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Not sure how that'd work out. Can these job placement programs force someone to be conscripted into the military? That's "a job," albeit one that has more risks than your average one, and one that many people would oppose for various reasons. Similarly with sex work, maybe one could be forced to mop floors or count money in a brothel, but a government agency forcing people into prostitution would surely create an international outrage.

On the other hand, there are probably people in the "overly sex-positive" crowd who wouldn't understand what the big deal is there. I once received an ass-chewing from such persons for complaining about a couple of bawdy gentlemen bragging about their escapades with possibly underage third world prostitutes. I was told with a straight face that "There is nothing shameful about sex work" and "Human trafficking in the sex industry is just a myth created by religious groups to delegitimize sex work."
Ssshhhh, don't tell the overly sex-positive people about The Wayne Foundation. A pro-sex-worker, anti-trafficking charity would shake their worldviews too much.

With respect to force or coercion by job agencies, no one can physically force anyone into labor. ISH/Warped seems to not grasp the nuances of unreasonable terms governing unemployment benefits versus what is legally considered employment for tax purposes. IIRC, EU countries with legal sex trades recognize such work when determining taxes and government benefits but cannot cut off unemployment benefits if recipients refuse to take such jobs. Reasonable person principle and all that.
 
Ssshhhh, don't tell the overly sex-positive people about The Wayne Foundation. A pro-sex-worker, anti-trafficking charity would shake their worldviews too much.

If they're defending trafficking, what they really are is slavery-positive and rape-positive.
 
On the other hand, there are probably people in the "overly sex-positive" crowd who wouldn't understand what the big deal is there. I once received an ass-chewing from such persons for complaining about a couple of bawdy gentlemen bragging about their escapades with possibly underage third world prostitutes. I was told with a straight face that "There is nothing shameful about sex work" and "Human trafficking in the sex industry is just a myth created by religious groups to delegitimize sex work."
Whhhaaaaaaatttttt?

Just.... just what?

warped said:
The media has so poisoned the perception of science that people will say stupid things like “oh I’ll bet this is actually explained by this other thing [really obvious confounding variable]”, “oh no, sigh sigh, this study is so bigoted, that’s not a real connection, it can all be explained by [obvious situation]”. As if those things are something we don’t teach high school students to notice as potential problems in their designs.

People actually believe that there’s no way to isolate variables and rule out obvious covariates. And that the existence of bigotry rules out anything else related to the issue.
........wut?
 
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It would have been helpful if she at the very least provided a link or some backstory to whatever prompted that post.

As a stand alone blog entry, it just doesn't work. Not that it would make much sense even with any further clarification about whatever set her off this time.
 
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Well warped is complaining about something.

She was posting on her tumblr about getting into being a beta for fanfic writers. As laughable as it is I felt that was a positive development; it's an activity that doesn't involve screeching at her Mum

Edit: speaking of screeching at her Mum she got into some quarrel over a broken TV if you dig enough into her tumblr

warped said:
the power blew out on the tv in the middle of the superbowl here. this stupid cunt starts screeching and bitching about how the new tv must have used too much power–again, the previous tv was a 36″ CRT, which uses at least 164W. This one uses less than 88. She’s that stupid.

In further adventures of abusive stupidity, she won’t listen when I tell her to check the circuit breaker, She won’t listen when I tell her to unplug and replug the cable box and tv, she screams that she doesn’t know what plug that is, she screams that I didn’t tell her to only try turning on the tv and not the cable box–which was already on, gee golly it’s not like that’s not obvious enough–she doesn’t listen and accuses me of breaking it when i use the remote for the tv to power it on, accuses me of breaking it when i look for the physical power button on the goddamn tv to use, and now is too fucking stupid to follow the direction she was given that she herself wrote down about how to sue the fucking remote.

she’s going to call the cable company about THE PHYSICAL TELEVISION not turning on. she’s this goddamn stupid.

