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I've probably said this before and I apologize in advance for the necromancy but something's been on my mind.

Is it weird that even though I'm technically bisexual, I'd honestly feel more comfortable from just identifying as gay?

Like, I've dated both women and men and I'll admit I find both attractive but I honestly just feel a lot more comfortable being in a relationship with a man on an emotional level. Plus I'll admit I lean more towards the gay side of things when it comes to who I find attractive.

I've currently got a boyfriend and we've been dating since the end of last year and it's honestly a lot better being with him than my previous two girlfriends. I'm not sure if that's an indication of something or if it's just because both my exes were batshit insane and generally insufferable.
 
Syaoran Li said:
I've probably said this before and I apologize in advance for the necromancy but something's been on my mind.

Is it weird that even though I'm technically bisexual, I'd honestly feel more comfortable from just identifying as gay?

Like, I've dated both women and men and I'll admit I find both attractive but I honestly just feel a lot more comfortable being in a relationship with a man on an emotional level. Plus I'll admit I lean more towards the gay side of things when it comes to who I find attractive.

I've currently got a boyfriend and we've been dating since the end of last year and it's honestly a lot better being with him than my previous two girlfriends. I'm not sure if that's an indication of something or if it's just because both my exes were batshit insane and generally insufferable.
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I’m kind of in the same boat as you, honestly.
Since we’re powerleveling a bit here, I have only ever been with guys, but I do find some women attractive. I just prefer being with guys for some reason. So, I just say “I’m gay” and leave it at that because that’s the simpler option.
Maybe I can just relate to another bro better, I dunno.
 
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Syaoran Li said:
I've probably said this before and I apologize in advance for the necromancy but something's been on my mind.

Is it weird that even though I'm technically bisexual, I'd honestly feel more comfortable from just identifying as gay?

Like, I've dated both women and men and I'll admit I find both attractive but I honestly just feel a lot more comfortable being in a relationship with a man on an emotional level. Plus I'll admit I lean more towards the gay side of things when it comes to who I find attractive.

I've currently got a boyfriend and we've been dating since the end of last year and it's honestly a lot better being with him than my previous two girlfriends. I'm not sure if that's an indication of something or if it's just because both my exes were batshit insane and generally insufferable.
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Dandelion Eyes said:
Off topic, but I have a theory, that women don't need sex as much as men. That explains why gay men are having more sex, than straight men, why "lesbian bed death exists" and why a lot of straight men become incels.

Can't blame women for that, though.
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Women are incapable of being agents of change, even in their own lives. For every issue they have they require a man to take action. Women are terrible at seduction and their best play is to make themselves into an object. If they do that long enough "something happens." Later in life once that stops working their play is just to be easier and filthier in bed, once again making themselves an object for a man to dump whatever weird shit they want into.

So lesbians sitting there with their tattooed arms crossed waiting for the other to make the first move checks out.
 
from my faghag experience, women who stopped putting out later in the relationship were often fat or chubby. be they bi or lesbian. i assume at that weight it's just easier for them to roll over and let someone stick their dick in them, so hey have to do as little work as possible. (i no longer fuck with fatties tho because i have been putting a lot of work into my body and lost a shit ton of weight.)

i think the whole top/bottom shit has a lot to do with it as well. since i am a top i do not face issues with who initiates what. if i am in the mood i make it known and, aside from the aforementioned fatfucks, i seldom have been in situations where they 'werent in the mood'. it's very rare i am with someone who is also a top. probably because tops are usually dykes/studs, aka the kind of women i am not attracted to. but that could be me generalizing. after all i am a top and still very much present as feminine.

i'm sure to the surprise of no one here, women are just needlessly complicated about relationships. that contributes to a lot of unhappiness in female/female relationships. it's why i lose my shit laughing at sjw preecher types who romantacize the fuck out of lesbians, as though being with a woman will make you happier than if you were with a guy. because it's bullshit. sex has never been the problem in any lesbian relationship of mine, it's always been psychological bullshit. women are insufferably passive aggressive and manipulative. they create problems out of thin air if they are bored enough.

this is why i stay the fuck away from bisexual women who 'has had too many bad relationships with men', because there's a good chance they were the problem, and being bicurious isn't gonna fix their bullshit.
 
