Findom - E-prostitution without the sex

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DykesDykesChina said:
Some sexual kinks are... difficult to understand.
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I think the fantasy is like mind games type of shit. The idea is power games, the person has power over you, you want to make them happy, normal dom shit, but I think at least with normal dom shit, it's still, kind of a two-way street? Its not about getting nothing in return, or getting ignored or treated like shit necessarily.

Dr. Boe Jangles Esq. said:
You'll never see me take this position again, but as a way of making money, I'm actually pretty firmly against this.
Being a con artist is one thing. This is the kind of thing that creates fucking loveshies and ends with some obsessive hunting you down and eating your parents.
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I feel a little bad for the guys into this in the same way you feel bad for people who are retarded. In a way, its heartbreaking. It's sad. I posted about it once before, there was a "weirdest kink" thread. But theyre the ultra-undesirable men, too, the type of guy who ruins a girl's day just by existing when the girl has to deal with them or be around them even for a while. You arent gonna findany real shred or glint of sympathetic feelings for these guys, in a lot of ways the women are victims.
 
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DuckSucker said:
Shit's easy to get into. The thing is a lot of people say that. But you can really abuse these guys,you just gotta use like a P O Box and shit like that. Like being on here, dont give them any of your real information.

Because its so easy to make money off of pathetic desperate loser men though, they dont have any--like all the C4S sex work stuff the big killer there is piracy.
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A PO Box requires waiting for mail and waiting for mail means you don't know if the guy actually sent anything. Or what he sent, for that matter. Not to mention the fact that the men who do this do it when they're horny, there's no appeal to them if they have to wait 3-4 business days for the thing to arrive and for the domme to know they aren't bullshitting.
 
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DuckSucker said:
I think the fantasy is like mind games type of shit. The idea is power games, the person has power over you, you want to make them happy, normal dom shit, but I think at least with normal dom shit, it's still, kind of a two-way street? Its not about getting nothing in return, or getting ignored or treated like shit necessarily.


I feel a little bad for the guys into this in the same way you feel bad for people who are exceptional. In a way, its heartbreaking. It's sad. I posted about it once before, there was a "weirdest kink" thread. But theyre the ultra-undesirable men, too, the type of guy who ruins a girl's day just by existing when the girl has to deal with them or be around them even for a while. You arent gonna findany real shred or glint of sympathetic feelings for these guys, in a lot of ways the women are the victims.
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It's almost like a symbiosis between 2 kinds of longing and need. The right-wing part of me wants to to call this mere degeneracy but I also feel sorry for both parties.

Also, not sure if you guys remember but there was a strange mix of this sub-culture with social justice with the whole give your money to women hashtag. One of its main proponents, Bardot Smith is a weird fusion between strident social justice and bratty findom:

https://modelviewculture.com/pieces/giveyourmoneytowomen-the-end-game-of-capitalism

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/8gkxd5/give-your-money-to-women-its-simple-284

https://medium.com/@ericawest/give-...cal-feminism-in-an-age-of-choice-2d4a0bb40dae

https://twitter.com/bardotsmith?lang=en

She's politicised this whole gig in a weird way.
 
Alec Benson Leary said:
Why don't these hoes just beg for money on their patreon and not deliver on promised tier goals like any normal unemployed hipster? I see no reason the wheel had to be re-invented.
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For that to happen, these bitches would have to promise something and not deliver. By openly saying that they want money and they'll give nothing in return for it, they are keeping their promises.
 
It strikes me as some bizarre cuckoldry fetish crossed with masochism, only without sex being involved.

These guys get off on being, in a financial and somewhat inceptional sense, whores to whores. My take is that they actually get off on being money sponges to women who treat them like shit because, to them, this is like paying to be degraded, only without involving any actual sex, because all they really need is the emotional release from the degradation, not the physical aspect.
 
DuckSucker said:
I feel a little bad for the guys into this in the same way you feel bad for people who are exceptional. In a way, its heartbreaking. It's sad. I posted about it once before, there was a "weirdest kink" thread. But theyre the ultra-undesirable men, too, the type of guy who ruins a girl's day just by existing when the girl has to deal with them or be around them even for a while. You arent gonna findany real shred or glint of sympathetic feelings for these guys, in a lot of ways the women are the victims.
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That's retarded. You're retarded. It's niche sex work, and there are no 'victims'. Paying over the odds to get your rocks off is part and parcel of being a john, and the price goes up when you have a bizarre, niche fetish. If they don't like the pricetag on it, they'll walk away. Getting emotionally fucked up and spending time with unpleasant guys is part and parcel of doing sex work, just like being a cop or a therapist or dozens of other emotionally draining professions, and anyone stupid enough to get into sex work thinking 'lol this'll be easy af and has no downsides' could have avoided that by simply asking any sex worker ever. It's not exactly a secret. Every hooker I've ever known could have told them that.

