Seasonal depression support thread

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Personally I just bought a bunch of (cheap, Chinese, kind of dubious) LED array lamps from Amazon and put them in mounts all around the room. It gets really bright, but if you care about the aesthetics it might not be a good idea.
I think day light lamps are different from normal lights in that they have a higher amount of light in spectrum that we perceive as blue. This kind of light mimics the wakening effect that sunlight has. But I am sure you can create the same thing with LEDs when buying the correct ones.
 
The end of Daylight Saving Time only makes it all worse when suddenly the sun sets at like 5 PM
 
I think day light lamps are different from normal lights in that they have a higher amount of light in spectrum that we perceive as blue. This kind of light mimics the wakening effect that sunlight has. But I am sure you can create the same thing with LEDs when buying the correct ones.
Yeah I have access to measurement equipment, the color temperature is pretty high but not as consistent as something more expensive.
 
Thank you all for the suggestions--if anyone has others keep them coming. I'm determined not to be in a funk this winter if I can avoid it!
 
Living off of energy drinks rn. If any of you ladies have any suggestions for keeping circadian rhythms in check I’m all ears. Family life and work has got me burned out.

Growing up in sunny ass Libya and spending my uni years in the sunny ass US Deep South has fucked my shit up now living in the UK now where it’s pitch black at 4PM.
Downing energy drinks might not be the best thing to do when trying to keep the circadian rhythm. The light therapy thing might be something you could be looking into. Maybe you could replace them with tea? I heard the brits have quite good ones. :)
 
Downing energy drinks might not be the best thing to do when trying to keep the circadian rhythm. The light therapy thing might be something you could be looking into. Maybe you could replace them with tea? I heard the brits have quite good ones. :)
Certainly a better selection than back home, I’ll swap them out for a bit and see if it helps. Definitely looking into some light therapy stuff. Thanks.
 
Sunlamps and pills are great for vitamin D, but there are foods you can eat that have natural vitamin D and don't make you feel like a science experiment. Oatmeal, real butter, orange juice, eggs, cereal, mushrooms, and milk/cheese usually have good amounts of D in them. Plus, Christmas Oranges are a 19th century Christmas tradition, so if you celebrate that's a fun way to incorporate those.

Personally, I struggle with year-round depression, so I do little things all the time that make my life a little easier to deal with. Here's a list in no specific order:
  • Don't lay in bed all day. If you're low energy, move to different places in your house/apartment for a change of scenery.
  • Wear clean clothes, brush your teeth, and bathe regularly. Being clean will make you feel better.
    • Wash your bedding, same reason.
  • If you can't do a whole chore, do a half-assed job. Wash some of the dishes, pick up some of your room, take out a single trash bag. Something is better than nothing.
  • Don't talk down to yourself. When you call yourself fat, stupid, lazy, etc, you start to believe it. Correct yourself in your mind when you do it, like "I'm not stupid, everybody forgets to charge their phone," or "I'm not lazy, I just got off my shift at work. It's normal to feel tired."
    • Refocus from what you didn't do to what you did do! "I forgot to run the dishwasher" should be "I unloaded and reloaded the dishwasher!" "I still drank soda today," "I drank a lot of water today!"
  • Eat some non-shit food once in a while. Drink water, eat a vegetable that isn't canned, and make an actual meal that doesn't involve the microwave.
  • Have something in your schedule to look forward to. Karaoke, visiting a friend, going to an event, something that gets you thinking about the future in a positive way.
    • For the holiday season, create and maintain traditions!!! Decide a Christmas movie is now your favorite Christmas movie and watch it, drive around and look at Christmas lights, eat a specific dish on Thanksgiving, go to church, put up a tree, use the same decorations each year, listen to a specific song. Traditions are important!
  • Reach out to people and talk to someone that isn't yourself. If you can talk to someone in person, that's even better. Get out of your own head.
    • GET HUGS!!! Hug people! Hug people for thirty seconds! Hugs are good for you and everyone needs hugs. Get some hugs!!
  • Go for a walk. If you can't go for a walk, stand or sit on the porch. If you can't go on the porch, sit by the window and crack it open. If you can't do that, you're either in prison or rent an apartment in NYC. Get some fresh air somehow. Even if it's cold, you'll feel good and you can always come back inside where it'll feel even warmer and snugglier.
 
