🤝 Community Omegaverse, Yaoi, and MPreg Fandom Discussion Thread - God help us all

[Magic Pickle]

I saw this the other night and got a laugh out of it. Imagine having an emotional breakdown because your gay ship turned out to not be cannon. I swear these people must be allergic to going outside

Trust me, fujoshi were fucking legendarily hysteric back in Tumblr's heyday. Anyone else remember the Sterek cookies (in an attempt to get the pairing Derek/Stiles of Teen Wolf canonized)? Or the repeated angsting over how Dean and Castiel never properly made onscreen snu-snu during Supernatural's most popular time? I'm certain someone recently mentioned the Johnlock malding as well, and trust me, bearing witness to that shit firsthand is a defining moment for how you perceive these ladies and their... "interests."

Personally, I've always felt that fandom pairing wars were essentially the nerdy girl's version of sports teams, so the heightened emotions and obsession with "winning"/becoming canon reminds me of how crazy sports blokes behave when their teams win - or especially when they lose. In a way, fujoshi are a lot less harmful than guys upturning cars or throwing burning trash cans into buildings when their team loses pairing doesn't happen, but I suppose on the inverse, rarely does a 16-year-old girl line up for needless amputation because the Dallas Cowboys, as is their Sisyphean cross to bear, lost for the umpteenth time.

What I'm finding more shocking out of these reactions isn't watching someone endure The 5 Stages of Grief over fictional romance, it's how so many grown adult women are willingly putting their names and faces to this content. Imagine being a hiring manager searching up a potential employee and the first thing you find is her filmed devastation over the idea that two imaginary teen boys weren't declared by their creators to be rooting around in each other's assholes like pigs in search of truffles. I just don't think an automated rejection email would be able to capture my contempt.

So let me get this straight. Even when a show has a canon queer pairing, its never enough for these people because their argument?

It's a cover for their innate dismissal of women and female relationships. They act as if without dudes being dicked on display, the streets will be overtaken by homophobes with giant rainbow corn threshers to toss in any man, woman or theythem for their perversions - but ultimately, this isn't about actual homosexual representation: what these gals really want is to use emotional manipulation (by claiming "queer" content will keep children from roping left, right and center) to get their yaois immortalized in whatever stories they have personally invested in. They want showrunners to feel cornered into legitimizing their fantasies because the alternative is that said showrunners would be lambasted for their wicked, gay-hating ways, but the age of threatening creatives with accusations of bigotry to get what you want is rapidly coming to an end.

(Pour one out for TiFs who never saw proper pooner popularity before everyone got sick of seeing genderweirds in all of their media; the only dominion that truly saw successful colonization was genre fiction, and even then, many will tap out the second they realize the love interest is just a girl in a disguise even Mulan would find slapdash.)

Honestly, I don't know why they don't just watch garbage like Q-Force instead; they're never content with media that was practically made for them in a lab. They're like those kids who never want their own toys, only your toys, and there will be hell to pay if you don't hand over your Barbie right now.

It’s like their normal sexual expression has been squleched and repressed by progressivism, but instead of going away, it’s just re-emerged as a heavily warped version of what it would normally be: In the circles they run in, expressing attraction to anything that might be labeled “western beauty standards” is morally wrong and should be avoided, so all their sexual energy gets laser-focused focused on things that are the absolute opposite instead.

While I believe that was very true for a small subset of girls in fandoms, it's important to remember that some of the most popular fandoms on Tumblr were Supernatural, Star Trek, Glee, and Marvel - media that had lots of classically good-looking men to depict mewling and keening beneath one another. And that's not even counting how many were fawning over completely imaginary men like those smooth-cheeked little Voltron fellows, the pixel-chads of Dragon Age or whatever anime du jour was dominating the court at the time. Despite the impression one might get at face value, it wasn't just walking shoe store mannequins like Matt Smith or men with family trees like mating snakes' nests like Benedict Cumberbatch that claimed many a young girl's heart.

I would actually say that it seems like the older a lot of them got, the more... accepting their personal tastes became, especially among those who pursued transition. The taste in men I see among FTMs in fandoms these days is fascinating: many of them actually eroticize traits like beer-bellies, body odor, acne and receding hairlines! And the amount of erotic art and fiction they dedicate to these guys makes me believe that it's not just to appear body positive.

