I didn't realize this was actually a thing. I knew a girl years ago who was into Yaoi and J-Rock guys and stuff and then we found out she was dating a girl and called herself a feminist, which was bizarre to a lot of us. Then finally a few years later, after she broke it up with the girl a cute guy asked her out, and she did a giant flip.
Suddenly she was complaining he wasn't making enough money for her to settle down, quit her job and become a housewife and have kids and what a deadbeat he was to us. He lived in teh next state over and she wouldn't even let him move in so he could get work in the area where she lived. I guess he must've gotten sick of her complaining because they broke up soon after that. But for all her complaining she was completely devastated about the breakup. From what she said before though, it seemed like she couldn't wait to be rid of him.
I haven't been in much contact with her since then, but she just complains about how ugly or deadbeat the guys that are interested in her are, and she calls herself a feminist again.