all the time bitching at me about how I DON’T HELP. WHILE SCREAMING AT ME THAT NOTHING I DO WILL WORK. AND REFUSING TO DO ANYTHING I TELL HER.

she’s going to ruin a thousand dollar television because she’s too abusive and stupid to listen. she’d rather go without television for days, when she’s never turned it off, than listen to me. because she’s that narcissistic that she won’t listen to a disabled person. that’s how much she hates me.

edit: she called the fucking support people. guess what they told her to do.

and they’re going to pay the geek squad to come set the fucking thing up. again. because i can’t possibly be trusted to put a fucking plug into a wall. nooooo, i’d break it. these stupid fucks can’t work google or read directions printed in a manual, but I’M TOO STUPID TO THINK TO PLUG A FUCKING JACK INTO A LABELED OUTLET.

omg they’re going to wait half a month for an “appointment” LOL how much do they hate me? thousands of dollars worth, and deliberately cutting off their own entertainment for weeks, that’s your price tag
Sauce
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warped said:
I really hate that people use assault and rape interchangeably. Assholes nitpick it & go "oh but YOU weren't RAPED"

sauce

warped said:
start calling condoms “birth control, for men”

if we can’t have sex without a sin tax then neither can they
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warped said:
my jackass brother just called at 10pm here and demanded, DEMANDED, that my parents go buy him super glue. he won’t go buy it himself. he won’t take a half-used bottle. it must be now and it must be new.

so these people, notorious for “forgetting” to pick up my medication (that is free) for days at a time, are now running out to do their violent drug using son’s bidding immediately.

fuck me, right?

warped said:
a lot of tumblr is about nuance and context. “this is about issue X, not Y, so don’t bring that up here”, “if it’s not about you then don’t make it about you”.

but then people say dumbass stuff like “oh this makes erroneous assumptions”. no, you twat, it’s talking about a completely different situation and addressing the very common issues that come up there. these people would rather score IQ points for “seeing it from a new angle” and “finding the flaw” than acknowledging they’re being disingenuous just like the people they “shut down”

warped said:
games for xbox360?
I need games recommendations for the Xbox360. I like platformers, puzzle games, rpgs, and stuff with a story. I also need some “scary” ones, but scary on the level of Alan Wake and not ones that use a mental patient trope. I suck at combat, so I need easy stuff or stuff that has a easy/story-only mode.

I have Bioshock, the mass effects, Fez, N+, and Braid.

warped said:
I don’t write fanfiction, so I’m not familiar with the M.O. I’ve run into a lot of fics that could be a good story if only they had an editor. Can I just edit people’s fics and post the edit, assuming I give credit? Like as a fanfic of a fanfic? Or is that rude?

Is that beta’ing?

FUN!
 
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Well, at least she's doing doing something besides assaulting her parents.
 
warped said:
the power blew out on the tv in the middle of the superbowl here. this stupid cunt starts screeching and bitching about how the new tv must have used too much power–again, the previous tv was a 36″ CRT, which uses at least 164W. This one uses less than 88. She’s that stupid.

In further adventures of abusive stupidity, she won’t listen when I tell her to check the circuit breaker, She won’t listen when I tell her to unplug and replug the cable box and tv, she screams that she doesn’t know what plug that is, she screams that I didn’t tell her to only try turning on the tv and not the cable box–which was already on, gee golly it’s not like that’s not obvious enough–she doesn’t listen and accuses me of breaking it when i use the remote for the tv to power it on, accuses me of breaking it when i look for the physical power button on the goddamn tv to use, and now is too fucking stupid to follow the direction she was given that she herself wrote down about how to sue the fucking remote.

she’s going to call the cable company about THE PHYSICAL TELEVISION not turning on. she’s this goddamn stupid.

all the time bitching at me about how I DON’T HELP. WHILE SCREAMING AT ME THAT NOTHING I DO WILL WORK. AND REFUSING TO DO ANYTHING I TELL HER.

she’s going to ruin a thousand dollar television because she’s too abusive and stupid to listen. she’d rather go without television for days, when she’s never turned it off, than listen to me. because she’s that narcissistic that she won’t listen to a disabled person. that’s how much she hates me.

