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- Dec 20, 2022
That depends on what sub type of ana-chan she* is.For anorexia, yeah they can be really annoying with wanting to have all the attention and acting narcissistic, but that's it
A binge/purge ana-chan, particularly one who is a minor and dependent on her family financially can waste hundreds or even thousands of dollars on food/ laxatives which she then pukes/shits out. This can wind up being a financial strain on the family's budget. Add to that the psycholgical pressure of "well she's eating, I can't not buy her food. Maybe this time she won't purge..." to the mix and its an awful environment to live in for everyone.
Siblings, if present, get set aside and are often left to emotionally care for themselves so the parents can focus their time and attention on the endless crisis that is Daughter Anorexia. It fucks up the mental health of the other kids in the family.
Ana-chans often have other comorbid behavioral issues like shop lifting, chronic lying, and constant emotional manipulation that are a major drain on the family as well.
Living with an ana-chan is absolutely a Hell in its own right that can be hard for those outside of the family to recognize and sympathize with.
*Manorexia is less common and I will not be addressing that here as I feel mana-chans should be a different discussion.