Anyone have tips for getting into cooking? I want to like to cook but for whatever reason when I try to cook with my parents I get overwhelmed and really anxious.
It's reasonable for the person cooking to be alone in the kitchen when they cook, assuming you don't have a shared kitchen and living space like in a small apartment.
It's good to learn a few basic recipes to make say, four everyday dinners, one slightly more special one, and one pretty easy but tasty dessert or cake. You want that confidence of being able to make dinner.
But after that, what you want is the knowledge base to feel confident freestyling it. The knowledge base of how to prepare shit and what generally 'goes with' what is the difference between having recipes you can follow, and being able to look into the fridge, freezer, cupboards etc and make dinner out of what you have. That last skill is the one that saves you time and money.
I would like to recommend you a few YT channels. To contextualise, I have to this day never been allowed to touch any piece of cooking equipment in the homes of my family of origin. Everything I learnt about cooking I learnt about TV shows and didn't get to practice a fucking thing until I was a young adult living with my nigel. I am considered very good at it now. The knowledge base is the first thing to gather; the actual practice is not hard as long as you can remember some pretty simple instructions. Pastry is the shit with complicated instructions and skills and you don't need to know how to scratch make a croquembouche. (If you do learn, we want photos in this thread ok and we will glaze you like a dozen donuts).
For basic "prep and shove it in the slow cooker" meals, take a look at the homesteading channels with big meal prep videos. I don't fancy about half of the stuff they make, but you might, and it helps you think about what you can put an investment of time and money into, upfront, that will save you time and money on making dinner for a few weeks. I don't exclusively meal prep and batchcook, but I always have a few dozen meals like that on hand in the freezer for when we are busy and I seriously cannot be assed to cook for an hour before the kids can have dinner. You get sick, you get tired; take out some insurance against having to cook from scratch every fucking night.
My favourite cooking channel of all the ones I watch is That Guy Can Cook, because he actually teaches you cooking skills rather than just runs you through a recipe. He's entertaining so I think you will enjoy that, and he's got years worth of videos so get stuck in there.
Every SE Asian cooking channel is aesthetic porn only. Do not bother unless you like aesthetics; you are not going to cook any of that shit or bake 1000 macarons.
There's plenty of videos about "so many meals on a budget" that you should watch. You will not want to make them all, and some of them you will want to make but fancy up a little or just add something better ingredients-wise. The point though is that they are low cost stuff to try out whilst you're learning and also to get you thinking about what you can try for yourself. They will also teach you the crucial budget skill that most meals can stand to have some canned beans or canned lentils added for more protein and bulk for comparatively pennies.