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I went to bed a straight DYEL, but awoke a gay himbo.
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That was 2 years ago theyve probably already offed themselves or got pregnant.
Poe's law fails me.
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Really considering breaking up with my boyfriend of 6 years. It's been ok but he just fucks up too much and refuses to learn lessons that I inevitably end up paying for and also he's a NEET. Been trying to get him to get a job but I'm at my breaking point with this guy.
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Just break up, too many fish in the sea to keep a deadbeat. If he got benefits and it gave you more economical freedom. Like for being his tard handler, I would argue against it and just get a lover or just open the relationship
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This never works
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It's not like it works anyway.
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Second that. It’s basically breaking up with someone but being too much of a wimp to actually do it. Plus it often makes your partner feel like shit and wonder why they aren’t enough. Same can happen with breaking up, but at least a clean break can open the way to moving on and isn’t stressfully ambiguous.
I’m a bi lady, and open about it. I’m also becoming more and more aware that people might think I’m a prude. I’m a serious romantic, and definitely enjoy adult intimate fun times. But I get seriously turned off by thirst posting and blatant thottery. I’m attracted to women and men, but I don’t get the appeal of just “bewbs/butt” on women. I feel like with the men I know, that’s literally all they need to be into someone. Maybe it’s my female brain but I need the whole picture of looks, personality and that special something to be into someone. For either sex. Otherwise I feel nothing.
It’s clear my bf and I have very different taste in women, and degrees of attraction. He knows I’m bi, and he’ll point at women in videos and go “do you think she’s hot? You said you like small boobs, and that woman is flat. You must like her right?” Like, I don’t even know how to respond to that. It’s also a dig at my self esteem that he watches a lot of tiktok thirst-bait of women who are the complete opposite of me. But that’s going a little too much off-topic.
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Actually meant it that way. I'm just a cunt thinking if he gets any benefits from being with the tard. At least take advantage of it.
A ever increasing problem. People just think of others as objects, like sure. I'm gladly a slut for the right one. Thing is, it rarely gets to that point. Because nowadays have a emotional maturity worse than a amoeba. People just ghost you, when they realise they have to give some effort.
Tiktok is trash and I would be very skeptical to anyone using it
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Honestly this is why I usually cut to the chase and ask very direct questions regarding peoples' sexual conduct and their attitude towards drugs and slutdom, because that defines who they are much more than their behaviour on a date with me.
And its not prudent, I'd be willing to forgive alot if the person were truly repentant. I would gladly date a recovering crack addict or a genuinly repentant whore with tens of bodies if they actually could convince me of their loyalty and consistency (although I doubt thats possible for people who sleep around too much)
And there certainly exist social red flags like using tiktok or always messaging people on instagram
Just stay safe fellow Kiwis and don't end up with trashy people
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Yeah, I always worried I had high standards. I mean, I probably do but I also just want relationships with people I can see spending my life with be it romantic or platonic. Differences in taste are inevitable but as long as it’s not enough to cause big conflicts it is what it is.Honestly this is why I usually cut to the chase and ask very direct questions regarding peoples' sexual conduct and their attitude towards drugs and slutdom, because that defines who they are much more than their behaviour on a date with me.
And its not prudent, I'd be willing to forgive alot if the person were truly repentant. I would gladly date a recovering crack addict or a genuinly repentant whore with tens of bodies if they actually could convince me of their loyalty and consistency (although I doubt thats possible for people who sleep around too much)
And there certainly exist social red flags like using tiktok or always messaging people on instagram
Just stay safe fellow Kiwis and don't end up with trashy people
My bf only recently got into tiktok after watching meme compilations on YouTube here and there. Residents of horny jail aren’t the only thing he watches but it’s still something I need to just be like “hey, I’m kind of uncomfortable, plus you’re wasting productivity time on the app, and I want to talk about it.” Thank goodness he’s not actually making any himself. I know an acquaintance or two that are pushing 30 and making videos.
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Gosh this is probably the last place I'd choose to say this but you shouldnt worry about having "high standards" or that you dont deserve to be with people who fit your criteria. You should always demand equal respect and understanding from your significant other and make sure that they share your values and long term romantic goals aren't dating you "for the fun of it" or because "it beats being alone" (which Ive unironically heard from a guy who was trying to flirt with me). Don't make the mistake of feeling that you have to put up with trashy people because you dont "deserve any better", that's just completely alogical. But you seem to have found your guy (I get that you're a woman) so as long as he shares your long term romantic ideas then I dont think him watching tiktoks should be a deal breaker
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Bail fam. If they're not willing to improve themselves they're not worth your time
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That's pretty sad. Are you both dudes?
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Personally, I get offended when less than nice men "flirt" with me. I'm using some time and effort into my looks (workout, skincare), and here comes a tard that looks like he has never worked out a second in his life and seemingly seems afraid of moisturiser. Like nah, you gotta pay for my time then. Ironically, everybody gets mad af like the incels they are.
I actually don't prostitute myself. Its just a good tactic to make incels GTFO.
Sometimes you have to be a cunt, because if you’re too nice. People will take advantage of you.
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im bi, and one of my best friends who lurks the site without an account is trans. we both despise most of the modern "lgbt community" though. especially him, since he hates the modern "trans rights" movement. its common knowledge that you can't choose to be gay, when did the radical progressives suddenly decide that you can choose to be a tranny? that isn't how it works. you can't just choose to be diabetic.
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if you really love him, you would do what's best for him. whether that's breaking up with him to give him a reality check, or continuing to baby him, that's up to you.
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Important words in all aspects of life, really.