Findom is a bizarre niche fetish. It's not a license for talentless thots to get money just by asking for it. If you're not bringing a+ findom game to the table, you will get no customers and no money, because the fetish is niche af and the amount of softcock cucks who want to give their money to a shrill harpy is nowhere near close to the amount of shrill harpies who want softcock cucks to give them money for nothing. It's a cucks market out there, and giving those cucks exactly what they're paying for while acting like you're a grasping bitch giving them nothing is a fine art.
 
RAPE MY WALLET DADDY


Required viewing on the subject. Also @Null needs to institute a fag tax, he'd rake in the skrilla.
 
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If only I did not possess the quality of shame... Man these girls have none of it. I can't wrap my head around how this is a fetish. So you get off paying girls money and all they do is send you some bitchy messages about how they need more so they can go shopping? You could even show fake pics. These guys probably don't even care as long as they can get off to being financially dominated.
 
Am I the only who finds this shit disturbing and a bit disgusting.

It gives me a disturbing thought at some Beta man who has never had any real contact with woman, dumping all of his savings, his earnings, everything, just to please his dick and a woman who doesn't think of anything of him.

Hell it's even worse if the guy is in a terrible spot in his life like raising kids and he just dumps all the money to these women as him and his kids starve to satisfy a fetish

Makes me feel oddly upset
 
Totem Sanic said:
God help us all if Chris finds out about this kind of shit. You think his e-begging was awful now......
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I think Phil is more likely than Chris to do this because it affirms how he's an evil translatinx and how he's marginalised into sex work by the cistem.

Dynastia said:
Findom is a bizarre niche fetish. It's not a license for talentless thots to get money just by asking for it. If you're not bringing a+ findom game to the table, you will get no customers and no money, because the fetish is niche af and the amount of softcock cucks who want to give their money to a shrill harpy is nowhere near close to the amount of shrill harpies who want softcock cucks to give them money for nothing. It's a cucks market out there, and giving those cucks exactly what they're paying for while acting like you're a grasping bitch giving them nothing is a fine art.
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This. It really is a buyer's market, and they aren't getting nothing for their money, they're getting the feeling of not being in control for their money, and of being humiliated absolutely.

It's also illusory to say that the average pay pig is a neckbeard basement dweller. They're most likely to have disposable income otherwise they'll not be able to afford it. Do you think that a findomme is going to satisfy herself with the leftovers from some sped's tugboat? Not bloody likely.

This also isn't news to me. I first read about findom in Bizarre magazine in 2006 (i.e. when it wasn't shit) and they had exactly the same thing behind it - it's wealthy men who get off on being out of control. Some of them literally give over their credit card numbers and three digit security codes to the domme.
 
Ginger Piglet said:
I think Phil is more likely than Chris to do this because it affirms how he's an evil translatinx and how he's marginalised into sex work by the cistem.



This. It really is a buyer's market, and they aren't getting nothing for their money, they're getting the feeling of not being in control for their money, and of being humiliated absolutely.

It's also illusory to say that the average pay pig is a neckbeard basement dweller. They're most likely to have disposable income otherwise they'll not be able to afford it. Do you think that a findomme is going to satisfy herself with the leftovers from some sped's tugboat? Not bloody likely.

This also isn't news to me. I first read about findom in Bizarre magazine in 2006 (i.e. when it wasn't shit) and they had exactly the same thing behind it - it's wealthy men who get off on being out of control. Some of them literally give over their credit card numbers and three digit security codes to the domme.
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That's extremely risky. Some Nigerian prince could steal their identity.

If they don't want control of their money just marry a gold digging ho. They'll never see their credit card again.
 
Ginger Piglet said:
I think Phil is more likely than Chris to do this because it affirms how he's an evil translatinx and how he's marginalised into sex work by the cistem.
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:late: King Spud has already lied about being a findom and having paypigs. Then in usual fashion immediately forgot about it and went back to begging his asspatters for money.
 
To be honest, I really don't see the difference between this and cam girls on twitch. For as shit the economy is, can't help but see nonstop niggas dropping dimes on dames who don't even shove oversized beads into their butthole.

Pretty sad, imo.
 
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