edit: she called the fucking support people. guess what they told her to do.

and they’re going to pay the geek squad to come set the fucking thing up. again. because i can’t possibly be trusted to put a fucking plug into a wall. nooooo, i’d break it. these stupid fucks can’t work google or read directions printed in a manual, but I’M TOO STUPID TO THINK TO PLUG A FUCKING JACK INTO A LABELED OUTLET.

omg they’re going to wait half a month for an “appointment” LOL how much do they hate me? thousands of dollars worth, and deliberately cutting off their own entertainment for weeks, that’s your price tag

I honestly have to agree with ISH about her parents being dumb if they called Weak Squad over a tripping circuit breaker. It's probably not the TV, in which case those clowns aren't going to try to fix electrical wiring, and if it IS the TV, the clowns dismantling it will just make things worse. OTOH I'd really like to see her mom try to sue a remote control.
 
You know, we've been siding with her parents, but maybe this is one of those situations where both sides are utterly reprehensible. Maybe she picked up being an entitled megabitch from her family.
 
You know, we've been siding with her parents, but maybe this is one of those situations where both sides are utterly reprehensible.
It's likely too late to tell now. Even if her parents started off normal, they've probably been driven halfway insane by their hellion daughter at this point.
 
Possibly. Either way the drama continues
warped said:
my stupid parents are throwing a shit fit because the geek squad people won’t “set up” skype on the smart tv. jesus christ. geek squad is literally not allowed to because that requires asking for personal password info. and they explained that, AND that all my jackass parents have to do is type in their goddamn password. and that it won’t work anyway until they get the expensive camera to work with the tv–and there is no camera made for it yet. they’re literally this stupid and this nasty. fucking children.

and they won’t let me do it because they hate me that much. lol.

Mother called me from the store to yell at me because they don’t have something they were supposed to have. What the fuck has to be so wrong with her that I’m the one she calls to bitch at, while she’s standing in the damn store where she can just ask THEM where stupid thing is? I don’t know where they keep things. I don’t know their inventory. And according to her own assessment of me, I’m too fucking stupid to type in a password or realize that the television is broken. No, we all know what’s wrong, and the answer is that they do this shit deliberately. That’s abuse.

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Also:
warped said:
I’m still so pissed off over those privileged assholes calling themselves experts on what all us poor stupid disabled people should need from a system designed to screw us over. I’m real glad it’s working out peachy for you shots, how about you pull your heads out your asses and realize the rest of us are still getting screwed.

They bitched about how hard access is, they bitched about how ugly the harassment over being called fakers is, about how big a problem fakers are to actual disabled people.

And then they turn right around and spit Republican bile about how privatisation and lack of insurance coverage is FREEDOM, about how no none of their earlier complaints were real, that anyone who can’t train their own dog just has to suck it–right after bitching that people alleging fakery should have to go through the “intense and difficult training” of a service dog. Which is it, that you want insurance coverage, that this is a problem, that training is hard, or that you’re full of bullshit spewing whatever comes to mind regardless of reason and logic? That you’ll screw over anyone in your way regardless of your professed ethics about freedom and access? Fuck us if we aren’t exactly like your privileged ass.

I should have known they were idiots when they said they couldn’t tell that obviously fake “federal registration” sites are fake. Nobody who’s fallen for the scam is going to be working to get rid of it.

Good job telling the world just how easy it is to take a service dog. That they’re all right, that there’s no way to tell what’s legitimate–because for you idiots, you don’t have to have proof. Only I do.

But you’re not upset about that, because my kind of disabled people are the fakers in your eyes. Despite that I’m the one with the proof, and you aren’t. That I’m the one who suffers because of you, and you literally just laughed at me and said that’s how it ought to be.

She also got into some argument on her tumblr over her service dog with someone which is probably what the above is about. Should that be included?
 
She also got into some argument on her tumblr over her service dog with someone which is probably what the above is about. Should that be included?

