Irl Friend Trooned out

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Gecco

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friend of 12 years is deciding to troon out. Do I tell him he’ll never pass and leave or stay and try and keep things how they are? What do I do kiwis
 
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Rip the bandage off and be blunt. Have him take some therapy sessions to work out his issues (provided his therapist isn't an enabler of this behavior). He'll only harm himself further. If he's willing to talk about why he's doing it, be an ear but steer him away from going any further and to return to his former self.
 
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It’s probably best to just feel it out. If it completely changes who his personality it then you at least witnessed it and don’t have to feel guilty for tapping out. You made friends with him because of him not “her”. We all grow apart sometimes so if he can’t accept that that’s not on you and 10-1 you probably won’t be able to convince him that it’s a bad idea.


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m1ddl3m4rch said:
Your account is brand new so I'll assume you haven't seen this thread yet:

Thread 'Losing people to transgenderism support thread' https://kiwifarms.net/threads/losing-people-to-transgenderism-support-thread.85329/

And I'm sorry for your loss. Sucks.
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Ah thanks for the resource. I don’t really hate trans people since I know fuck all about them but he will never look like a girl at 24 and he will end up roping which is the last thing I want. I just want the best for him yknow
 
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Gecco said:
are there normal ones that don’t spend their time bitching about gender or are they all like that kek
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There are stories, the only trans people I ever meant used my family as away to get free drinks (they had a DUI) and complained about their family issues the entire time. Like I said it’s probably best to feel it out and if it becomes a problem bring it up to their attention. It’s always worth saying I’m not comfortable with this than to just let it happen.

I have had luck with normal gay people. There was plenty of gay people who I meant that were nice to me (no they were not hitting on me I was repulsive back then)
 
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eatler said:
There are stories, the only trans people I ever meant used my family as away to get free drinks (they had a DUI) and complained about their family issues the entire time. Like I said it’s probably best to feel it out and if it becomes a problem bring it up to their attention. It’s always worth saying I’m not comfortable with this than to just let it happen.

I have had luck with normal gay people. There was plenty of gay people who I meant that were nice to me (no they were not hitting on me I was repulsive back then)
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It’s a little difficult to just “treat someone as a woman” or whatever they want when we joke about burning jews and often say slurs around each other
 
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Gecco said:
Ah thanks for the resource. I don’t really hate trans people since I know fuck all about them but he will never look like a girl at 24 and he will end up roping which is the last thing I want. I just want the best for him yknow
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Start by telling him exactly this.
 
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Gecco said:
are there normal ones that don’t spend their time bitching about gender or are they all like that kek
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Well they're not spending their time in contentment, self-actualization, or happiness. They can't just quietly join life like the rest of us, because they're living a cosmetic surgery lifestyle. Thats all it is. Seriously.

Ask yourself if this was a normal person trying a new look of clothes and makeup, would you tolerate them calling you a bigot because you don't think they look good? Would you tolerate a woman who's had way too much plastic surgery demanding you call her beautiful, and she looks 23 now, or else she has the moral license to abuse you in public and call you a plastic-surgery-phobe? Why is the trans suite of surgeries treated any different. These are cosmetic changes caused by surgery or HRT. They can do what the want with their bodies sure but they haven't changed sex and I refuse to play along anymore. Don't be bullied by men in dresses or pooners like Ellen Page.
Gecco said:
It’s a little difficult to just “treat someone as a woman” or whatever they want when we joke about burning jews and often say slurs around each other
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  • I'm a Jew.
  • Grammy winning rap songs have the word nigger in them.
 
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Gecco said:
It’s a little difficult to just “treat someone as a woman” or whatever they want when we joke about burning jews and often say slurs around each other
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Again that’s all about toleration. I had a family member who tried to pull the they/them shit and I told them flat that I wouldn’t participate. There’s no resentment held between us and I think they’re coming back to reality.

I’m not saying you have to treat them like a woman just be flat about what your thoughts are and if they are cool with it great, if not then that sucks but you have your own ideals and don’t want to be bogged down with that. Hopefully he thinks it through more and realizes that it’s either brainwashing, wants an excuse to wear dresses or he’s gay. Then what you do from there is up to you. Most of the time thought people are just lost and may just be bouncing ideas off of you, so listen to pedophobes advice and just be honest.
 
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m1ddl3m4rch said:
Well they're not spending their time in contentment, self-actualization, or happiness. They can't just quietly join life like the rest of us, because they're living a cosmetic surgery lifestyle. Thats all it is. Seriously.

Ask yourself if this was a normal person trying a new look of clothes and makeup, would you tolerate them calling you a bigot because you don't think they look good? Would you tolerate a woman who's had way too much plastic surgery demanding you call her beautiful, and she looks 23 now, or else she has the moral license to abuse you in public and call you a plastic-surgery-phobe? Why is the trans suite of surgeries treated any different. These are cosmetic changes caused by surgery or HRT. They can do what the want with their bodies sure but they haven't changed sex and I refuse to play along anymore. Don't be bullied by men in dresses or pooners like Ellen Page.

  • I'm a Jew.
  • Grammy winning rap songs have the word nigger in them.
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yeah that’s true, I think i’d tell both they look bad regardless. Never really seen a pretty tranny but also i’ve seen a handful in my entire life so I really can’t speak for certain
 
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