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TheLionSleepsTonight said:
That whole picture triggers me on a primal level, and the sheer amounts of denial everybody involved exhibits is only mostly the reason for it.
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Just think ... buried underneath this whole shitshow, is her husband and her kid ...

There is a lot that is going wrong ...

This woman is poorly groomed, can't be bothered with a skin care regime, and she is standing between two men who she claims are her lovers. One looks like an ambiguously Mexican patsy with an Elvis pompadour, the other is a dude with massive clown-feet under a skirt.

The time to experiment with this stuff has passed. High school is over.

There is nothing right about any of this
 
Non-Expert! said:
Just think ... buried underneath this whole shitshow, is her husband and her kid ...

There is a lot that is going wrong ...

This woman is poorly groomed, can't be bothered with a skin care regime, and she is standing between two men who she claims are her lovers. One looks like an ambiguously Mexican patsy with an Elvis pompadour, the other is a dude with massive clown-feet under a skirt.

The time to experiment with this stuff has passed. High school is over.

There is nothing right about any of this
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This shit is going to be the 1960s-70s all over again.

These children will grow up to hate their parents.
 
Crunchy Leaf said:
yeah but that skirt looks like something a Christian grandma would reject for being too dowdy. why would you want to make your sexual partner look unattractive.
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All of them are already unattractive and seem to not make any effort to be attractive. Don't you understand, they don't need to be attractive. They're queering up social and sexual norms. They're challenging society's notion of what is attractive, who can be happy, and what a relationship means. Of course it doesn't make sense to some repressed boomer like you.

This is literally the thought process of ugly people when they have degenerate sex.
 
break these cuffs said:
All of them are already unattractive and seem to not make any effort to be attractive. Don't you understand, they don't need to be attractive. They're queering up social and sexual norms. They're challenging society's notion of what is attractive, who can be happy, and what a relationship means. Of course it doesn't make sense to some repressed boomer like you.

This is literally the thought process of ugly people when they have degenerate sex.
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I don't get it. All they have to do is wait a couple of decades to join the rest of us ... why accelerate pushing down the ugg lever?
 
Non-Expert! said:
I don't get it. All they have to do is wait a couple of decades to join the rest of us ... why accelerate pushing down the ugg lever?
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It's how they liberate themselves from their oppressors. They genuinely believe that looking attractive, looking like a normal man or a woman, etc are evil and tools of the patriarchy/whatever to oppress them. It used to be goth, or grunge, or any number of other rebellious fads that have waxed and waned over the decades going against society at large. The difference here is their rebellion is being back up by institutions like the MSM, colleges, etc and has achieved a near religious level of reverence. Old or traditional = bad. New or different = good.
 
break these cuffs said:
It's how they liberate themselves from their oppressors. They genuinely believe that looking attractive, looking like a normal man or a woman, etc are evil and tools of the patriarchy/whatever to oppress them. It used to be goth, or grunge, or any number of other rebellious fads that have waxed and waned over the decades going against society at large. The difference here is their rebellion is being back up by institutions like the MSM, colleges, etc and has achieved a near religious level of reverence. Old or traditional = bad. New or different = good.
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Um ... what oppressors?

The Syrian government, the Hutu's, the KGB, al Quaida ...
 
Viral Vigilante said:
oh dear Lord no
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fur baby. k.
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Dog doesn't look happy.

Viral Vigilante said:
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Viral Vigilante said:
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I know if my wife was upset and not having sex with me because I looked at porn, my solution would be to tell her to have sex with other men. Pool for how long before she leaves her kids and cuck for the boy toy? Lmao and he's a stay at home dad. He's been "clean" from porn for 40 days. So literally all he was doing was staying home and jerking off all day while his kids were at school. No wonder his wife hates him.
 
break these cuffs said:
I know if my wife was upset and not having sex with me because I looked at porn, my solution would be to tell her to have sex with other men. Pool for how long before she leaves her kids and cuck for the boy toy? Lmao and he's a stay at home dad. He's been "clean" from porn for 40 days. So literally all he was doing was staying home and jerking off all day while his kids were at school. No wonder his wife hates him.
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Does anybody else here share that sinking feeling ... That these people can't be helped?
 
Non-Expert! said:
Does anybody else here share that sinking feeling ... That these people can't be helped?
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I forgot to add that he's been addicted to porn for two and a half years and is only 40 days clean. He doesn't say how long he was doing it before she found out. My guess is that he started on tranny porn a year ago and he'll troon out shortly after the divorce.
 
break these cuffs said:
I forgot to add that he's been addicted to porn for two and a half years and is only 40 days clean. He doesn't say how long he was doing it before she found out. My guess is that he started on tranny porn a year ago and he'll troon out shortly after the divorce.
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Not sure about the tranny dimension. We can only speculate ... But in support of your point, a 2.5 year dry spell for a guy would be damn rough, especially knowing that some other guy is dumping his load in his wife.

I can see how this type of trauma would merely psychologically emasculate any guy, but thanks to today's technologies ...
 
Non-Expert! said:
Not sure about the tranny dimension. We can only speculate ... But in support of your point, a 2.5 year dry spell for a guy would be damn rough, especially knowing that some other guy is dumping his load in his wife.

I can see how this type of trauma would merely psychologically emasculate any guy, but thanks to today's technologies ...
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He claims he happily encourages her to bang the boy toy and is only upset now that she's hiding it from him, so he undoubtedly has a cuck fetish. Dude is pornsick as fuck and I'd be shocked if he hasn't gotten into tranny porn and other weird shit. He also hasn't told her he's quit porn despite it presumably being a huge issue within the marriage and he's doing it in an effort to fix things with her. There's all types of fucked up sexual dynamics and fetishes going on here. None of these people are normal, healthy individuals.
 
break these cuffs said:
He claims he happily encourages her to bang the boy toy and is only upset now that she's hiding it from him, so he undoubtedly has a cuck fetish. Dude is pornsick as fuck and I'd be shocked if he hasn't gotten into tranny porn and other weird shit. He also hasn't told her he's quit porn despite it presumably being a huge issue within the marriage and he's doing it in an effort to fix things with her. There's all types of fucked up sexual dynamics and fetishes going on here. None of these people are normal, healthy individuals.
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"Insight that I don't have."

Let's just say that men and women have very different sexualities. I always find it interesting to learn about how men see and experience sex and sexuality.

Marriage probably started to die when he started fapping to porn, and she found an alternate ...

Married polyamory, and its obvious pitfalls is like you are watching some Kamakaze go down. Especially if you know what is invested in marriage, and kids ...
 
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Non-Expert! said:
Not sure about the tranny dimension. We can only speculate ... But in support of your point, a 2.5 year dry spell for a guy would be damn rough, especially knowing that some other guy is dumping his load in his wife.

I can see how this type of trauma would merely psychologically emasculate any guy, but thanks to today's technologies ...
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I think the emasculation isn't for the guy, it's for the wife. His porn habits affecting his relationship probably means literally "I jerk off a lot so I have no drive to fuck my actual wife" - meaning she had the worthless feelings and dry spell. It sounds like they had a talk about it a while back and instead of him saying "I will stop with porn and make love to my wife" it sounds like his solution was "I will continue with porn and let someone else make love to my wife".

She probably felt very worthless and discarded by her husband, that she wasn't good enough for him. She probably still thinks that but is very likely ready to move on with her new boyfriend - who actually gives her the affection and validation she needs. Realistically, a spouse you live with but never fuck is essentially just a roomate and it looks like she's treating him like one.
 
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