Probably. This also might be because of the Today Show running an article about how easy it was to get a 'therapy animal' certificate. Literally just $150 and an online questionnaire later and they now are the proud owner of a therapy animal signed by a licensed therapist. They even passed airport security and had their animal sit in the airplane seat next to them for the flight.

As for her post about groceries, she likely got upset because Warped sent mom out on a wild goose chase to the grocery store, asked her to pick up some non-existent or discontinued item (like Count Chocula cereal), and started screaming that her mom's a cunt when mom calls and says they're out of it.

Protip: If Warped says something from her parents is abusive, she's probably said and done far worse.
 
Okey dokey.

Warped is in bold. Tumblr's setup is confusing for me so apologies in advance if I confused who said what.

warped vs tumblr said:
The “concern” about “fake” service dogs
warped vs tumblr said:
warpedellipsis:

servicedoodle:

warpedellipsis:

fatbodypolitics:

One of the most common questions I’ve gotten since beginning the process of getting a service dog is how someone can tell if a service dog is fake. I’ve decided that from now on I’m going to ignore their question to rant about how the illogical fear over people having fake service dogs allows for everyone to ignore the fucking hellscape that is trying to navigate the social, cultural and legal clusterfuck that is having a service dog to help mitigate a disability.

Between having to fight just to bring Itty home October of 2014, moving after my downstairs neighbor was unsafe, dealing with my current landlord trying to ban us from certain public spaces in our building and now having to go through my campus legal department to have Itty with me on campus WHO THE FUCK would go through all that just to have their pet dog with them for funsies?!? I mean really.

It is super easy to have a fake service dog in a public space like a grocery store.

It is impossible to have one on a campus or in any living situation that isn’t owning a suburban home. It is impossible to take one to your medical appointments, god forbid into an actual hospital. It’s impossible to get one and train one, if you can’t afford it or can’t train it yourself.

People see the grocery store and never the rest of it. People think they can take their untrained, badly behaving, asshole piss on everything dogs with them everywhere easy because they see only the grocery store. They never see the rest of it, and they don’t care to learn. They just care to stick their noses where it doesn’t belong and to exploit whatever they can.

You know what the only legal requirement is to have a service dog, and to call it that, in the US? A letter from your doctor affirming your disability and that the dog helps mitigate it. That’s it. That’s all you need to fly with it, too. Any real disabled person knows that. So if you see someone handing over one of those “federal organization” badges, insisting that it’s registered with the government, that’s a fake dog. Nobody who actually needs help thinks that paying a scammer’s fee magically transforms their pet into a trained dog. A lot of fake “emotional support animal” owners try this so they don’t have to fly cargo.

I’d like the system reformed, personally. A doctor’s letter is great and all, but nobody can carry that on them at all times–and that’s the other thing about fake animals: because we only need a doctor’s approval, that means asking for proof constitutes forcing us to reveal private medical info to any stranger who asks, so it’s not legal to ask for proof. Which is as it should be.

BUT, if there was such a thing as sending in that letter and the government giving you an ID card for it, without any info other than a federal ID and that you have a service dog, then that private info problem wouldn’t exist, and neither would “fake” dogs. It would still be goddamn rude to question someone and force them to produce the ID at your nosy demand, but it would fix the issue of people being able to take their fake dogs to easy places unquestioned. And it would also preserve the system that lets us train our own dogs as we need to, without screwing with access and money issues. And since we’re not being paid any benefits, there’d be no interference from “having to prove you’re disabled enough” or other bullshit delays like there is with Medicaid and social security. We’d still be fucked for coverage by insurance companies, but at least assholes would leave us alone when we’re trying to function.


IDs are not the solution. Service dogs are medical equipment. I don’t need to send a doctor note to the government to get an ID to prove my wheelchair is legit in public. And there’s no way I’d send a letter for the government to get an ID for my dog.