On the one hand, it's nice to know there's a lid for every pot, but on the other hand I can't help but wonder how much of their sexual appetite is dictated - or even completely operated - by "T-horny" rather than sincere desire...

 

[Chandelier]

a cover for their innate dismissal of women and female relationships. They act as if without dudes being dicked on display, the streets will be overtaken by homophobes with giant rainbow corn threshers to toss in any man, woman or theythem for their perversions

Speaking of, AO3s top ships of 2025 were released thanks to Brazilian Andressa Buss (phone booked during Charlie Kirk's death). Jayvik predictably was number one, but Byler came smashing into third place within a month, succeeding Jayvik in pure fic numbers in December more than Jayvik did last year (they got 3700 fics, Byler got 5000. They are a bigger fandom so percentage wise it might've been smaller, but whatever). Most comments are predictably celebrating their ship, but the reason for the list is to show how lesbians and POCs do in fandom.

Look at those pairings. White dudes rock. Ghost/Soap has fallen in the rankings and is no longer the top dog. By summer next year, Jayvik will drop and Byler and Hollanov - the Heated Rivalry ship - will be number one. Arcane saw a tremendous growth last year and the ship was already first for that summer's rankings. What's interesting, though, are bot fics in the HP fandom:

Damn.

Pick your favorite comment.

In related news, Bylers are also not acting normally, especially in public:



But none of this is complete without ground zero of "get that fucking nigger out of my ship!": Merthurs. The actor for Arthur himself was known for weird, sexist comments against his female costars and admitted he liked kissing his white costar over his black love interest in the show. Before Allura and Mel, there was Gwen.




Straight up handing out fujo bait by shitting on the female love interest. Even Harry Lloyd has more tact.

The only fandom I can think of that was worse was Geraskier, the Geralt/Jeraskier pairing from the Witcher. Yennefer was white in the game, but they hired an Indian woman, Anya Chalotra, to play her. The only group never represented in fandom whatsoever are Indians.

 

[Among Us Gaming]

Speaking of, AO3s top ships of 2025 were released thanks to Brazilian Andressa Buss

Very interesting. I will choose not to read it so I do not have to think about how much gay smut exists with characters I like.


On an related note, is most of the shipping wars stuff this vitriolic and mentally ill, or is most of it just basic "ur waifu is shit" tier bickering?

 

[Jacques1194]

I have a question about fujos. Why the fuck when there's a canon male character who's gay do they have to keep reminding themselves "He's gay"? The character could literally be eating something and you'd get a comment going "He's so gay". Do they think that if they don't do this that they and the fans will forget?

The reason I'm bringing this up is because a thread on Twitter on South Park being added to Fortnite revealed a trailer with the boys on the bus. Craig was in it and not Tweek. Fujos (of course) were freaking out because Tweek wasn't with Craig. Almost every post that has to do with Craig in particular always has to have a comment that has to remind people that he's gay. I see this every time a scene is shared with the character even when he's doing nothing with Tweek.

 

[Chandelier]

Very interesting. I will choose not to read it so I do not have to think about how much gay smut exists with characters I like.


On an related note, is most of the shipping wars stuff this vitriolic and mentally ill, or is most of it just basic "ur waifu is shit" tier bickering?

Worse. When BBC's "Sherlock" was airing, occasionally Benedict Cumberbatch and Martin Freeman would be shown pornographic fic in interviews, and one even read one out loud to them. It was "Snow, Tea, and Solitude." Encyclopedia Dramatica once had a page on it.


The Tumblr has been deleted, but a copy remains here. Her kids would be teenagers or adults now.

"Our Flag Means Death" had a fandom poon out one of the actresses, and a lot of female VAs will be sent death threats from fujos (as Toks Olangundoye did).

Hell, Hudson Williams, the actor for Scott in "Heated Rivalry " is a Lolita fan:

"Not in a pedo way"




"It's not that deep" - yeah those Lolita comments are weird as fuck, bro.

