I have spent almost a decade studying psychology for the fun of it and know how dangerous it is for one to self-diagnose, or even worse, adhere to the inaccuracies of an internet stranger with no credentials.
So when you accuse me of using WebMD what you're really doing is projecting what you've been doing?
The a-logging was meant to be humorous and cruel, but it seems you're a little slow to catch on.
You're coping with being cringe.
My story sounds crazy because the events that took place truly were.
The craziest part about my posts is how much accuracy they hold.
Your
stories don't make you look crazy - your
behaviors do. You haven't said anything we didn't already know via the League of Evil Exes. The only story that we want to hear about - being chased around by a weapon - you refuse to elaborate on because it either didn't happen or it makes you look even crazier than Tarl.
If you looked at the earlier posts, I clearly stated that I was not going to post proof here.
Because like
@Laylithe you're crazier than Tarl. Without evidence of anything or even an explanation you just look like a woman scorned. You're your own biggest source of discrediting.
Y'all coming up in here with random insults before I leave are just trying to have me stay longer for your own desperate form of entertainment.
Spoken like a true BPD sufferer. Blame others for the actions you have complete control over. Echoes of Warwick.
you’ve claimed to have been a lurker here for years but this ONE contributor, if you will, got you so mentally busted that you had to go out of your way to sign up just so you could spend paragraphs bitching her out. And then you have the audacity to call HER nuts?
Yes.
I am the antidote.
My story is the antidote.
@Nunya Business has done more than you to damage Tarl's reputation and he's certifiably the craziest person involved in all of this by putting his own children in the line of fire of complete strangers, even before we get to the accusations of him being a born again neo-nazi tranny panties.
You've accomplished nothing exceptional except put your own insanity on display. Given your inability to walk away and blame others for why you can't I'm beginning to think Warwick chasing you off his property with a weapon might've been the only way for him to get you out of his life.
When you're ready to explain the details behind all of that I'll be all ears.
People who live together prior to marriage are more likely to be divorced.
Disagree. I've been in the same relationship longer than Chris-chan has been known to the internet and didn't get married until my late 20s. People hide their bad qualities very easily. Seeing someone at their best shouldn't be the measure of whether or not to be in a long-term relationship with them - it's
seeing them at their worst. All the women who spent time with Tarl invariably left him because they spent enough time with him to see his worst traits brought out. Only
@Naijella86 and Elisabeth couldn't see into the future beyond their own noses and looked for marriage before they really got to know the man.
Again,
live with someone for a year or two before you decide whether or not to want to spend the rest of your life with them. Gay marriage and polyamory has done less to destroy the "sanctity of marriage" than the idiots who get married after 6 months of dating. In this clown world people have gotten it all backwards -
it should be harder to get married than it is to get divorced.
Anyone with the slightest knowledge of psychology would know that you can't diagnose an anonymous person through a couple posts on some gossip forum.
Luckily
@upya69 leaves dozens of posts to read through. Given they confirmed they have PTSD and PTSD is almost always accompanied by another overlapping personality disorder was I actually wrong? Again I work as a type of non-clinical therapist typically with young adults aged 20-35 and the most common personality disorder I deal with is Borderline Personality Disorder, which why I believe it's most likely what
@upya69 has accompanying her PTSD although I think Histrionic Personality Disorder could also be the table. Either way they're someone who is putting their emotional control issues on full display.
@Laylithe and Elisabeth have a lot more reason to be angry in public about Tarl and they're showing a level of poise
@upya69 couldn't achieve on their best day.
"Everyone in this thread I don't like has a rare mental disorder"
Close to 10% of the general population has a personality disorder. Added to that 20% have some form of mental illness. That's not rare. That's a 1 in 10 chance of dealing with a Cluster B and a 1 in 5 of dealing with crazy in general.
While diagnosing specifically what something is takes time and is done in a clinical setting you can make general assumptions about the type of disorder someone has through the pattern of their behaviors. It's like the overlap between Sonic the Hedgehog, Pokemon, My Little Pony, Thomas the Tank Engine and furries in general. While enjoying one or two of those things isn't necessarily an indicator of anything there's a reason why when all of those things overlap in the same person you're almost always dealing with someone on the autism spectrum.
Don't be intellectually disingenuous and tell me do you think it's
more likely or
less likely that
a person who watches Thomas the Tank Engine while wearing a fursuit and hugging their Twilight Sparkle plushie is
batshit insane?
In the same way you can find indicators for personality disorders. It's like how while not everyone who has tattoos has a personality disorder roughly half of tattooed men have Antisocial Personality Disorder and half of tattooed women have Borderline Personality Disorder. We call red flags "red flags" for a reason. If you walk up to me
covered in tattoos with a bunch of face piercings even though I'll remain nonjudgmental until you open your mouth I know it's
more likely than not I'm dealing with someone with impulse and emotional control issues.
Look at everyone in this thread who declared Satanism to be a massive red flag. While some Satanists are a pretty cool guy and doesn't afraid of anything
that assumption isn't wrong.
Why didn't you just call the fucking cops and press charges when he threatened you with a knife? That is proof we can actually find.