Plus a letter proves your need for a service dog but does not prove your dog is a service dog. Doctors are not dog trainers, and cannot evaluate what a dog does for you. Proper training is what makes a dog a service dog, not a doctor’s note. Which means the government would have to evaluate the dogs to provide ID. And that’s a whole other can of worms.

The whole idea of an ID system wouldn’t work. For instance, let’s say your system existed. I lose my dog ID. Am I not allowed to go in public until I find it? Do I have to stay home until they mail me a new one?

And what if I don’t have a doctor? If I needed a doctor’s note for my dog, I couldn’t produce one. Thankfully there’s no reason I would need to, even to fly. But I can’t afford a doctor and so many people are in the same boat.

The whole point of the way SD laws are currently written (no proof, no vest/harness requirement) is to give disabled people more freedom. An ID system takes our freedom away. It limits access to needed medical equipment.

I also don’t like the idea that everyone with those IDs/certificates from the internet is faking. They may be new handlers, they may be misinformed. There’s a lot of bad information out there perpetuated by the scam companies, so they can keep making money. When I was a new handler I had a “registered” service dog. Was she fake? No she was well trained and I am disabled. I was simply misinformed.

Rather than accusing me of faking a more experienced handler politely educated me on the whole registration thing and why it’s hurts SDs and such. And that was very helpful to me. Another group of people saw my mistake and accused me of faking my dog and my disability. That was not helpful.

Most, if not all, of those “registered” dogs are going to be fake.

Dogs and wheelchairs are not the same thing. Regular people can’t take their dogs out in public anywhere they want, but you can take a wheelchair anywhere. It’s not about faking, it’s about necessary access. Until dogs are allowed everywhere, which will never happen for obvious reasons, there must be a system to allow for access. Either you put up with being harassed or you get a system in place to stop that. Same reason you need an ID to be on the grounds of a members-only club–you’re not just going to let anyone in on a trust system. You need proof in order to get things that not everyone gets to have.

People drive without their license. It would work the same way as that–if you get “pulled over”, you can bring it back later or they can look it up.

All of this has precedent and already exists. Not even just in concept, but literally for service animals. Every other country already does this kind of thing. They even go one farther–they require that you get your dogs from certified groups. That’s both an ID system and training inspection in one go. But because the USA doesn’t have free medical care and so citizens don’t have the money for that, it would be bad to require that part in this country.

I didn’t say an ID system was perfect. It doesn’t solve a lot of issues. But it does solve fakers trying to take their pets with them on errands and onto planes. It does solve a lot of the harassment and accusations against people who do need their dogs. It still allows people to train their dog themselves and not against arbitrary rules. It leaves everything else in place.

You already can’t go out in public or fly with a dog without a doctor’s note. Just because airport gate agents are misinformed and lazy doesn’t make the laws inapplicable. If you do, you can be fined–regular people can’t ask for proof, but I’m pretty sure cops can. If you don’t have it, and you protest accommodations without that proof, you will be accused of faking and your complaint thrown out of court. You can’t get housing accommodations without proof. Everything that disability laws work for is undermined, because you look like a faker trying to get “perks”.

If you can’t afford a doctor, then you can’t afford a dog either. You don’t get to make them suffer without care or without food just because you can suffer going without. They don’t get to make that choice and you don’t get to force that onto them. Vets, shots, food, and grooming isn’t cheap. Neither is living in a cold area, especially if you use public transportation–dogs get frostbite and need winter protection too. Living in the broken US healthcare system sucks, but that’s reality.

People who should be on disability and medicaid aren’t either because you’re forced to work to stay alive, but if you’re working then “obviously” you’re not disabled, so you can’t get on disability, so you can’t stop working so you can’t get on disability, etc. People like that can’t afford a doctor to prove they’re disabled either. That sucks, and the system needs to change, but as it stands the government can’t just take people’s word for it that they’re disabled and dole out payments. You need proof in order to get things that not everyone gets.

