Wow this has been quite the read for the last few pages. Glad that we are getting some better insights from what exactly is going on with Styx over the last few weeks. Considering his alcohol abuse, yeah, it is not out of the scope of the imagination that even if he may not be drinking at this time. He can still be a dry drunk, which dry drunks tend to be more hostile, and tend to have their own abusive patterns to their spouses and or children. Just as much as alcoholics are, especially if they are on a bender, and something just pushes their buttons the wrong way.
Could be likely he could have fell off the wagon and some form of an incident occurred and Liz probably had enough at this point. I am not quite too sure and it very difficult to speculate considering that I am only just filling in some blanks from some of the testimony I have read. Now what I am a bit curious about is beyond Tarl being an adulter. Was Tarl easily irritated when he was intoxicated, or when he was sober? Or both? Was he ever physically abusive towards his previous girlfriends? If he was then is there any form of evidence that can be presented to the thread that maybe malleable?
From any knowledge did he actually kick the booze? Or was that just an exaggeration regarding his supposed soberity. Either way of his drinking is the way it is, then I don’t see thinks being sour in his marriage. Especially considering him being a parent. Also considering the comments about race, be sure that kiwis despite our tendency to express our desire to stack N towers in chat. Usually storm front and /pol posters tend to not have the best reception on the greater forum. Though are free to express their worldviews.
I can understand Tarl being a cheating dirt bag, but I don’t think it was an optics aspect as is being asserted for his greater audience. I think that is more of a personal cope, rather than something based in fact. Yeah Tarl would have got some trolling, but I don’t think that was the main indicator for your relationship imploding. Rather than that, he just doesn’t have impulse control. Which is common for alcoholics and former drug addicts to have ingrained in their personality.
If you can provide sensible receipts, I am sure that the scope of some of your claims in the nature of certain abuse allegations can be taken as allegations. Though these are just my observations and I am sure that most of us on this very thread at this point in time. Beyond the early adopters in the initial stages of this thread were in the scope of understanding some of the details of the ambiguous break up that occurred. I’m short, I am not believing too much beyond that he probably either A) fell of the wagon and did something that was the final breaking point for Liz. Or B) probably fucked around on Liz while he was visiting the states a few months back and probably ended up getting the boot for that. Which if that is the case and comes out to be the case, then I can put some faith into your testimony.
Thank you for the insights and if you can provide some actual evidence, be it some dms or even a call log of this apparent Liz incident, the I would not leave that aspect as conjecture.