Have something in your schedule to look forward to. Karaoke, visiting a friend, going to an event, something that gets you thinking about the future in a positive way.
I do that. That keeps me somewhat sane during work. I have almost nothing to do at this moment. It's really frustrating and depressing because I just sit in an office and it feels like my day is stolen from me. I like the work I do but I can't stand having nothing to do.

I felt like drinking some wine yesterday, so I bought a bottle and wanted to drink a glass. But the wine was so shit that I emptied the whole bottle down the drain. Probably for the better.
 
My seasonal depression is in the summer when its too hot to leave the house in daylight, which also lasts half the year where I live.

I am living my best life in the brief period it's cool enough for me to actually wander about in daylight.

Me too. I have lupus. I can't stand the sun or heat. I'm far more active in the fall and winter and dread summer. July is Hell on Earth and it seems to last forever. It's 44F and I have the screen in my bedroom window.

I know a lot of people love summer and sun. But it's not for me or my skin. I just don't get why sunlight makes people happy. But maybe if I didn't have to deal with my symptoms I'd feel different. I have heard that those sun lamps are good for cats. My cats are so sleepy now.
 
Me too. I have lupus. I can't stand the sun or heat. I'm far more active in the fall and winter and dread summer. July is Hell on Earth and it seems to last forever. It's 44F and I have the screen in my bedroom window.

I know a lot of people love summer and sun. But it's not for me or my skin. I just don't get why sunlight makes people happy. But maybe if I didn't have to deal with my symptoms I'd feel different. I have heard that those sun lamps are good for cats. My cats are so sleepy now.

Cats will indeed naturally gravitate towards a sun lamp.
 
When stick season begins, I start leaning heavily into Christmas. Lights, wreaths, tea candles everywhere. Also, Christmas-y scents- simmer pots, scented candles, room sprays, cologne/perfume. I used to think there was no point to Christmas decorating when your apartment isn't great for friend or family gatherings and nobody would see it, but I get it now. I got myself a little Norfolk pine and decorated it with tiny red ornaments, and it helps chase of that weird dread feeling- you know the one- whenever I look at it.

Winter trail walks are highly underrated. I always try to take a dog if I can. If you're bundled up properly you won't be miserable. Natural materials > synthetic materials most of the time. Cashmere-lined leather gloves or shearling mittens, merino wool socks (Costco has great cheap ones that aren't itchy), a big coat lined with fur (vintage are usually warmer for some reason), and wool base layers are the way to go. Still looking for a good winter boot that is warm and waterproof but not bulky, though. Even bundling up and sitting on the porch/balcony with a warm coffee feels infinitely better than sitting near a window inside.

There's also some content creator who has a "how to stop rotting" series that I found helpful. Shifting your perspective from "Oh fuck, I've wasted the whole day, look how dark it is outside at 5pm" to "I still have ~7 hours to make it a good day". Taking little steps, like just doing 5 minutes of yoga or stretching in bed at first.

Winter is a tough season. If you get as much vit D as possible and then try to find little things to love about it, it gets much easier.
 
Winter trail walks are highly underrated. I always try to take a dog if I can. If you're bundled up properly you won't be miserable. Natural materials > synthetic materials most of the time. Cashmere-lined leather gloves or shearling mittens, merino wool socks (Costco has great cheap ones that aren't itchy), a big coat lined with fur (vintage are usually warmer for some reason), and wool base layers are the way to go. Still looking for a good winter boot that is warm and waterproof but not bulky, though. Even bundling up and sitting on the porch/balcony with a warm coffee feels infinitely better than sitting near a window inside.
I love going for walks in winter. The snow makes nature beautiful, and walking through it is just the right amount of exercise. I can stay out all day in winter, it's great.
Put on thermal leggings under your normal trousers and use nice wool socks. Put on a buff, tuck the bottom under your shirt and pull the top over your nose, put on your ANC earbuds, and then wear an ushanka over it all. Tie the ear flaps back or under your chin. Put on a nice long wool coat. Wear fur-lined boots and mittens. Bring a flashlight and a thermos of coffee or hot chocolate. A warm drink will refresh you right away, and it gets dark quick.
 
I think I've just got depression but my father got diagnosed with SAD so I'm wondering if it's genetic [nature] because he didn't really raise me [nurture]. I'm not even living 'up north' with snow, just maybe overcast/ foggy sometimes.
 
I' m not sure if I have SAD because I barely know what an emotion is anymore.
 
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