The laws aren’t written to allow for freedom. They’re written that way because the government doesn’t want to set up the system that would give us access to dogs like every other country does, because that would mean acknowledging that yes they are necessary and yes they should be covered by insurance. The current system lets them off the hook for providing that and allows them maximum ability to screw us over. Any steps to make service animals covered will necessarily require verification/ID/oversight, just like every other country.

OHHH, @servicedoodle is a jackass, that’s the problem. Preach about acceptance and tolerance and gentle teaching then fucking block me when I try to have a goddamn conversation about why I disagree.

I’m going to take this apart bit by bit because you basically have no clue what you’re on about. The only time a service dog handler must show a note is if it’s a psychiatric service dog because the DOT lumps PSDs in with ESAs. So no, you don’t always need a note to fly, just with PSDs.

So much for universal right and equal access, yea? I guess those of us with a PSD or ESA get separate but equal service. IDs for us but not for you people. Us, because there’s no way to tell we’re disabled–you already have ID in the form of “looking like it”. We’re the fakers, we’re the ones you can’t believe on our word, unlike you assholes. Disability and medical equipment isn’t all the same. Not the same as a wheelchair now, is it? No comment now, huh?

Some people feel it works, others feel it restricts access. Thankfully we currently do not have a system like that, and that’s what really matters.

Aww, how kind of you to recognize that there’s merit to both sides—

You have a lot of legal facts wrong, but don’t worry! I have legal sources for you, so you can understand the laws.

And then you go on to get pretentious and superior about nothing I actually claimed and nasty about things I didn’t get wrong.

If you’re too poor to afford a doctor, then no, you probably can’t afford to get a service dog. But if you already have one then you can of course maintain one.

So, you agree with me, and then turn right round and say the opposite. Adopting a dog isn’t expensive. Unless you’re going to get a pure breed from a breeder or one from a service trainer group, but that’s not what we’re talking about here. Vet bills are expensive.

And if you actually knew what you were bitching at me about, you wouldn’t contradict yourself here–you don’t need a specialist’s note. You need a DOCTOR’s note, from someone who is treating you. Anyone treating you will do. But you didn’t bother looking into that, because you literally can’t do research. You couldn’t figure out that sixteen websites claiming to register your dog without ever examining it are scams, not to mention the basic googling that would have told you different.


What you would need a specialist’s note for is for a PSD, because nobody but the specialists can know about those conditions. You don’t need a specialist’s note for a mobility service dog. You don’t need one for fetching items due to arthritis. But again, you don’t give a damn about those of us on the second tier. Fakers and not real disabilities, remember?

Actually, they were. [written to allow freedom]

According to whom and by what standard? Which parts? You got snotty when I pointed out how much of a lie that is. You made yourself look worse, AND revealed that you do support an ID system–just not for YOUR disability. Confirm that by blocking the person you classify as second class.

Ableism in the disability community, it exist. Prejudice against your own people. It’s amazing how narrow people can make their identities just so they can claim to bigoted society that they’re the BETTER disabled people, not like those ACTUAL fakers.

Airplanes is the next thing that was inaccurate in your post. To fly “(1) Carriers shall accept as evidence that an animal is a service animal identification cards, other written documentation, presence of harnesses or markings on harnesses, tags, or the credible verbal assurances of the qualified individual with a disability using the animal. ” (source)

Which means that yes, you can show a doctor’s note, that’s fine. But they MUST ACCEPT “credible verbal assurances” which means they must accept you at your word. The only time a service dog handler must show a note is if it’s a psychiatric service dog because the DOT lumps PSDs in with ESAs. So no, you don’t always need a note to fly, just with PSDs.

Not to mention that you literally just proved how easy it is to fake a service dog, and that it’s YOUR KIND who can and do get away with it. ALL WHILE MY KIND GET BLAMED FOR IT, exactly because of YOUR attitude that WE are the fakers.

You have no fucking idea what you’re talking about. How nice for you that nobody questions YOU. And look what happens when somebody–ME–finally did.