 

[Paper Machete]

"I think my favorite narrative theme right behind heart-ache/break and emotional turmoil is perversion"

Ah, so that's the type of person who decides to star in a fujobait show. i c

 

[Chandelier]

I think Bylers are now more annoying than Jayviks. This user's entire Twitter feed is filled with fujo shit. Currently squeeing over Maya Hawke promoting Byler on Jimmy Fallon.

Nothing more annoying than fujos acting woke with their *checks notes* popular pairing with white men(*and a half, Noah is Jewish).

Mike is such a loser with a woman, that's why he's better off being a loser with a man! Also, fujos laughing about racism is funny. The sole black man of the show isn't paired with anyone at all. You aren't convincing Bylers to write that because get that fucking nigger out of my ship!

"You're allowed to like ships, but gay white queers are the best representation, faggot."

From her profile. Archive here.



Hmm, I wonder why they sound like regarding their favorite MLM ship not becoming canon...


Oh, I'm sure this is good -

- news. I'm sure you enjoy yuri very much, miss "I'm so male centric those fucking cunts can stay out of my yaoi" fujoshi.

"MLM is so much more meaningful" - and you aren't gonna address why the woman has to be removed for you to connect with the story?

Suuure. Has nothing to do with the woman getting with your "gay" white boy.

Some common sense:

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Meanwhile, Hudson Williams has been getting in trouble over his Letterbox comments. That Hapa privilege coming in clutch.

Your girlfriend is going to leave your downlow Hapa ass.

 

[Paper Machete]

God, that retard talks like such an insufferable faggot I want to shake him down for lunch money.

(Also, at least Jayviks are shipping adults...cartoon adults. They're cringe but not as fucked up as people going crazy over live action and teenage characters. Also, the actors and characters were very underage for a lot of the series IIRC.)

 

[Chandelier]

Someone made a list of the top Omegaverse fandoms. Kpop dominates for all charts.



The maker of these charts had to edit them for confusing the race of certain characters. An F1 driver she listed as white instead of black, and Rumi from KPDH was listed as male when she's female.

Seems like more of an oversight to get someone's race wrong.

In a related vein, someone decided to UM, ACTUALLY the AO3 stats and how it's an outlier among all big fanfic websites.

What's funny is that F/F is the minority on all of them. Ao3 became the dominant website for its laissez-faire approach to adult content. M/M fics number 7.6 million IIRC. M/F is half of that, and F/F is half of that. No one is fapping to lesbians.



Yes, one of the founders of AO3 talked about this during the year of St. Floyd.



This was in response to the fact that all the top ships on AO3 feature white men.

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Grindr itself has jumped on the Heated Rivalry train.

Taylor Swift pfp coming in with a right hook:

I had a good laugh at this exchange:

"IT'S AN IMPORTANT PIECE OF QUEER MEDIA!"
"Bitch I don't give a fuck"

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You might think this tweet is no big deal, but it deals with the "but what can we expect from stupid fucking women" meme that came from the Genshin Impact fandom. That fandom, despite having more female characters, has far more slash fic than her or lesbian fic combined.

 

[Among Us Gaming]

Yes, one of the founders of AO3 talked about this during the year of St. Floyd.

This is one of the things that always fascinates me is how self righteous fujoshi(t)s are. It can't just be trashy smut, it has to be supporting "The Queers™" everytime (though the queers themselves wont touch it, which I guess is neither here nor there).
I understand that this is largely (or at least purportedly so) due to progressive nonsense and these girls not wanting to admit they actually like generic straight romances (especially traditional ones, how gauche!) but I sometimes wonder how much that's really true, and how much of it is fujos trying to get around the fact that they're basically just addicted to porn of a different variety instead.

 

[gata]

as much as I love dunking on paleskin fujoshitters, there's another annoying faction of sanctimonious fujoshitters that think they're not like other fujoshitters because they hecking love brown people blm or race mixing shut the fuck up faggot you're in the same team and should be shat on too because all you fags do is cry about whitoids and white privilege or some bullshit.
Nobody would be hating shippers if they were staying in their fucking lane, but no they have to shove that shit into the public and forcing creators to acknowledge their mental illness.

>Grindr posting about hockey fag show
Do actual gay men actually watch that show? I only see fujoshits cooming their brains out for it.

