Whelp, I officially hit my breaking point, after like two months of playing fairly regularly.
I try to play vanilla-ish because a lot of mods feel like cheating. Even so, I still use a few that ultimately make the experience a bit smoother, more balanced, and all around less shitty, while not deviating in any essential way. A couple I run are Pocket Change, Weaklings Give Xp, and Training Swords. Oh and 'Feed them to the dogs!' where your bonedogs will feast on downed enemies!
I hit a brick wall, and I'm done with this game.
I've been trying to take a squad of 10 through all of the games toughest battles. Four humans, two Shek, and four bonedogs (one is a wolf). The amount of grinding this game requires is unreal. Even with those helpful mods, AND with taking several dedicated training sessions, my guys are nowhere near ready. Dogs are all elder. My guys all have stats (strength, dexterity, melee attack/defense, and weapon proficiency) in the ~60 ballpark, some a little higher and some lower. My best character is in the mid-70s on most of those areas. We are decked out in Specialist grade gear with mostly Meitou weapons from the prior bosses we've defeated.
We got curb stomped by the fucking Southern Hive! We had been mowing down their patrol squads with little effort, but when it came to their platoon of elite royal guards, their stats are in the 70s+ and they just annihilated me. King wasn't much of a problem, I isolated him and eliminated him first (kidnapped him, repaired him, and released him in Blister Hill, where he fought paladins for a couple of days before they eventually took him down). The queen herself died in like two hits. But those guards just gave me so much trouble.
I'm sure I could grind some more and re-attack them, but I'm at this point where I've defeated every major enemy except a handfull and all of them seem way outside of my current grasp. There's this brick wall. I'm sure this is the point where you either have to have an elite squad of near 90s Chads, or a big 20+ platoon to proceed. It's just way too much work, hours of grinding...
I know I could probably cheese the battle with crossbows. And I did succeed in sneaking in and kidnapping the Queen. But I feel at this point with all that we've been through, including the Bug Master, we should be able to hold our own in a direct confrontation without gimmicks.
I don't think I could ever take on Cat-Lon and his army of thralls with a squad this small. Even if we had our stats in the 90s, I don't see it happening if we're struggling with this battle that is a fraction of that one's difficulty.