Should Married Couples Have Separate Bedrooms? - Or not

[soda pimp]

A coworker of mine brought up this question and his answer to it was sensible in my opinion. He said that he thinks married people should have separate bedrooms because people need their personal space. Personally, I think couples should share a bedroom because it shows that you love each other or something. Having a separate bedroom seems kind of selfish too. Where are the kids or guest going to sleep?

 

[Xenu]

Falsely agree with your coworker and say that his question is absolutely husband-material.

And then go on with your life.

 

[HyperboreanRightsActivist]

I'm sorry your marriage fell apart this badly. Or I'm happy if you're into that kind of shit

 

[gorgoroth7134]

My maternal grandparents slept in the same bed always. They had a fine marriage.
My paternal grandparents slept in different rooms since before I was born. They had a fine marriage.

Do what's best for you.

 

[gagabobo1997]

Married couples should sleep together but a man needs an office space that is to be untouched by the woman.

 

[Finger Pistols]

If you need personal space just go to the office or another place in the house. Personally, if I need some time for myself or time away from the family I just go out to the park early in the morning and have a smoke or go to a bar for some coffee or a drink.

 

[Cat tit bingo]

Married couples should either sleep in the same bunkbed or separate futons in a room that's divided by black tape down the middle.

 

[Party Hat Wurmple]

Never forget that Naruto and Hinata sleep in different bedrooms. Naruto is endlessly mocked as a cuckold for it. Don't be Naruto.

 

[Punished Mirabeau B Lamar]

Having separate personal rooms like an office isn't abnormal but having entire separate beds in different rooms is a sad state of affairs and I hope your coworker will eventually realize that.

 

[Napoleon Bonerfart]

How are you supposed to watch if you are in a different bedroom?

 

[Finger Pistols]

How are you supposed to watch if you are in a different bedroom?

Use a drill and make a hole on the wall. Simple as.

 

[Moths]

If I'm feeling restless in bed to the point of potentially annoying the other person I'd just chill on the couch.

If you've bought a not comfy couch you've fucked up fren

 

[biozeminadae1]

In the past, rich people like the ruling class did live in separate chambers. The common people who were poor slept together. With their children in the same place.

Never forget that Naruto and Hinata sleep in different bedrooms. Naruto is endlessly mocked as a cuckold for it. Don't be Naruto.

How is that amusing? She's from the last elite clan of Konoha that's been a part of the village from the beginning. Naruto is the president of ninja town. Sleeping separately isn't crazy. It does kind of contrast with his supposed modernisation reforms, though.

 

[OrionBalls]

Well, he snores and I flail, so you tell me.

 

[Agent Abe Caprine]

Well, he snores and I flail, so you tell me.

Look. If bed time isn't wrestlemania, what's even the point?

 

[Napoleon Bonerfart]

Use a drill and make a hole on the wall. Simple as.

Well in that case separate bedrooms. I mean imagine being able to hang anime wall scrolls on all four sides of the room.

 

[Ibanez RG 350EX]

Co-sleeping is awful and I legitimately don't understand how anyone tolerates it. If I got married, I'd eventually have some kind of psychotic episode from sleep deprivation.

 

[Whiskey]

Depends on the people. Ex of mine was like a dog running in her sleep. It was amusing to watch but unpleasant for getting a nights sleep.

 

[The handsome tard]

Marriage is suppose to indicate you people love and support each other. Its fine to have your own hobbies and spaces dedicated to personal things but the bedroom should be where you two come together to spend chill time with.

But I guess things have become so fucked up that people cant stand each other anymore for too long so idk.

 

[Aunt Carol]

This is going to vary based on the couple; neither practice is always healthy nor always unhealthy.

If someone's a wiggler and/or someone's a light sleeper, or there's a shift difference, it makes sense to have separate rooms, if both people agree to it. If it's temporary like a bad cold or a week of having to get up early, that's when you use a couch or a guest room.

If this is all because of snoring, the snorer needs to get checked out for sleep apnea, though. That's not just eccentric; that could be cruising for a heart attack.