Also, at least Jayviks are shipping adults...cartoon adults

Doesn't stop the shotacons from making one guy into a child and making gross pornography out of it.

 

[Chandelier]

Do actual gay men actually watch that show? I only see fujoshits cooming their brains out for it.

Apparently not, according to this article. It uses the classic "women like reading gay men fuck because of gender roles" when they just mean, "white men are better and I see myself in men more than those stupid fucking women."

The author, writing under a pen name, said she "spoke to" queer men but we all know that's bullshit. This is a series by and for women.

Spoiler: Smashing gender by loving men

Same magazine posted this, too.

They don't actually hate masculine men. They LOVE them - they just think centering white men and reading them fucking will fix the "heterosexuality crisis."

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Sony's board for releasing music soundtracks - all of whom are women - are also fujos.

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People noted Pluribus, that had a lesbian female lead, get snubbed by this gay magazine.



Yes. Jacob Tierney said "there's a safety in removing women."

This user posits the issue of lesbian shows getting cancelled are those stupid fucking women:

Spoiler: Just pull yourself up by your bootstraps

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In another case of shots fired inside the house, comes people concerned about smashing gender binaries insisting a character wearing religious garb is ACHTUALLY wearing a dress and isn't an incel. It started with a user on Bluesky suggesting they were a misogynist because they never spoke to women.

Spoiler: Friendly gender fire

Well, he is "cis." He's male, regardless of the headcanon that he's a pooner.

Wearing something resembling a toga doesn't make one feminine. There are buff Tibetan monks who dress the way he does, and we don't say they're feminine.

"I'd rather see someone draw him as extremely feminine in a dress and giving birth"
Too late, that's already been done.

But the barefoot and pregnant omega headcanon is okay, provided he isn't an incel.



Another account jumped on it. A known pedophile and Black Mold Dixie showed up.


They're fine headcanoning one of these characters as a rapist, btw. Guess which one.

Here's MistressofVos, who's been spotted liking fics where a child as young as ten is getting groomed and raped. She's a shotacon who used to pair Tim Drake with Ra's Al-Ghul.

She's fine writing the brown man as a rapist and misogynist, btw.

Same person:


"He's a man so I can do whatever I want to him" bitch hasn't seen how her own people write him. "Tight as an unblooded girl child" ring any bells?

Supernovashine is an Aboriginal user who tends to hang out on Meltwt. Pretty sure she's a JayVik fan but this take is pretty retarded. It's always their own firing the shots.

Funny, the sole black pfp there is actually a white Russian. Someone tell her white girls can't be playing in blackface.

 

[Jacques1194]

(Also, at least Jayviks are shipping adults...cartoon adults. They're cringe but not as fucked up as people going crazy over live action and teenage characters. Also, the actors and characters were very underage for a lot of the series IIRC.)

You just reminded me of those weird Tweek and Craig shippers in the South Park fandom that have this weird obsession with them to where it comes across as creepy. Like ok some of the art is nothing too crazy but then you get weirdos who draw art of two kids making out and its like "They're 10". Also, I noticed a few Creek fans who are complaining about how there wasn't an episode where they confessed their feels for each other (as if we didn't have 2 episodes and a game mission that focused on them) and I don't know if fujos are that insecure but...do they really need the characters to straight up say "I love you" in order to confirm the relationship? It reminds me of the Creek fans who keep bringing up the Fractured But Whole scene where Craig said "Super Craig! Is gay!" Like do these people think people will forget that Craig is with Tweek?

 

[Chandelier]

Your entire feed is centered around men and you are friends with a pedophile(s).

There's not a single grown woman to be found anywhere on her socials. It's all men. She loves women, alright - if they appear more male. She was also known back in 2023 for posting pictures of child amputees from Gaza with pooner porn right under it. What a bad time to be horny posting on main.

The full tweet, ft. Karina Marshkova (saj_nsfvv):

But there's a little history behind this one. I don't have the sleuthing skills of Vott, but this one is a doozy.

Spoiler: Yellow pages

A bit of background: she's originally from Seattle, but moved to Milwaukee, Wisconsin. Found a pic of her from a Halloween party from 2021. This is the white woman who's best friends with a pedophile. Is a fan of the Bucks and is a big bar hopper.