I'd like to know why so many girls it seems once they find out you're gay start hitting on you.

I have a female friend I work with. We're actually friends, not just coworkers who get along. Once she found out I'm gay, it seems like she ramped up the good natured teasing into flirty undertones, or in some cases complete overtones. You'd have to be blind and deaf not to recognize the change. Not the first time this has happened either. Friends with a girl, she finds out I'm into guys and then starts giving me her come hither eyes.

Why do they do this when they know there's no chance? What am I missing here?
 
Autumnal Equinox said:
I'd like to know why so many girls it seems once they find out you're gay start hitting on you.

I have a female friend I work with. We're actually friends, not just coworkers who get along. Once she found out I'm gay, it seems like she ramped up the good natured teasing into flirty undertones, or in some cases complete overtones. You'd have to be blind and deaf not to recognize the change. Not the first time this has happened either. Friends with a girl, she finds out I'm into guys and then starts giving me her come hither eyes.

Why do they do this when they know there's no chance? What am I missing here?
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I know it’s because I’m a beautiful Chad. But since you are, unfortunately for you, not me, it’s probably because now they don’t feel worried about you actually reciprocating anything so they feel free to hit on you, but haha not really.
 
Autumnal Equinox said:
I'd like to know why so many girls it seems once they find out you're gay start hitting on you.

I have a female friend I work with. We're actually friends, not just coworkers who get along. Once she found out I'm gay, it seems like she ramped up the good natured teasing into flirty undertones, or in some cases complete overtones. You'd have to be blind and deaf not to recognize the change. Not the first time this has happened either. Friends with a girl, she finds out I'm into guys and then starts giving me her come hither eyes.

Why do they do this when they know there's no chance? What am I missing here?
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lovebombing and fakeflirting is standard language among girls. they probably see you as one of them now.
 
Autumnal Equinox said:
I'd like to know why so many girls it seems once they find out you're gay start hitting on you.

I have a female friend I work with. We're actually friends, not just coworkers who get along. Once she found out I'm gay, it seems like she ramped up the good natured teasing into flirty undertones, or in some cases complete overtones. You'd have to be blind and deaf not to recognize the change. Not the first time this has happened either. Friends with a girl, she finds out I'm into guys and then starts giving me her come hither eyes.

Why do they do this when they know there's no chance? What am I missing here?
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Because she (and the other girls who do this) are massive creeps/sex pests.
 
Syaoran Li said:
I've probably said this before and I apologize in advance for the necromancy but something's been on my mind.

Is it weird that even though I'm technically bisexual, I'd honestly feel more comfortable from just identifying as gay?

Like, I've dated both women and men and I'll admit I find both attractive but I honestly just feel a lot more comfortable being in a relationship with a man on an emotional level. Plus I'll admit I lean more towards the gay side of things when it comes to who I find attractive.

I've currently got a boyfriend and we've been dating since the end of last year and it's honestly a lot better being with him than my previous two girlfriends. I'm not sure if that's an indication of something or if it's just because both my exes were batshit insane and generally insufferable.
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From experience a lot of bisexuals end up like that. They can be attracted to and be in relationships with both men and women, but realistically, in the long term they can only see themselves having a future with one gender. I don't think there are many bisexual people who would be equally emotionally fulfilled in a relationship with either a man or woman but again, that's only from experience.

There's a lot of SJW sperging about how bisexuals with a preference for the same gender can't call themselves gay (and are huge homophobes for doing so) and will never have the same experiences as gay people because they can be in heterosexual relationships, but I feel like a lot of people who self identify as gay have had similar experiences to you.

So no, not weird of you, the boundary between bisexual and gay or straight is blurred to some extent.
 
Rekkington said:
Women are incapable of being agents of change, even in their own lives. For every issue they have they require a man to take action. Women are terrible at seduction and their best play is to make themselves into an object. If they do that long enough "something happens." Later in life once that stops working their play is just to be easier and filthier in bed, once again making themselves an object for a man to dump whatever weird shit they want into.

So lesbians sitting there with their tattooed arms crossed waiting for the other to make the first move checks out.
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Have you ever touched a vagina before? Just asking
 
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