Still catching up... so forgive multi posting.
Elaborating on confidence
Kent is in his car with an rather awful looking goatee and introduces himself. It's night, he loves the night. He loves graveyard and night hours. He wanted to make a video, he hasn't talked about confidence he's not done this in a long time. It needs to be said again and needs to be addressed again. Some people don't get just don't get it. Some people just don't know uh uh uh when to wake up. Some people don't know to wake up. They can't come to reality, I want to talk about confidence.
I never thought confidence doesn't work since the start to attracting a woman in you life and stuff, confidence didn't mean things I felt people used to say confidence attracts women and to be confidence and women love a man who is confident I used to listen to people and that nonsense when people said be confident and have faith in myself. Women like a men who is confidence if you are confidence you will get time of day.
See what I'm saying I used to listen to people and talk to women in the past and stuff I was confident and motivated. I was motivated I was positive and all that and that didn't work. When it came to attracting women all of that all of that didn't work I got rejected women didn't find me attractive or give me time of the day. See what I'm saying. that's why I said it doesn't mean anything. Deep down a lot of people aren't awake. I'm awake to what's going. Most people aren't awake. They don't know what confidence means the true definition of confidence I'm gonna tell you.
The true meaning of confidence is you are self assured of yourself so self assured all it means. All confidence means means you believe in yourself all it means. As I think about it a really strong brain storm, confidence doesn't get women women are attracted to looks outer appearance, to men for uh shallow reasons that's how the dating scene is now in this generation in the 2010s. My generation is called Y I think? This is the 2010s or 20teens.
You know even if in the 2000s you know? It was same way man. I can't say much in the 90s or 80s or 70s. I can tell things were different in the baby boom boomer gen. This is 2010s gen Y this dating scene the confidence maybe it worked in 60s. Not now. Here's the thing, I feel it doesn't mean anything. How many times me Savvy guy or Big Boss need to make videos about how it doesn't mean anything. It's not. It's all looks man. If a woman doesn't find you attractive, Big Boss and Savvy say this. I agree with them 100000%. It doesn't matter to be positive motived or good. It's all looks if she doesn't find you attractive she won't go out with you.
Most women will just use you as an emotional tamp on and friend zone you. She will then have sex with a no good dude a thug who treats her bad she she she just crawl back to you to complain about her boy problems and stuff. She uses you. For emotions. But, they won't give you time of day. You know confidence doesn't attract women it doesn't. Confidence doesn't attract women. Don't get me wrong don't be mad at me. I won't read the comments I don't read comments. I'll say this. I lost my train of thought.
Theres please don't give me a hard time. Most of you will. But um, nothing wrong with being confident and self assured or being upbeat and motivated and eager to do stuff. Nothing wrong with it, it's a good thing. It's not important if she doesn't find you attractive it's over. Wave the white flag just keep it moving man. That's what I do if a girl rejects me. I just keep it moving. Move on man. You know, there are billions of women billions of them on this earth one will date me and be my girl friend and adore me. So I won't trip on rejection anymore.
But uh, you know people who thinks people get women that confidence attracts women need to wake up it doesn't. Has nothing to do with attracting women, look it up in the dictionary it doesn't say it helps get women. So there. What men need to understand women have their own brains. Women have a mind. A mind of their own. You may be positive and eager and she doesn't feel that way. She doesn't want to date you because she doesn't find you attractive, don't waste your time, I don't waste my time on people who don't want me. I don't do it.
I cut people off wasting my time wasting on other not trying to please other people I'm done trying to please people man. I'll just do me man be who I am if I happen to run across a girl I'm into I'll say something introduce myself if if she she is feeling me hey a good thing if she's not I'll more on I won't talk to her. Confidence doesn't attract women, women lie when they say they like it. You can be confident and will be rejected if women don't like you.
If in the twenty teens it's about looks money and uh status man. Well mostly looks and money if you have a lot of women will settle for you. If you have looks they will give you time of day you could have zero dollars in the bank. Women will give you time of day for looks. You can be broke but get time of day. Know what I'm saying. If you are unattractive and have a lot of money a thousandare, thousands upon thousands of dollars. Women may give you time of day. Well no they will want your money women want your money and try to gold dig you. They don't like you for you. I want to be liked for who I am and accept me. I wish for my birthday a girl would bake me a cake and play video games with me go to dinner with me.
You know just just a girl I have things in common with. I want a girl to do that for me and be nice to me and pay for my birthday and we take a vacation and stuff. Someone like that is rare. It's rare in the 2010s 4 years from now, it's gonna be 2020s. And uh, I really feel uh, they the dating dating mid twenty teens than worse it's worse it'll get worse in the future it'll be getting worse sad to say it's true but it's true. Yea, confidence doesn't attract women I could have it and be eager and good outlook and be the nicest guy on earth and get rejected. It's that rejection it hurts you like ripping your heart out when you get rejected.
