Few months ago I finally found an online gay group that was tolerable. Some degree of free speech (at least compared to what you'll find in just about any other alphabet soup circle), group size wasn't gargantuan so I could actually get to know folks, and I was able to speak my mind on heavier topics without getting my head bitten off.
...Unfortunately it's an open server so the numbers rapidly bloated and now it's the same mega-sized faceless group as any other and has become insufferably hugboxy to where every goddamn post is some variation of "uwu" or "yaaas queen." Why did I even bother...
The whole experience has done nothing but further cement my hatred for other gay people. It's frustrating because I love cock, but half the time anymore the moment I get that post-nut clarity it's just instant disgust over how I can't stand the overriding majority of the very thing I just coomed to. I know other sane fags exist out there, but they're all but impossible to find because they aren't going to spell out that they feel the same ways towards other men compared to the obnoxious rainbow spewers.