I love a man that can be honest with his feelings, can communicate his emotions, etc. We all profit!
I just doubt your understanding of "toxic masculinity" and what women actually mean with it! It's a communication issue I believe. Just as I said in my previous post.
Men telling other men they've failed as men, isn't a feminist issue though, let's be real. Thats male socialisation. That's clearly men issues, that men have to work out as men and how they deal with each other emotionally. If you believe being a man, needs to do all that work to be a man— what the fuck do woman have to do with that except be emotional support animals to keep telling you "yes, you're super manly"? When we generally might not believe in the "manly" aspect anymore.
But trying to put the blame on women as to why they get raped, murdered, etc more often and in increasing numbers in every sensible country... how does that make sense? It's not the women doing it to themselves, is it? Maybe it does require an adult conversation.