You think I was nice and sweet and you women claim to love a guy who's confident. But you reject a guy with confidence, that's what I'm talking about women claim to like confidence and when a man tries she rejects him because he's not status quo or have a lot of money. Or he's not good looking to her, see what I'm saying. I'm labeled as an outcast I'm labeled as one growing up I've been rejected by many many many women man. One girl she used me as an emotional tampon she used me. She used me I don't what that stuff man none of it.
Uh Uh. Yea. You know? It's sad some men like me, normal just normal decent good looking. I'm good looking I feel now I'm a decent guy I'm not a bad person I'm hard working. I'm a normal hard working guy. You know? I just just labeled as an outcast and treated as such I'm an outcast was growing up. I'm a nerd. I'll be honest. I've been a nerd type. I didn't deal with other people in school I didn't do what other people did. It's one reason I was bullied and picked on I didn't do what other people did. I used to be nice to women I was nice to girls and all that stuff.
I used to be nice to girls I used to be nice to girls. I used too. I am not the only guy who's done this, I gave girls stuff for birthdays and holidays and I got made fun of and laughed at and saw me as weak and treated me like crap they did this. Because I was nice I got put down and laughed at. That's what happened. Treated like crap. Women my age, young women, that um, there are young women that do that man. Young women a guy who a guy guy who likes them and something nice they treat him like crap and call him weak. Because he did something nice.
Be that he did something nice and he didn't have to but women would put him down. Women do this. Women did me like that. Mostly put me down people put my down my whole life. That's why I say what I did not have people supporting me growing up people put me down. People put me down and tell me I'm not going to be this or about that life. I am trying to prove to everyone I'm trying to prove them wrong, i'm doing it now as my life progresses. Back to the confidence.
It's getting old and I'm tired of talking about it it's getting old talking about it. I've done it past 2-3 years now. We are almost in, we are in Oct of 2016. 3 months till 2017 and it's crazy that I have to make videos saying the same stuff, this year is almost up. It's almost up 2016 almost up. Ok? People still aren't waking up not waking up. It's a better year since 2015 or 2014. A better year. I have some experience with a girl. Some very limited I give my self credit where it is due so I give ti to myself. (LOL)
What hurt me I got used I got used I got kindness taken for weakness it hurts it really hurts it shows you women this gen don't have hearts no hearts not born like that they were programed and taught to do it not born. Society programed women to use men nice men normal men normal men who got a good head not a thug a normal hard working man. Society has taught women to uh uh uh you know? Treat treat normal decent men like crap point blank period. It's sad.
Women will date thugs and pretty boys. Society has taught women to go for them you see it from rap music. Rap music did that it's crap I'm old school I listen to 80s music esp 80s music late 70s music some 90s too. But um, other than that. Hey. You know? i did like the music comes from the 80s the whole 80s era. I like that music. I don't like the mess they have out now man I really don't this generation is lost man. It's lost. I know I'm all over in this video but like I was saying confidence doesn't attract women. All I gotta say man. Most likely I'll talk about this again in the future. I will keep making these videos until people wake up it's good to say what's on your mind and express yourself. It's good about youtube it's freedom of speech. I like youtube. This is Kent signing out my stomach is growling and I'll treat myself out to a nice dinner by myself and call it a night. All I gotta say out peace.
tl;dw
If I have to type the word confidence one more time I'm throwing a puppy in a wood chipper.
Kent is forced to make these videos since he had a date this is more proof he understands women
Women have brains
Society has programed them to not like Kent
Kent mentions women have always clowned him
It's a bit sad hearing Kent bullying stories again but I always had a sneaking feeling not all of his bullying was victimized. Again this theory gets a bit more backing in how he mentions a girl rejecting him was a bully for the sole fact she didn't date him. I really don't doubt at times he was legit bullied and sucks. Sometimes I think he either brought it on himself as cruel as it sounds with his actions. Not to justify it but he probably did some anti social things back in school like he does now, and kids being kids chose to bully him for his odd and inappropriate behaviors.
It always makes me chuckle women want a man for his money. How do they know if someone has money? My girl doesn't know how much I make. We aren't at a point where that matters yet I don't care how much she makes. For all I know she may make more than I, and if so god bless her because I wish people in my life wealth and happiness. It's really a sour grapes thing for him because he goes on to say anyone who's wealthy is not loved for whom they are and it's purely a good digging thing. Kent wants more money and we can't blame him for it but the idea rich people aren't happy because they are only in life for money is absurd.
Kent doesn't even seem to grasp what a relationship is probably because he's never had one or friends for that matter. The things he wants from a relationship are not the things a good healthy bond are. He wants casual dating life, but with a partner, it doesn't work like that as people whom are attached they go out to eat buy gifts etc but there's so much more, the real bond and joy of a relationship. This is lost to him, also aside being bought gifts all his things he wants to do are show her off to society be in public so people can see he's got a girl.
-in the dictionary it doesn't say confidence helps get women really was a high light of this video.
Kent is pretty down in the dumps in this video but so cocky it's very old Kent feeling. 8.0/10 rated.