I should do a video series warning women of the perils of trying to become a Trad Wife.
OK. I am not trying to bash you or be harsh on you. But if you are going to run around trying to give advice to women on how to be a "Trad Wife" or that being a "Trad Wife" doesn't work out, I think we need to separate how what you did, did not align with Trad anything. Women get enough bad advice as it is.
Let's see:
* Pushing 30 and THEN wants to settle down.? Not Trad. You want to lock down your man much younger than that. Get your best deal when your market potential is as its peak. 22-25. And for your best deal at those ages, you are not looking for the men that already have the yachts, houses & flashy cars. What you are looking for is a man who has a good work ethic, good head on his shoulders, who is financially smart who will end up being able to afford to buy a home with a good wife as a partner. Stop trying to pick the men at the finish line. That is what all of the hoes are doing, and those guys are enjoying the easy pussy. Pick the right man at the start of the race, and then run that race with him. Most men see women hitting their 30's suddenly pulling the "Trad" card. After these women have already been run through by a bar full of men. Those women are not Trad, just used up and out of options.
* Traveling away from home for a relationship just isn't worth it. Unless you live in a small small rural village, traveling away from home to find a partner just isn't worth it. Why can't you find a good partner closer? Odds are the issue is with you either not looking in the right places, or dismissing the good options around you. Long distance relationships just don't work. You are not able to invest the time you need in each other to see if you are right for each other. All you get is the honeymoon/vacation phase in & out.
* Banging away on a guy you had just met in person for the first time. Definitely NOT trad. If you want to fuck, fine. Just don't pretend that is Trad. It is a huge red flag that you have been run through buy everyone one else. What do you think the odds are that Elisabeth refused to bang Styx on their first meeting? That may have been the fulcrum point as to why she got an actual marriage out of him.
* Race mixing is not Trad. I am not bashing you. People can make whatever choices they want. But with race mixing there will be cultural differences an expectation deviances not just between the two of you, but also between your families. Like it or not, in a marriage, your families are going to affect how smoothly your marriage goes. That whole thing about "opposites attract" doesn't make for a good marriage. The more you have in common, the better odds you have of a successful marriage.
* Religion mixing. Same problems as Race mixing. Sure you will do fine swapping between Christianity Flavor X and Y. But any more different than that, and issues of how you raise your children will come up with the actually rubber hits the road.
* Knocking up a divorcee and expecting anything good to come of it, is NOT Trad.
* Fucking a avowed Satanist/Occultist/Wiccan whatever-voodoo-of-the-month-wasn't-letting-you-pigeon-hole-him-into. NOT Trad. You find yourself a good church going man. Not this crazy bullshit. The fault should be obvious. He stated that his morals boil down to "Do ast thou will." The fucking obvious was staring you in the face.
* Drug Addicts/Former Drug addicts are not Trad. Neither are heavy drinking alcoholics. If he is pounding them away, either he is a young man who doesn't know any better, or he is an alcoholic. The vast majority of the time you spend with someone, they should be sober. The more they mature, they less likely they should get blitzed on booze.
Again. I am not trying to bash on you. You were only looking for love. Unfortunately you had to end up learning lessons in life, you should have been taught when you were much younger. Normally the lack of proper guidance boils down to the parents, but the media and college indoctrination are strong forces that can make young people ignore what their parents are trying to tell them.
