Seems women pride themselves on still being "friends" with their exes. I don't see or even talk to girls I merely dated, let alone fucked, because I see no reason to castrate myself. So how do you respond when a girl you're dating mentions her exes and says they're still friends? And how do you deal with her male friends that haven't fucked her? For example, I met a girl who was friends with an ex who got married, and he'd call her once in a blue moon when he's "in town" to "have lunch" and "catch up." She even said that he made subtle passes at her, but nothing happened. I do believe her, but generally,
how do you handle a girl's male "friends" and exes? Do you believe women CAN have male friends that won't try to fuck up your relationship and seize opportunities to get with her? Do you insist on meeting them and judging for yourself whether they'll be a threat? What if she says things like "We're just friends, that's in the past, there's nothing between us anymore," or "I can handle myself," or "You can't tell me who I can and can't be friends with," etc?
Basically, WHAT ARE REASONABLE EXPECTATIONS to have regarding other men in her life, and how do you enforce your expectations without making her feel that you're just jealous, insecure, naive, irrational or "controlling"?
