The short and simple answer is, just don't fucking let them take over. By that, I mean stick with good old fashioned, LOCAL communities and values. I'm not saying you need to go full dirty Amish, but the troon menace natural habitat for grooming and control is the online space, so stick to local, community and family focused events. Cancel culture only works if you let them cancel you. If you have social media or anything, keep it restricted to local groups of like-minded people who you know. Stay away from places like Tumblr and pReddit, and for the love of God, unless they're under strict supervision,
KEEP YOUR KIDS OFF THE GODDAMN INTERNET! The minute that
ANY of that faggotry starts to creep in, you nip it in the bud right off the bat. Fuck their feelings and pronouns. There is no circumstance where you can excuse even the smallest bit of their perverted ideology. No "pride" celebrations on your FB page or internet forum. No allowance for a "friendly discussion" about "alternative lifestyle choices" in a church, school, or youth group. No handwaving away your unease about the 6'5 bearded ogre who is getting increasingly comfortable with makeup, unusual clothing choices, and SJW topics in the workplace. You give them even an inch, and they'll literally
TAKE OVER AN ENTIRE FUCKING COUNTRY.
This is the way. Pretend you're a well-meaning progressive who, by some extraordinary circumstance, hasn't been online in fifteen years. There is NO better way to twist the knife in a tranny's side than "ohmygoddd I'm so glad you feel able to express yourself as a MAN!!", because nobody can call you out for it if you feign ignorance well enough. Make sure to remind them how stunning and brave they are at every opportunity.
I like the alternative version of this where you compliment some SJW activist type and say that she's "OMG Soooo beautiful, you look just like/remind me of that
BEAUTIFUL GODDESS Lizzo!!!

" Their brain literally short-circuits, because they know the truth, that she's a 300lb, hulking she-boon, yet they can't lash out, because of "muh' body positivity". The more naive and fawning you act, the more pissed off they'll get.