Findom - E-prostitution without the sex

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let's say you wanted to do this. do you have to go on a payment processor for sex work, our does it even matter, since you're not sex working them? is it related to bdsm humiliation talk? where do these people advertiser?

I want more content in the thread and I'm wishing like hell I'd found this as a side lube before having to deal with literal corpses. not that I mind that work. but still
 
resonancer said:
let's say you wanted to do this.
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Are you asking for a friend? :tomgirl:

resonancer said:
do you have to go on a payment processor for sex work, our does it even matter, since you're not sex working them?
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Yes, payment processors matter. Findom is considered a fetish, and because of its adult nature and the subsequent high-risk customers it brings, many processors won't bother with it.
(There are a lot of fraud and chargebacks made; similar to gambling, another high-risk adult business)

You also have to appreciate how many processors will show the names of both parties involved during the payment. Because of privacy concerns, it is strongly recommended to stay clear of your run-of-the-mill paypal service.

resonancer said:
is it related to bdsm humiliation talk?
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Yes. The dom will make the sub feel worthless and expendable. It is most certainly humiliation.

Compare the kind of people who seek out findoms with those who want sugar babies. There are similarities, but the former attracts subs who want to be abused, and the latter attracts doms who want to care and protect their "baby."

resonancer said:
where do these people advertiser?
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Whatever site allows them to (usually adult-friendly sites). Fetish sites have them; social media sites like tumblr and Twitter; even ordinary dating sites, which is :horrifying:, and usually ends up pissing a lot of people off. And rightly so.
 
Here's some more cringeworthy blogs from Tumblr's findom community:
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I sure hope by "reward" she means she'll actually put some fucking clothes on.
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Yeah I can tell that ivyrosedomme truly is a charming individual, isn't she?
 
resonancer said:
let's say you wanted to do this. do you have to go on a payment processor for sex work, our does it even matter, since you're not sex working them? is it related to bdsm humiliation talk? where do these people advertiser?

I want more content in the thread and I'm wishing like hell I'd found this as a side lube before having to deal with literal corpses. not that I mind that work. but still
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First, you don't want to do this, get a minimum wage job instead.

Secondly, the payment processor situation is tricky. If you post anything related to sex-work along with a paypal address, they will ban your account immediately upon seeing it. They ban so quickly and firmly that it's a common game among people who hate findoms to trick newbie dommes into publicly posting their paypal names so that they can make archive links and send them to paypal. The same is true of Venmo, but to a lesser extent - they just don't act as quickly.

That said, the upside to Paypal is that the money shows in your account immediately and can be extracted immediately and that's very important, so once you're positive that a guy isn't just wasting your time or up to some sketchy shit, you probably want to switch over to Paypal. Another issue with Paypal, though, is that it's tricky to set up an account that's connected to your bank account without also having it reveal your real name to the person sending money. You can make a business account and hide your identity that way but most of these broads aren't smart enough to figure out how to do such things (Or to realize that they need to do such things.)

Other payment processors require potential clients to set up accounts, get their credit cards verified, link their bank accounts, etc, then the money takes awhile to receive, then it's a few days before you can actually remove the money and it's all a huge hassle and takes away from the immediacy that weird ass paypigs like. But, you can't get banned from them so...it's really about figuring out who is trustworthy and who isn't and how much of a risk you want to take with any potential new client.
 
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reptile0009 said:
Here's some more cringeworthy blogs from Tumblr's findom community:
Yeah I can tell that ivyrosedomme truly is a charming individual, isn't she?
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The doms arent really doing anything wrong, you cant really make fun of them or this shit, or even call her a "shitty person". Honestly in a way she's not wrong, either. For her life, or in general.

But more importantly I see #SPH in one of those tweets and that's pretty fucking funny.
 
I have the feeling I earn more money from dead men than the best of these do from living ones.

I really can't see much wrong with this whole situation though- it's not like they're promising things they don't deliver. unlike some of the scam cows we have had here.
 
Now, eventually I'm sure we'll find furry findom accounts. That will signal the end times.
 
reptile0009 said:
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Yeah I can tell that ivyrosedomme truly is a charming individual, isn't she?
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It looks like a pigeon shat in her belly button.
 
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So do you guys think that these "findommes" are just con artists trying to scam lonely, desperate men out of their money, or are some of them women who are suffering from pretty severe entitlement issues? Like do they honestly think that because they have tits and vaginas that means they're entitled to a man's money without doing anything to earn it (unless you count being a cunt to people online as something)?
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It's a fetish. I still don't get how people on the internet are struggling to understand something as simple as 'these are prostitutes catering to a niche fetish'. The men are not being scammed. They're seeking out prostitutes who cater to their fetish and paying them for it. The women are not (necessarily) entitled bitches. They are assuming a persona that caters to the sexual fetish of the clientele they cater to.

Like shit, if you see a crackwhore on the side of the road do you think "Wow that woman must really love wearing almost nothing and sucking strange cocks in winter?" No, dummy, she just needs that crack.
 
What do you think of this shit?

Men are giving money to young pretty girls, for absolutely nothing. For pure humiliation and kink. Some of the women are not even attractive, I bet that adds more to the humiliation.

Some dominants will ignore the paypig even after they recieve cash. Other dominants will play games or give their submissives a bit of attention. Different tastes for different submissives.

Anyway I'm getting into building a website for this niche, I want to cash in on the beta bucks too.
 
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