Interpersonal Drama ; FlowersForSonichu's help requested

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Dear @Flowers For Sonichu

As a longstanding member of the Kiwi Farms I pride myself on getting along well with just about everybody here. I like to consider myself 'everybody's best friend'. Unfortunately it's been becoming clearer and clearer that somebody might have an interpersonal drama problem with me. This hurts my feelings but as a strong independent woman I feel like I'm capable of hashing it out like adults, but this person is simply refusing to engage with me in any meaningful or constructive manner.

In recent times, @KatsuKitty has become increasingly antagonistic towards me, to the extent of abusing his moderation tools to ban me from chat for infractions as simple and minor as unintentional spelling mistakes. This is absurd, but as everybody's best friend I am willing to grin and bear it.

Katsu banned me for a spelling mistake for the second time, then announced it would be a two-week ban. When this was overruled by Null who is actually in charge, Katsu became quite antagonistic towards me, comparing me to known forum trolls and somali muslims. I tried to explain to him my special relationship with Null but he refused to engage with me, instead just passive-aggressively complaining that my existence is unwanted and then leaving. I was perturbed as I'm sure you might expect, as I had considered myself everybody's best friend up till this moment. But in the interests of forum harmony I struggled to move past my hurt feelings and carry on, with a smile and cheerful word for everyone.

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Katsu then returned five or ten minutes later, to insult me more. He still wouldn't directly address me, despite my offer to hash it out like adults, or to arrange for a counselling session with you, our interpersonal drama manager. He didn't respond.

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While I'm loathe to do this without Katsu's express consent, he really leaves me no choice as he's refusing to address this apparent personal dislike of me in a direct way. As you can see I've attempted to smooth things over. I simply want to hash this out like adults and move along and go back to being everybody's best friend.

I don't understand why Katsu's so angry and antagonistic towards me, and he won't directly tell me or address me at all. I feel like I've tried to deal with this through all other means but now I really need outside help to mediate a couple's counselling and work out a way for Katsu to realise I'm actually still his best friend.

Please help @FlowerForSonichu you're my only hope.
 
I support your call for dialogue, for that is the foundation of the consent culture we frankly need a lot more of in the Kiwi Farms space.
 
I also get banned from chat for no reason, the last time it was because I was "annoying" which isn't against the rules and if it was then everyone should be banned from chat.

Less than 24 hours after being unbanned, I was banned for no reason, while having an appropriate conversation about the one time I tried to suck my own penis which was related because @gophergoober told me to suck a cock.

I'm starting to suspect that I'm being targeted because I'm transgender and I think I should have the opportunity to do some transgender awareness and tolerance training to prevent me from being banned from chat again for unexplainable reasons.
 
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@Dynastia ,

I think the best remedy for this issue is to emulate the behavior of another forum member who thought he was unjustly chatbanned by @KatsuKitty and spam a bunch of threads with accusations of Katsu and Null engaging in lewd sexual behavior including sharing a bottle of Coke O intermixed with each other's semen.

Best,

Flowers for Sonichu
 
@Dynastia ,

I think the best remedy for this issue is to emulate the behavior of another forum member who thought he was unjustly chatbanned by @KatsuKitty and spam a bunch of threads with accusations of Katsu and Null engaging in lewd sexual behavior including sharing a bottle of Coke O intermixed with each other's semen.

Best,

Flowers for Sonichu
Also don't forget to spam poorly drawn art of katsu and null having sex.
 
You could always do what I do and avoid chat entirely. I'm able to enjoy the benefits of never being banned from chat... at least as far as I know.
 
Also don't forget to spam poorly drawn art of katsu and null having sex.

Why do that when there was actually some well drawn porn of that in the porn thread?
 
You could always do what I do and avoid chat entirely. I'm able to enjoy the benefits of never being banned from chat... at least as far as I know.

I need a certain amount of attention each day or else I'll wither and die, being unbanned from chat makes it easier to get all my needed substinence.
 
I resolved this with the advice I gave earlier. Off to Spergatory we go
 
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