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https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/9rr6kt/is_jealousy_natural/

Guy gets cucked and wonders if its normal to feel bad about it
 
"My gf fucks two other guys while I stay home alone jerking off to Tinder pics, is it normal to be upset ?"
 
Frenda said:
>/u/DenseBear

@bearycool damn dude get a cpap machine
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I looked at this guy's history.

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He also considers himself 'a non-binary person but for the most part male', and he likes his boyfriend's tits. Also, said boyfriend he stole from his best friend:

AskReddit: Have you ever fallen for a close friend's significant other? What was the outcome?
This loser:
We are currently boyfriends but my former best friend became toxic.
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Damn, I wonder why!

Also, he weighs 320 pounds.
 
imagine breaking up with your fiancee just because you want to FLIRT WITH OTHER PEOPLE, why even get this far with a person just to break their heart. these people have no value for relationships, they're like horny teenagers but wont acknowledge it
 
Feline Companion said:
imagine breaking up with your fiancee just because you want to FLIRT WITH OTHER PEOPLE, why even get this far with a person just to break their heart. these people have no value for relationships, they're like horny teenagers but wont acknowledge it
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If she's admitting to flirting, she's probably actually going much further than that.
 
Alpha Loves You said:
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https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/9o103x/my_relationship_fell_apart/

And people still think poly relationships are a good idea
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Unbelievable. The guy is doing nothing but blaming himself when it's his whore girlfriend who fucked a mentally ill girl's husband and then decided her feelings about the shiny new thing were more important than a ten year relationship or the other girl.
What's sad is if not for the veneer of "poly" this shit would clearly be just as I described it and everyone would realize how completely socially unacceptable it is. But instead we get people beating themselves up for no reason.
 
The culture of polyamory seems to be a giant gaslighting scheme for narcissists, sociopaths, and borderlines. Ironically, they probably call out their critics for gaslighting them, misusing the term as they do so.
 
That documentary was pretty interesting, and I always love how Louis always probes people with difficult questions. Hard to watch Jerry as he was obviously uncomfortable. Also I found all the talk of " I'm not responsible for their emotions/selves" pretty disingenuous, especially considering they married under that very principle.
 
>I'm not responsible for the feelings of my husband when I'm engaged with someone else
If Jerry keeps going the way he's going he's gonna end up married to a rope attached to a ceiling fan.
 
It is superficially true that one is not fully responsible for others' feelings, but there is such a thing as reasonably anticipable consequences of one's actions. These people want to :autism: their way out of that in order to do as they like in the moment. Swine, bears, seals behave this way, but none of those species have created durable communities.
 
"Not responsible for their feelings" is another malappropriated therapist-ism. That's what they tell innocent people when they're stuck dealing with bpd/narc assholes who manipulate others by having abnormal emotional responses, i.e. adult toddler meltdowns. It was never meant to mean that you can treat your partner like shit, and it's their fault for having a normal reaction to it.
 
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