I get to suffer because of YOUR uppity ignorance and YOUR continued actions. If there was a real ID law, this wouldn’t happen, because nobody could call anyone a faker–because none of the bullshit you’re allowed to do on this goddamn exploitable honor system could happen anymore. WHy people continue to insist that an honor system is best for people who are accused of having no honor is just impossible to understand. People will continue exploiting it and continue feeding the discrimination because they can–because the people who do that don’t suffer for it. The people who would benefit from ending it don’t matter to anyone enough to be worth helping.


I’m done and won’t be responding again. Hopefully you now have a better understanding of the laws that exist to help disabled people.

I am disabled, and I have a dog, you goddamn twat. Here YOU are calling ME a faker. So much for you fucking honor system and your Disability Radar. So much for RESPECT. You’re too self righteous to respectfully disagree with basic reason, let alone someone you consider second class.

Or did you not even bother to read, much less think about, what I said? That would explain a lot, like the fact that you repeatedly missed that I referred to “disabled people” as “we”. Still demonstrates how uppity and dense you are, though.

And yet you’re still gonna cling to your stupid belief
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There's a big reason behind her getting upset and defensive about someone literally telling her disability laws guys...

She's not disabled.
 
Uh-oh. Looks like trouble in paradise.

warped said:
prejudice doesn’t exist because that’s invalidating people’s very personal and very difficult evaluations of themselves. don’t be a bad feminist and claim bigotry exists, much less that *gasp* REAL PEOPLE WITH REAL FEELINGS are bigots

/the discourse

  • At first I was like "LOLWUT" wondering what she was on about now, or if she just copypasted someone's rant onto her own instead of faving. Then there was this;
warped vs tumblr round 2 said:
brutereason:

warpedellipsis:

brutereason:

[CN body image/dysmorphia]


Last week in my yoga class, there was a moment when the teacher said to place our feet hips’-width apart for a pose, and then she turned around and was like, “All of you need to move your feet further in. Your hips aren’t that wide.” And I was like, oh my god, none of us have an accurate perception of how much space our bodies take up. I guess I thought I was past this because I’m all cool with my body now and regularly show it off naked to strangers and whatever, but no, I’m not. My hips aren’t that wide, and my thighs probably aren’t that thick, and my stomach probably isn’t that round. Maybe I accepted a different version of my body than the one I actually have.

Or you just have really shitty spacial perception. IF your neutral estimation of things like “how many people would fit in here”, “how many cups fits in there”, “how long a distance is that”, is also way off, then at least some of that is bad perception. I literally know my own measurements, but my spacial perception is so awful that i cannot reliably guess whether a thing will fit me without knowing its sizing.

Seriously, how often do we have to actually use this sense? Not much. Like any other skill, of course it’s going to suck.


Actually, I’m pretty damn good at that when it’s not interacting with body image issues, but thanks for the invalidation.

jfc. i literally said if these other things are true, then there’s a possible alternate explanation. i didn’t say you’re a jackass for thinking it had to be body image. i didn’t say no, it’s not possible that it’s body image at all.

it’s impossible to have a goddamn conversation on this website because everything is fucking “invalidation”.

look how invalidating you are to me!!! i guess my evaluation of my own issues being bad spacial skills is just internal misogyny, is that it??? i must hate myself the same way i hate you, because that’s what all invalidation is!!!

good job at shutting down the conversation!!! look who’s got a complex now!!


/the discourse

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oh look, you made it worse


I am not “this website.” I am a person. (I barely spend any time on this website except to respond to people responding to my posts.) I am a person who has boundaries and feelings. Your response to a really, REALLY personal and painful post came across as glib and dismissive (don’t refer to people’s abilities as “shitty” for starters) and I called that out. Since you don’t seem to care how you come across to people and how you make them feel, I’ve got no time or desire to deal with you, so you’re blocked now.

