Seasonal depression support thread

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Plan something you can look forward to on the week-ends.
This is just good advice in general. One of the best ways to stave off depression is to have something in the future you're looking forward to. They say that planning a vacation is actually better for your mental health than taking the vacation itself (still take the vacation.)

Can be something little like a hike or a day trip or something but just something you can put on the calendar that'll be fun.
 

They say that planning a vacation is actually better for your mental health than taking the vacation itself (still take the vacation.)
I can wholeheartedly agree with this. I take almost all of my vacation days at once and make a big trip in the summer. I travel by train and sleep in hostels and the planning of every stop and how to get from place to place gives me immense joy. It takes a lot of work and time to do that, but it's so worth it. I can suggest everyone does that at least once in their lifetime. It gives you a completely different perspective on life and what you intend to do with it. This was at least my experience.
 
Mine's not a seasonal more than a "parent dying" depression along with the winter-cloudy sads.
tl;dr Chuck's about to leave me the business IRL and I'm not sure I can handle it.

Shitposting on Kiwi unironically helps but it also feels like putting a Barbie Band-aid on a machete wound -- it looks nice but I'm still bleeding.
 
Mine's not a seasonal more than a "parent dying" depression along with the winter-cloudy sads.
tl;dr Chuck's about to leave me the business IRL and I'm not sure I can handle it.

Shitposting on Kiwi unironically helps but it also feels like putting a Barbie Band-aid on a machete wound -- it looks nice but I'm still bleeding.
You wouldn’t be human if that didn’t make you very very sad. I hope it all goes as well as it can, given the circumstances. Might sound like an odd thing to say but at least you know and can say your goodbyes and tell him you love him? I’m very sorry.
 
How are we doing this season? I'm back in full swing. I tried to prevent it, or at least pushing it as far back as possible by using the summer to get used to some good habits, but that didn't work. I'll install my light therapy thing this weekend and hope that helps. Work has sucked too, and friends have canceled visiting this weekend. I have even already prepared some food.
I'll try to organize something this weekend so I don't just stay in my apartment and watch YouTube videos I'm not even interested in.

Hope your season has been going better.
 
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Does anyone have experience with those daylight lamps? Do they work? Because of my job I don't see any sunlight during
winter. In the morning it's pitch black and when I leave it's black as shit again.

Otherwise I use the common methods: vitamine D supplements, walking as much as possible, fish oil
 
Does anyone have experience with those daylight lamps? Do they work? Because of my job I don't see any sunlight during
winter. In the morning it's pitch black and when I leave it's black as shit again.

Otherwise I use the common methods: vitamine D supplements, walking as much as possible, fish oil
I'll be sure to report back! I heard that it takes a couple of days to weeks to kick in. There is pretty good evidence behind it. I'm setting it up right now. One lamp next to my bed on the nightstand and one in the kitchen. I'll have to figure out the kitchen situation, but will find a solution.
 
This is just good advice in general. One of the best ways to stave off depression is to have something in the future you're looking forward to. They say that planning a vacation is actually better for your mental health than taking the vacation itself (still take the vacation.)

Can be something little like a hike or a day trip or something but just something you can put on the calendar that'll be fun.
Sorry for necro, but this advice is the same good as it was last year. Also, if something is already planned with other people, one just HAS to wake up and go if not ill, even if the weather isn't exactly mental health-improving.

Ah yes, the weather... the winters of last 20 years, those with almost no snow and temperatures slightly above zero sucked all the joy and fun I could possibly get from winter months. Were it better, I'd go cross-country skiing or ice skating in nature at least 1-2x per week or just enjoy the walk, now I have to drive at least 2 hours to get anywhere nice, while many other people have the same idea. It doesn't help, that the local urban design isn't exactly made for half a year of bleakness. I can go out whenever I want, and I did not see the sun for weeks anyway.
Also there is all the fear of missing out (on the rare days that happen to be nice).
 
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the winters of last 20 years, those with almost no snow
We're into our third month of snow. Got most of another foot last night. Snow is a nice fantasy and all until the realities become plain. So much more work. Being this far north means that I get that much less sunshine than anywhere else. That really gets to me. Snow means outside can kill you. I feel profoundly unsuited to live somewhere that is snowy for nearly half a year.
 
It's above 50 today so I opened my window and my god outside smells amazing. The plants are waking up a little, the snow is melting, I can go on a walk without slipping on ice.
 
Does anyone have experience with those daylight lamps? Do they work? Because of my job I don't see any sunlight during
winter. In the morning it's pitch black and when I leave it's black as shit again.

Otherwise I use the common methods: vitamine D supplements, walking as much as possible, fish oil
Reporting back! They seem to actually help. It's also getting day earlier now, but I still thing they help!
 
Oh wow, I forgot I even posted here.

So, small update: She passed back in May and now I have to file her taxes (yes, really, and remember that the two constants in life -- death and taxes -- are mutual.)
I've been keeping the house running and also decluttering her (former) room. I know it's cliché to go "everything reminds me of her", but when you're uncovering old pictures, it's kind of hard.
I've had to stop a couple of times and get back on the depression horse after it bucks me off with, say, a letter from an old family friend.

Also, ProTip for all you Kiwis still living with/taking care of your folks: Get multiples of the death certificate. Everyone wants "an original" and not a copy. Most of the time you'll get it back, but some people just plain keep it.

The first couple of few months were the toughest, especially "Oh shit, how am I supposed to know what bills to pay and when" and "Fuck being social, July 4th can suck my dick, I'm still grieving"

It's a bit of a relief now that I've gotten everything flowing the way I want, and in a way it's nice not to have to worry about "Help me off the toilet" texts, but again, that's my mom. It's always going to be that little void in my life.

Or, as Teddy Roosevelt once wrote:

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It's above 50 today so I opened my window and my god outside smells amazing. The plants are waking up a little, the snow is melting, I can go on a walk without slipping on ice.
i live around the corner from a florists store which has audio of birds singing playing from a speaker outside, just like your video minus the music. i would probably go crazy if i lived in that building but since i just walk past it its actually pretty nice
winter sucks
 
i live around the corner from a florists store which has audio of birds singing playing from a speaker outside, just like your video minus the music. i would probably go crazy if i lived in that building but since i just walk past it its actually pretty nice
winter sucks
I live in a pretty wooded area so the birdsong picks up like crazy as soon as it gets above 60 outside. It's nice for a week or two and then you start waking up to blue jays fighting right outside the window at 6 am. The winter juncos are cute but I miss the sun and warmth :(
 
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