntarily left to get the help my husband insisted I needed (which I didn't and I was told by hospital staff I was experiencing narcissistic abuse and I needed to file a restraining order and get legal aid) I called his mother within 2 hours of being away from my baby to let her know I was pumping milk at the hospital and they could pick it up there, she told me no and that she had already started him on formula.
This all happened during my 30th birthday, he refused to visit me in the hospital. He refused to let the kids visit me while in the hospital and he filed for divorce the day after I left the hospital, claiming to DCF that I had abused our son. Later that week I WALKED to our home (No, Lacey, I didn't steal your fucking car to go 4 blocks down the road you pathetic attention-whore I have legs I know how to use them for walking just as well as I can spread them) to ask him to talk with me about why he wouldn't let me back into our house and instead of talking he bit my hand, called the cops after I left and told them I had assaulted him. Mind you, I hadn't assaulted him, but he DID assault me. He was also forcing me to be homeless, wanting me to sleep on my friend's couch until *he* decided I could come back? He was logging into my facebook and reading my messages and harassing me with screenshots of what I was talking about with my friends, which was me venting about how confused and upset I was about the situation I was in, and the friend made a sexual joke right after that I laughed at. I forget; I'm a whore, I'm not allowed to laugh at sex jokes I'm supposed to be professional about my work.
ESSENTIALLY: My husband (Dylan, Open_Book) spent years feeling insecure about our relationship, thinking I favored Styx's chaos and insanity to his down-to-earth fatherly nature. I spent years trying to reassure him that I have only ever wanted to be a good mother and wife, and that I chose him to be my husband and father to my kids. He spent months of 2023 trying to convince me I had Borderline Personality Disorder (I have ADHD) and tried telling me he believes "Tarl is my favorite person". Naijella (Jade) was jealous; not only was Styx moved on with his wife and child, but she realized she was only a rebound because Tarl and I had broken up and I too moved on and made a family and she was still jealous and childless. She spent years meddling in both of our relationships, putting false ideologies in our heads and wouldn't stop telling me and my husband (that she's already stated she was attracted to in previous pages) that she believed Tarl and I would end up back together in the future. She would constantly bring Tarl up or my husband up and try to get me to meddle in things with Liz and Tarl and wouldn't shut the fuck up about it. Julian means well, but needs to worry about his own shit before meddling in other's shit too. I'm fed up, I don't want love anymore, I just want to enjoy my peace and raise my kids to know that this world doesn't have to be as fucked as it feels like it is. I'm literally refusing to date people because I've been made to feel I don't deserve to be happy in a relationship; afterall I spent 2 years begging my husband to see that I loved him; I guess giving a man 3 kids, doing everything in the house as far as cooking, shopping, and cleaning, flushing his shits for him, supporting his dreams, none of it fucking means anything to an ungrateful asshole. I hope being divorced makes him happier than being married to me, because he surely deserves it, and I'm just a pathetic whore looking for a handout, right? Right. Glad we're keeping our stories straight. See you in court, babe. <3 LOVE YOU EVEN IF YOU DON'T LOVE ME BACK
be funny if a family member just got sick of his shit with her and decided to scare him outta town and put him in his place a bit. Some more people should do that for him. He may come off his high horse a bit.