….the only explanation is that you can’t read. and apparently can’t get that you acted out every single stereotype. how is it that people can call “white people” racist and not have a problem with THAT generalization, and yet treating tumblr users who literally exemplify every toxic tumblr stereotype isn’t allowable?? oh, it’s because the “oppressed” can act as shitty as they want and can’t possibly be stereotypes or be acting nasty, while every other person on the planet is wrong by default.

i guess i’m not a person with feelings or boundaries, and that sharing my “personal and painful” experiences which you just were glib and dismissive about is JUST OKAY.

ya know, just CALLING THAT OUT. since you don’t seem to care how you come across to people and how you make them feel, i’ve got no time or desire to deal with you, so you’re blocked now. buh bye toxic “feminist”. can’t say i’m crying over having lost a follower.

read a book or two on how feminism and “feeling unsafe” has been used to abuse people. you’re textbook
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...And yet, I still ask "LOLWUT?"

http://warpedellipsis.tumblr.com/
 
Has anybody archived her tumblr lately? I wouldn't want all of her recent...material...to get lost in the ether should she decide to go on a DELETE EVERYTHING spree. ;)
 
I have a grabs of a lot of her more recent posts. There are a lot of discussions though I didn't know if they were relevant. There are probably more I missed in the older posts. And this isn't including her other blog. Should I continue digging, or if anyone else wants to...?

Anyways, here's a new post:

warped said:
odd that we can scream about how easy it is to fake blubber and make up a rape story, but we refuse to acknowledge how easy it is to fake outrage and make up a lie to get out of punishment–shit that we’ve all done since we were toddlers.

EDIT: I'm wondering what sort of "punishment" she wants. She rarely mentions the guy who boobed grabbed her save for a few of her earlier blog posts. And after that, her goal is to get a magical $300, 000. But now....?

How much hatred does she feel about that particular guy? Would she be willing to find a way to get him in a max security prison? Would she feel he needs the chair? Is it all about the money? Does she even care about the guy at all now?
 
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And warped again:

warped said:
The other off thing about “christian religious exemption clauses” is that they’re underhandedly claiming that the only people who have a conscience, who have morality, are christians. Nobody else has any morality; everyone else dumbly follows the law as they’re told without thinking about it because they’re not capable of it. The only people capable of ethics–and of critiquing the laws made–are christians. Nobody else is allowed civil disobedience, much less a get out of jail free card.
Never had a get-out-of-jail free card. No idea if she's babbling about some US thing.

Edit: some atheists are moral (and some are immoral) I get that.

But can someone please enlighten me how to get this "free thinker" to not hit her Mom, get a job and move out and not be a screeching harpy?

More of warped:

warped said:
my abusive asshole mother just cried to gaga’s performance

you know, the woman who screams at me that i lied about it and that i don’t have ptsd and that i’m a whore and that i deserved it, that the school and my terrorist roommates did nothing wrong

cried over “till it happens to you”.

enjoy the hypocrisy of that. people who make all the right moves in public will still fuck you over once no one else is there to corroborate the abuse

Don't question if she legit has PTSD otherwise you're a hypocrite if you don't want to be raped.

Got it.
 
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Somebody who wasn't entirely self-obsessed and self-righteous, who didn't treat every other person she's ever met as nothing but bit-part players in the tragedy of her life, might have wondered on seeing something like that if their mom was okay. Warped, of course, is completely incapable of seeing beyond the end of her own nose and would far rather carry on making absolutely fucking everything about her and the fact she had her boob groped that one time. Which is, of course, her own entirely unique cross to bear and one absolutely nobody else on the face of the planet could comprehend, still less actually have experienced.
 
Nicole said:
you know, the woman who screams at me that i lied about it and that i don’t have ptsd and that i’m a whore and that i deserved it, that the school and my terrorist roommates did nothing wrong

It's very telling that her own family thinks she either made it all up, or she blew something insignificant way out of proportion. And I'm sure Nicole isn't helping her case any by sitting behind her computer all day, with her service dog on her lap, ranting and raving about the ills of society online in between bouts of arguing with, and even striking her mother. Her parents and brother do sometimes sound like they're real pieces of work, too, but they would probably handle adversity much better than Nicole would.
 
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