She's the Austin Powers.


Worked in the downtown area during a shooting:

Makes sense why she likes that piss beer. She's a serial alcoholic.



Ended up befriending another shipper:

Yeah, that fits.

This also fits (she never writes them as switches):

She had to buy a treadmill for her serial drinking, and casually named dropped her co-workers.

She was not kidding about the alcoholism. She drinks so much beer she had to get a garmin watch for her intake. She's only 30. She only goes sober for four months.


She's 30, a serial alcoholic on Coors Lite (!!), and has to get on a fitness tracker. At 30. In 2019 she tried to become sober and failed.

Wanted to own the bullies by being friends with a shotacon as an adult:

...during middle school you were thinking about drugs and alcohol?

Later, she decided to fuck up her liver further by wanting to go on T.


Doesn't like detransitioners, either.

Or people voting third party.

Meanwhile, in the real world:


If you're a lesbian this obsessed with cock, you might not be lesbian. You love men and the idea OF men. You love their bodies and genitalia, you just don't want a real dick. If there isn't a single woman on your profile, I'm sussing you out.

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Jacob Tierney, the gay creator of Heated Rivalry who said there's a safety in removing women, gives his insider knowledge and "gay nuance" into the show.

Spoiler: Written by a PhD in Gay Male studies

Yes, making the Hapa the smooth doll isn't yaoi brained at all.


Funny, because gay men aren't watching it. Women are.

 

[DeeNaMeeTay]

 

[Kari Kamiya]

I just recently saw what the main characters for Heated Rivalry look like, and it's no fucking wonder fujoshits are all over it. They're twinks, just like their favorite bishies. They're not hairy or stocky or nothing, so therefore the women aren't squicked by hairy buttholes.

 

[Chandelier]

Fujos once again saying the quiet part out loud.


Fact check: yes, the gay creator of the show explicitly said what the fujo friend proudly claimed here.

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User with black pfp tried to make a post about intersectionality, ends up sounding like a basic bitch libshit instead.


Well played, Jay.

Spoiler: This started over Byler

People insist shipping isn't activism, yet are falling head over heels for the Jew boy and filmed themselves crying when he didn't fuck his best friend.




"They only ship canon couples. It's so boring"
And you only ship white people. Next.


'the straggotry needs to stop'

The straggot:

Has an entire neopronoun page:

Big AO3 user. Not a single woman to be found.


What kind of people is she reblogging? "Fujodykes."


She only has ONE fic discussing women. The rest are men. Not very lesbian-like to exclude women from your pornographic consumption.

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Can't forget Black Mold Dixie over here. She's a lesbian fujo who likes her gay men WHITE, and is too lazy to clean out the black mold in her apartment with her disabled mother. Claims she can't do it because of POTS.

 

[Aunt Carol]

Fact check: yes, the gay creator of the show explicitly said what the fujo friend proudly claimed here.

Not a big discourse-follower here, but isn't "the only way to avoid misogyny is to not write about women" easy to flip into "the only way to avoid racism is to not cast black elves?"

 

[Poopfart]

My people. I find women shipping mlm insufferable as fuck. It doesn’t help when they claim to be queer but I’m sorry getting off on imagining two conventionally attractive men having sex sounds like weirdo straight woman nonsense. Adult Bylers should have their computers searched because no adult obsessed with teenage boys kissing (or worse, imaging them fucking) should be trusted. That shit is gross as fuck.

 

[Chandelier]

Not a big discourse-follower here, but isn't "the only way to avoid misogyny is to not write about women" easy to flip into "the only way to avoid racism is to not cast black elves?"

I'm glad you asked, because Andressa Buss, a big fandom engagement account, got raked over the coals for that.

"I never said that" - you literally fucking said that. She says her main ship is f/f, but someone later finds out she doesn't talk about yuri on her account at all.


"Why are you responding to ME for something I said?! Like don't do that???"


"Who said that? Not me, the person who exclusively talks about men"

Someone used the good ole search function and true to form, the "my fave ship is f/f" doesn't talk about yuri anywhere on her account. Guess what she does talk about that:

Newsflash: that is indeed misogyny, OP.