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I'm bisexual, although I'd say that I have a preference for men (I'm male myself). I'm a bit conflicted about it, to be honest, because one day I'd like to potentially settle down and start a family, and I don't know if I see myself being able to maintain a fully monogamous relationship with a woman. Is anyone else in a similar predicament?
 
I'm bisexual, although I'd say that I have a preference for men (I'm male myself). I'm a bit conflicted about it, to be honest, because one day I'd like to potentially settle down and start a family, and I don't know if I see myself being able to maintain a fully monogamous relationship with a woman. Is anyone else in a similar predicament?
I think it will all fall on when and whom you'll fall in love with. After all, you can't fall in love if there's no attraction.
But don't get a girl just to impregnate her and make a family for it's own sake, while you oogle/have relationships with men. That'd be just plain cruel to her.
 
I think it will all fall on when and whom you'll fall in love with. After all, you can't fall in love if there's no attraction.
But don't get a girl just to impregnate her and make a family for it's own sake, while you oogle/have relationships with men. That'd be just plain cruel to her.

I'm not planning on settling down anytime soon, so it's not an especially pressing dilemma at present, but it is one that nonetheless plagues my thoughts about the future. I certainly wouldn't want to be unfaithful to a spouse, especially if we had children together, but I can see how the relationship could fall apart if my heart wasn't in it anymore. I can also see how an unhappy or argumentative home life could lead me to infidelity, though I am in no way attempting to justify it.
 
I'm not planning on settling down anytime soon, so it's not an especially pressing dilemma at present, but it is one that nonetheless plagues my thoughts about the future. I certainly wouldn't want to be unfaithful to a spouse, especially if we had children together, but I can see how the relationship could fall apart if my heart wasn't in it anymore. I can also see how an unhappy or argumentative home life could lead me to infidelity, though I am in no way attempting to justify it.
I have married young to an older girl, and I too have an interest in young, handsome guys as well a girls. I keep to fantasy and pornography though, since I am sincerely in love with her and faithful. After all, it's a bit like fully heterosexual men have it: obviously they like and are attracted to buxom supermodels, but most of them never betray their spouse, even if given the chance. It's more a matter I morality than sexuality.

If you have to take the big step, think on it throughly. I did it when I was 19 and her 22, and we both got a lot of flak from friends and families, but we were totally sure about it, and we had already went through a lot of rough stuff together, so we knew the best and the worst of each other.

If you aren't 100% sure that you'll be happy, make her happy or keep the commitment, say no. It's better to make her cry now and be over it than make her suffer for a prolonged period and have her get full of regrets.
 
I'm bisexual, although I'd say that I have a preference for men (I'm male myself). I'm a bit conflicted about it, to be honest, because one day I'd like to potentially settle down and start a family, and I don't know if I see myself being able to maintain a fully monogamous relationship with a woman. Is anyone else in a similar predicament?
get a cat
 
I'm bisexual, although I'd say that I have a preference for men (I'm male myself). I'm a bit conflicted about it, to be honest, because one day I'd like to potentially settle down and start a family, and I don't know if I see myself being able to maintain a fully monogamous relationship with a woman. Is anyone else in a similar predicament?
Think that's just normal commitment issues and bisexuality has nothing to do with it.
 
I'm bisexual, although I'd say that I have a preference for men (I'm male myself). I'm a bit conflicted about it, to be honest, because one day I'd like to potentially settle down and start a family, and I don't know if I see myself being able to maintain a fully monogamous relationship with a woman. Is anyone else in a similar predicament?

Get yourself a pre-op tranny. Best of both worlds.
 
I'm Pan, does that count?
It doesn't stick.

Only if it's a non-stick pan.

On fetish/dating websites I identify as pansexual over bisexual because it's a way to explicitly state that I'm cool getting with trans people. There's a debate in The LGBT Community (TM) about whether bisexuality is trans inclusive, and I prefer just to not get involved in that drama or be labeled as transphobic because I turned down a person I'm not into who just happens to be trans.
 
Only if it's a non-stick pan.

On fetish/dating websites I identify as pansexual over bisexual because it's a way to explicitly state that I'm cool getting with trans people. There's a debate in The LGBT Community (TM) about whether bisexuality is trans inclusive, and I prefer just to not get involved in that drama or be labeled as transphobic because I turned down a person I'm not into who just happens to be trans.
You're transphobic no matter what
 
Only if it's a non-stick pan.

On fetish/dating websites I identify as pansexual over bisexual because it's a way to explicitly state that I'm cool getting with trans people. There's a debate in The LGBT Community (TM) about whether bisexuality is trans inclusive, and I prefer just to not get involved in that drama or be labeled as transphobic because I turned down a person I'm not into who just happens to be trans.
Sounds a tad complicated and spergy.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I'm bi, and I like both the dick and the pussy. In my opinion, trans have one of those two things, so where's the problem? I'd be just fine with them.
But that may be me just being old fashioned and dated.
 
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