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>How can anyone not be a lesbian?
A) They're a bisexual woman
B) They're a heterosexual woman
C) They're a manAnd even if they don't want to use expressions like "sexy" and "hot" it's not like there aren't less infantilizing words to use than the ones OP used. "Cute and huggable" sounds like something you would say about a little girl
I'd use "cute and huggable" on a dog or a kitten. Or maybe a big ole' teddy bear of a man who pulls you in with his massive arms and lifts you off your feet, but those words alone would be reductive.